The Truth with Trinity

The Black Man is taught that he has no control over what his women and children do.

The Black Man is no longer physically mutilated for the most part- but now it has become psychological.

Every  time the Black Man is presented with issues, he can no longer shift blame to his Black Woman, and still expect to be looked at as a man. 

The  Black Man does have women who will stand along side of him.

But he must make the necessary transition from" helpless" to "warrior" from being the "tail" to  "the head."

The Black Man must work with( other Black men)and the Black Woman to develop a new reality.

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The Black Man, ever since slavery was taught that if he or his women and children: needed housing, food, or clothing- that they should ask the slaveholder for it. Thus forth rendering another man in control of the Black Man's reality.

The Black man finds himself upset. He feels the need to be head and in control but doesn't know how. 

The Black man has been conditioned to be insensitive to his woman's needs and cry. Where as other nationalities of men understand that if they don't want their women to ask other men that they must handle the issues themselves.

When the Black Woman naturally comes to the Black Man with issues that he should be capable to solve. He often gaslights her by calling her crazy or bitter to deflect from the reality that he doesn't "have" or was never "shown or raised " to know  the answer. 

The Black Man is like the Lion that has been encaged all his life - and doesn't realize not only his own power & strength; but that his capturer's are hoping he never realizes it either.

The very same thing that the Black Man denies -is what keeps him trapped in the curse!

(his duty & unity) 

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Many young Black Women are growing up in homes where they either haven't been informed on what components are needed to become a lady. Or even worse, may have been influenced or encouraged to act uncivilized.

The young Black female must be taught as a child to set her expectations high on not only education- but to become that of a wife instead of  just another woman with a child. Not only must she be taught on setting her sights high upon matrimony- but also the critical elements that " qualify" or "disqualify" her from such eligibility. 

The Black Woman lives in a age that she can become a pilot, senator, teacher, scientist, or scholar. Yet, there still exists  the negative depictions of Black Women that are yet to be fully debunked. 

The Black Woman can no longer parade herself nationwide in such a manner, then wonder why she finds difficulty in obtaining respect- no more than a person who submerges themselves in a body of water, then wonder why they have become drenched.

Women like Madam C.J Walker, Rosa Parks, and Mary Mcleod Bethune(plus many more,) set ground breaking legacies that helped develop,  mold, and change the face of how Black Women were viewed and would be remembered.

One- hundred years from now - what will we be remembered for?

 Which one will you choose - Black Woman?

~The Truth with Trinity~

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Helping black people to heal isn't limited to just one side( male or female) nor can it be simply explained.

The only way Blacks will move forward, is accepting the fact that topics may be discussed that may prove to be   challenging to mentally digest; and that not every word comes from a place of hate - just because it doesn't " tickle your ears." this goes for both Black Men and Women.

This episode encourages us as  Black women to give thought to our actions . And how our actions are a direct reflection as to who we are as women-- the effects our habits have on our children, and the consequences thereof. 

Also, what generational patterns to be aware of, and what  to look out for in our daily living.

The image of the Black Woman will not correct itself. 

The time is now!

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Many Black Women exclaim not "needing a man" not realizing that her mental and physical health diminishes while trying to do the job of two. Meanwhile our children are suffering from a multitude of issues- especially the Black son.

The methods switch from decade to decade and from century to century in how to annihilate the black race. Could the last step be: to have both Black Men & Black Women to finish each other off?

Countless women, have yelled, beaten, and destroyed their sons while simultaneously thinking about the son's father.

How will God give the Black man back his authority if he thinks his women and children's affair are not of  his concern- to blame a "feminist movement" or simply say  that Black Women don't want male authority- when in actuality, many Black Women have never had it.

I encourage Black Men: that before they write Black Women off as simply  being unable to accept male authority- that they make a 100% conscious effort to deliver  and introduce  positive male protection  and authority. Show Black women how it can help her instead of hurt her. And if that proves to be difficult, start with your daughters.

If the Black Man wants his Black Son to survive, he must actively be there, to not only balance and cultivate  the household in which his son lives - but  also to help stabilize the woman that raises him too.

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One (unconscious) brother stated, "that there seems to be a whole lot of damaged Black broads." 

 What the Black man has yet to understand- is that by calling the Black woman out her name and such  negative adjectives- that he often manifests and calls forth the  very negative attributes, he claims to dislike in the Black woman. 

 Not only does it lower the esteem of the black woman but it is also a direct reflection about how the Black man feels about his inner self.  For the man who looks for flowers but claims he cannot find any, when he has smashed them all !  

#ThetruthwithTrinity #BlackWomen #BlackMen ~The Truth with Trinity~

 Question: Do you know the difference between our Black ancestors from the late 1800's up until the late 1960's- and the current Black People as of now?

Answer: The difference is that Black people back then knew their lives were in danger at any given moment, and currently- Black people have forgotten, and now fall under the veil and illusion that they are as free as everyone. Which is why so many black men and women are shocked when reality sets in - about how they are treated differently.

It is already quite difficult enough that as a person of color- one doesn't necessarily have to be doing anything but," breathing" to be harassed or murdered.

But the sooner we come out of the matrix and come towards the light,  that the same laws don't apply to all, and have a fine print underneath- is the sooner we can stop making decisions that expose us to further opposition. And spend more time making decisions that will steer us in a more productive direction.

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Could it be argued that a new method of Jim Crow has taken the form of sexism, but due to our  inner turmoil; we failed to take notice?

This episode takes a closer look at things we as Black people may overlook for acceptance and out of hatred, whereas other races of people would never- if the opposite was done to them.

Is sexism the new, "Jim Crow" under the guise of having special "privileges or treatment?" 

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Are majority of Black men really as shocked as they seem, at the current state of Black women as a whole?

As if he doesn't know why, or as if she has become this way all on her own?

Are Black Men using the excuse that the feminist movement is solely responsible for the damaged mentality of Black Women- as a coverup to sweep underneath the rug the decades of mishandling of Black Women?

Have Black Men forgotten about the many years that Black Women once held them down?

Can we argue that the Black woman has officially for the most part become, " burned out?"

Did the Black Man play the Black woman?

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Have Black Men ever given any thought as to where did the ideal come from ; or when did it ever become  popular to kill their own Black brothers ?

If the Black Man doesn't have compassion for anyone, it needs to be for  his fellow Black Man. He must learn to be empathetic to a man who may leave behind a family that leaves more Black Boys  fatherless that continues on more generations that show anger and resentment to other  Black Men. Never giving full thought that when you kill another Black Man you are killing someone else's son. Or reverse the situation and place yourself at the barrel of a trigger- wouldn't you want another brother to have a ounce of sympathy for your life. 

Why does the Black Man feel a need to kill his own men in order to live?

In order for the Black Man to save his own  son he must love his fellow brother as he loves himself.

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