Many Black Men have expressed the need for their child to have a biological father in their lives. Also, how this effects the child emotionally and psychologically. The concern is all fine and well- but where was that same level of concern when Black fathers decide that the street life, crime, and other women are more important than their own family( or child.)
If the Black Man doesn't feel obliged to answer emergency calls, provide wellness checks,( in regards to their child's safety) spend time, attention, and contribute to the financial affairs of his children for significant amounts of time- especially anytime he may feel that other activities are more important-. Then should the mother be ultimately responsible or obligated for the father to see their child?
Bottom line is: if the father doesn't feel obligated to see his children - should the mother be obligated in making sure he has the option to see them?
Furthermore, it is one thing for a relationship or marriage not to work out; besides, every decent man deserves to be a father to their child. Which should only be a "plan B " option.
But, since when did the Black man begin to believe himself to be such an "excellent father" making the "plan B" option of single father hood- "option A" Almost as if to say, that he never had any intention of creating a legit family in the first place.
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