The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast

In this deeply moving episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, host Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC, sits down with Melissa Miller, a Stage 3 breast cancer survivor, senior graphic designer, and founder of Fearlessly Forward, to explore what happens when life as you know it completely shatters — and how you rebuild from the inside out.

Melissa was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer just weeks before her wedding, despite living a healthy lifestyle and being a cancer advocate herself. In this raw and honest conversation, she shares what it was like to go from supporting others through cancer to becoming a patient navigating chemotherapy, cold capping, hair loss, major surgeries, and the emotional toll of watching her body and identity change in real time.

But cancer was only one chapter of her story. Melissa also opens up about the collapse of her marriage, the devastating loss of her brother, and the long road of emotional recovery that followed. Together, Mindi and Melissa talk about grief, trauma, hormonal shifts after cancer treatment, and how these experiences deeply impact mental health in midlife.

This episode goes far beyond survival — it's about post-traumatic growth, spiritual healing, community support, and turning pain into purpose. Melissa shares how she found her voice again, reclaimed her power, and built Fearlessly Forward to help others navigate life's hardest seasons with courage and clarity.

If you are navigating illness, grief, divorce, or a major identity shift in midlife, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, supported, and empowered.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Resilience and Healing

01:24 Facing a Life-Altering Diagnosis

03:50 Understanding Breast Cancer Staging

05:44 The Journey Through Chemotherapy

08:12 The Impact of Hair Loss on Identity

10:35 Navigating Mortality and Mindset Shifts

14:10 Surgery and Reconstruction Decisions

18:40 Celebrating Milestones in Recovery

20:32 The Emotional Toll of Physical Changes

22:43 Complications and Delays in Treatment

25:16 Exploring Clinical Trials and Innovations

27:29 The Promise of Immunotherapy

30:09 Navigating Hormonal Changes Post-Cancer

34:55 The Emotional Toll of Cancer Treatment

39:07 The Impact of Cancer on Relationships

42:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery After Cancer

46:36 Facing Grief and Loss

51:40 Finding Hope Through Faith

59:34 Finding Spiritual Connection in Healing

01:01:40 The Journey of Healing and Support

01:03:03 Facing Physical Challenges and Surgeries

01:06:33 Building Confidence and Self-Identity

01:11:30 Embracing Change and Personal Growth

01:15:30 The Power of Gratitude and Acceptance

01:19:24 Transforming Pain into Purpose

01:24:30 Launching Fearlessly Forward: A New Chapter

Melissa Miller is a Stage 3 breast cancer survivor, senior graphic designer, and aspiring writer. Her life was forever changed after a devastating cancer diagnosis, profound personal loss, and the unraveling of her marriage. From that "lifequake," Melissa emerged with clarity, resilience, and a powerful commitment to turn pain into purpose.

Through her platform Fearlessly Forward, Melissa uses her voice and lived experience to inspire others navigating grief, illness, identity loss, and emotional healing. Her story is one of courage, spiritual growth, and the radical choice to keep going — even when life breaks you open.

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Hosted by:

Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC

Founder of Midlife Media 716, LLC

Host of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast

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The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast with Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC

In this deeply moving episode, Mindi Lobuzzetta sits down with Dr. Gregory Loewen, DO, FCCP, a board-certified pulmonary and critical care physician turned psychedelic-assisted therapy provider, to explore trauma, healing, and the future of mental health.

After more than 30 years in medicine, Dr. Loewen made a courageous shift into psychedelic therapy following his own journey through trauma, addiction, and recovery. He shares how unresolved trauma often shows up as depression, anxiety, and emotional disconnection, and how psychedelic medicine — including ketamine, psilocybin, MDMA, and LSD — can help people access deeper healing by quieting the brain's Default Mode Network, allowing for new perspectives and emotional breakthroughs.

Together, Mindi and Dr. Loewen discuss how experiential and trauma-informed psychedelic therapy helps individuals reconnect with their inner child, process long-held wounds, and restore a sense of connection — both within themselves and with others. They also explore the powerful role of nature, safety, and human connection in the healing process.

Dr. Loewen practices Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) in Amherst, NY alongside a team of trauma-informed therapists and serves as a consultant for the Psychedelic Science Initiative at Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center, helping advance research into ketamine and psilocybin therapies. He also shares insight into the upcoming psychedelic-assisted therapy training he is co-leading with Jenna Witkowski, LCSW.

