The Truth with Trinity

Throughout slavery, it was a method of torture and punishment; for one Black Man to whip, tar feather, or kill another Black Man for no reason at all. If he refused to do so then his life would end. As Black Men- how much of those practices have traveled down your bloodline?

Why does the Black Man feel a need to kill his own brethren with such intensity?

If Black Men refuse to find value in the lives of other Black Men; how will they truly ever, inside the lives of their own women and children?

The biggest distraction for Black Men( in achieving a higher form of self) is hatred and self division. Which in retrospect, keeps the Black Man blind- and constantly walking down a path of darkness.

When will Black Men start to benefit their own society?

Why does the   Black Man continue to view other Black Men as the enemy? 

When his fellow brother is all he truly has.

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We use the rationale, that many marriages end in divorce that involve children ,as a justification to our dysfunction within the Black community. Also,  as an excuse to never get married. Which also gives us the excuse of never reaching for the sky, or having higher expectations for ourselves.

If Black Men and Women started dating with a purpose(i.e, marriage, commitment and raising a stable family for future children) in mind instead of just dating for sex - We'd be better off as a people. 

And if you have already made certain errors or mistakes - why not sacrifice the time that it takes to raise your children not to  continue the same behaviors.

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Even though some may have never picked up a bible- the average Black man can quote verbatim on how women are supposed to follow a mans lead and came from his rib; but develop selective memory about the part where God stated that a Man was responsible for the land, women, and children- and that he should work by the sweat of his brow .

The Black man can no longer pacify himself  by using the excuse that all Black women just want head of household, without realizing that many Black men willfully left their home for one reason or another. And that some women had to make a choice: either pick up  the slack a man left behind  to survive, or die!

Many Black men have a mentality that teaches them to only worry about their life- and not that of their children's children -children. Because many Black men's father never worried about their  lifestyle up until and after adulthood nor the financial situation they leave their children in.

If Black men could  understand that the most important part of his life is not only when he is still  living, but decisions he makes that will benefit or effect his children's lives more than a 100 years into the future. It is only then, can the Black Man truly understand the significance and the meaning behind the reasoning of him needing to become Head of Household.

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Many " U.S" Citizens are claiming that as usual, Black People are "over reacting" simply because they are calling  or referring the horse reins that are being used to attack Black Haitians at the border " a whip" - as if that denotes or justifies  the fact of the reasoning behind the Border patrol men using his rein on the backs of Haitians in the first place!

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Why does the Black Woman offer sex?

Because she hasn't been taught how to offer other skills and qualities to attract with.

The Black  Woman was conditioned to "gain attention," because "love" was something she could never obtain.

The Black Woman must gain the confidence to find out which man will love who she is from the inside vs the others who like  only what they see from the outside.

The Black Woman must work on her inner beauty in order to find out the truth.

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(!!!!!!A special thank you to all my listeners: as September 22nd marks 1 full year of The Truth with Trinity's Motivational Podcast!!!!!!! )

What actions are both Black Women and Men committing that still deem them as inferior?

For it isn't "who we are" but what we continue to do"  and refuse to change -is as to the reasoning behind us remaining  inferior.

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The Black Man complains that he can't walk in America with the sense of safety. Yet, he hasn't answered why he can't feel safe while walking amongst his own brethren within his own communities. Because after all, if one can't feel safe while being around those that look just like you- then where can you truly feel safe at.

Why do we continue to look for someone else to provide an environment for us, that we should be able to provide for ourselves such as:

Clean sidewalks

non-graffiti buildings

non urinated sidewalks, hallways, sides of buildings and alleyways

safe pathways for our kids to walk safe to and from school

A non- violent environment within Black Communities

Other demographics & places of residence's are called "neighborhoods" meanwhile predominantly Black communities are called "hoods" because we don't have unity, trust, or a sense of duty and responsible to look out for the people that live next to us, neither do we feel a need to maintain the atmosphere that in which we live inside.

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There is plenty of online material that states that the type of men that Black Women are known for dating are thugs. But hardly any of the material go into detail, or educates our young Black Women on "why" they shouldn't date a certain kind of guy. Furthermore, what ramifications that will be placed not only upon herself; but her children's lives as well.

As women, we can tend to have a," we can fix a man" mentality, when in actuality we need to accept a man for who he is without having unrealistic expectations of trying to make him fit into what we want him to be. And if we can't accept who they are- learning to have the confidence, courage, and self esteem to walk away.

We also must change the things that we may  find "attractive" if we want a successful family.

When the Black Woman truly believes she deserves better- it will indeed motivate the Black Man to become better!

~ The Truth with Trinity~`

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One of the main practices that keeps Black people at the lower end of the totem pole; is our black youth finding difficulty in differentiating between  right from wrong. How could our children possibly know, if we as parents, are not only influencing them on, "how to " but also engage in activities with our child(ren) - that  we're supposed to protect them from doing.

Then we become frustrated when today's youth are found disrespecting adult authority- all because they have been raised to think  that being an adult is, " a joke."

What our children, need is guidance that includes sound morals and consequences for negative behavior. They need love, stability, and a sense of stern judgement from their parents. Children come out in the long run feeling more loved by parents (mother & father) that set up boundary points and showed positive examples while growing up.

Although as a child ages they should be able to utilize a "open door" policy with their parents. A parent should wait till after adulthood to be their child's friend.

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Many of today's Black Women reduce the art of femininity to something as simple as donning a dress, or wearing makeup, or walking with a "switch" in their walk. Yet deny other mannerisms that are included, due to feelings of being ashamed and vulnerable.

Meanwhile Black Men, continue to ask questions that they are a big factor in solving. 

Has the Black Man provided an environment where Black girls and women felt that  they could "be" or "feel" feminine within?

From a societal and structural standpoint: The Black female must be provided a area and space where she can concentrate and practice being feminine- also, she must see the men that surround her from a position of protection. 

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