The Truth with Trinity

Some women claim they only want a man for "physical contact" then after he is done he must leave - but does this particular mindset come from subconsciously knowing that the man that you are dealing with only wants "you" for sex. So to feel in control, you say that you only want him for sex, as a power move- when the reality is you really want a relationship- but you know that he does not?

Would any U.S Political( Republican or Democratic) side be beneficial to blacks ?

You are a beautiful woman. Could a "B" and a "Queen"  ever co-exist?  Never disrespect yourself again by calling yourself such a horrific name. Your value is worth more than diamonds.

Some black men happen to be misguided from the elder black men of our communities, who teach them to have as many women as possible( the pimp/ player ideology,)  but fail to teach them consequences to their actions. As the old saying goes, "its cheaper to keep her!" couldn't be further from the truth . Let's take a look at how the failure and refusal to stand up and be a man to their women, and their children has cost them a fortune, and at times their freedom. 

Poor advice from (some) elderly black women( due to their preconceived notions of prior bad experiences with men ) passed down to young black women on  the in's and out's of how to tit for tat with the black man,  that not only destroys the young women's lives- by teaching them methods that  keep them trapped in a system that only cares to profit from their errors - that further destroys; not only them, the black men they involve themselves with, and any future offspring had- keeping the cycle of generational poverty going. 

Black children were born to single black mothers at a rate of 23.6 %  during 1965. Currently, in 2020 the percentage has increased to over 72% .  With a system in place  ready to profit off  of our dysfunctional practices that have been passed down from one generation to another -lets take a deeper look.

What woman doesn't like a financially supportive man? But when it comes down to the amount of monetary gain, or the way in which means that they make their money- we need to be mindful in how we encourage our men to make their ends meet.

 Many black women mourn over a deceased son or child's father - or go to visit them behind bars. Never fully understanding that the "street life" although produces a certain amount of financial gain in the beginning - isn't worth the children that grow up without access to their fathers and the many mothers that long to see their sons once again.

We can't continue to cry when they become incarcerated- or even worse dead. The first tear must drop at the first moment, we see our sons, and young men engaging in activities  that will ultimately lead to their destruction.

So, it's this thing in the hood, that if you don't speak slang/ or up on the current Ebonics that you are trying to sound white or better than being black, when the reality is that the majority of blacks in America that are the descendants of slaves -  do not have a native tongue-  and thus forth are left to speak English(which is a European Language.) 

Furthermore, every time you accuse a black woman or man(boy or girl) of speaking "white" instead of talking  intelligible-  what you are basically saying (without even realizing it) is that, "black people only seem fit to speak broken English(slang-unintelligible)" and that, "in order to enunciate or fluently speak English is only fitting to whites." 

It's okay to have a language that you share in common within your community, friends, and family. But when it comes to the American Society and advancing in life- one must be able to adjust and adapt to achieve!

~The Truth with Trinity~

On one hand black women are often depicted as being too loose, too quick to have sex- yet the same ones that accuse her of these actions, often times will get upset if a sister is the type to want marriage( or at least abstain from physical intimacy for a length of time to get to know a guy) or decline in making hasty decisions. She's the one that has disciplined herself to make it to the top of what she wanted, while other black women are accused of wanting "handouts" and "gold diggers." News Flash gentlemen - you can't have it both ways............

So many black men claim that their children's mother(allegedly bitter,) block them from taking time to spend with their children- make sure you are not the real reason behind, "why you are being denied unsupervised visitation."   . It is your duty and obligation as a father(mothers as well) to protect and lay down your life( if need be) for your child. Don't leave that job in the hands of another. # Accountability # selflessness #Protection # Placing value on our children over materials