This episode offers a grounded, compassionate look at how psychedelic medicine is reshaping trauma recovery and mental health care.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Gregory Loewen

01:35 Journey into Mental Health and Psychedelic Medicine

06:51 The Connection Between Trauma and Mental Health

12:44 Personal Experiences and the Unexplored Room

20:42 The Mind-Body Connection and Healing

24:12 Nature's Role in Healing

29:05 Finding Lost Parts of Ourselves

34:36 Embracing Emotions and Self-Discovery

36:05 Navigating Emotions and Vulnerability

38:40 Psychedelics and Mental Health

44:41 Understanding the Default Mode Network

51:11 Healing Through New Perspectives

57:27 The Future of Psychedelic Therapy

01:01:01 Personal Stories and Professional Connections

Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy Provider

Pulmonary & Critical Care Specialist

🌐 Website: https://www.gregoryloewen.com/

🌐 CHI Website: https://www.healingintelligence.org

🌐 Roswell Park Cancer Inst. Clinical Trial Link: https://www.roswellpark.org/research/psychedelic-science-initiative

📍 Practice Location: Amherst, NY

🧠 Affiliation: Psychedelic Science Initiative – Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center

A Live Online Training for Clinicians (contact Jenna Witkowski on their website to sign up for training).

Date: Friday February 27, 2026 & Saturday February 28, 2026 Time: 9 AM- 5:30 PM EST (both days) 14 hours of direct training time Format: Live Online via Zoom (sessions will be recorded for later viewing) Facilitators: Dr. Gregory Loewen (Physician) & Jenna Witkowski, LCSW

🎙 Host: Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC-D

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Growing Up in an Alcoholic Home: How to Heal and Break Generational Trauma

What happens when you grow up in an alcoholic home — and then become a parent yourself?

In this deeply moving and honest episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, host Mindi Lobuzzetta sits down with Tara Heims, a Buffalo native, former teacher, and mom of two teenage girls, to explore the long-lasting emotional impact of growing up with an alcoholic parent and the powerful choice to break generational cycles.

Tara shares her personal journey as an adult child of an alcoholic, reflecting on how chaos, emotional unpredictability, and silence shaped her early life — and how awareness, therapy, and intentional parenting have helped her begin to heal. Together, Mindi and Tara talk about the invisible wounds many children of alcoholics carry into adulthood, including hyper-vigilance, people-pleasing, perfectionism, emotional disconnection, and struggles within relationships.

This conversation goes beyond labels and diagnoses. It dives into what it really looks like to parent differently, love differently, and finally choose emotional safety — for yourself and for the next generation.

If you've ever wondered:

• Why you're always the strong one

• Why you feel responsible for everyone else

• Why relationships feel harder than they should

• Or why midlife feels like an emotional awakening

This episode will resonate deeply.

Whether you are a child of an alcoholic, someone healing from generational trauma, or a parent trying to create a healthier emotional legacy, this episode offers compassion, insight, and hope.

✨ Healing is possible.

✨ The cycle can end.

✨ And midlife is where so many of us finally begin to choose ourselves.

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In this powerful and thought-provoking episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, host Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC, sits down with Jenna Witkowski, LCSW, a licensed clinical social worker, psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, and founding member of The Center for Healing Intelligence (CHI).

Together, they explore the rapidly evolving world of psychedelic-assisted therapy, including Jenna's work in clinical trials at Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center, and how emerging psychedelic research is reshaping the future of mental health, trauma healing, and emotional wellness.

Jenna shares her deeply personal journey into this field, the critical importance of set and setting, and how modalities such as ketamine-assisted therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and trauma-informed care intersect with psychedelic work. The conversation also highlights the role of organizations like MAPS in legitimizing research and expanding access to evidence-based psychedelic treatments.

This episode offers a grounded, educational discussion about how psychedelic therapies may support midlife transitions, healing unresolved trauma, and fostering deeper self-understanding — while emphasizing ethical practice, therapeutic alliance, and client safety.

Whether you're curious about the science behind psychedelics, navigating midlife change, or interested in the future of psychotherapy, this conversation invites curiosity, openness, and reflection.

• Psychedelics can be powerful tools for healing and self-discovery when used ethically and intentionally

• Set and setting are foundational to safe and effective psychedelic-assisted therapy

• Organizations like MAPS have played a pivotal role in advancing legitimate psychedelic research

• Psychedelic therapies may help individuals process trauma in ways traditional therapy cannot

• Therapist presence and therapeutic alliance are essential in psychedelic-assisted work

• Psychedelic sessions differ significantly from traditional talk therapy

• Curiosity, education, and openness are key when exploring psychedelic science

• Psychedelics may offer insight and healing during midlife transitions

• Research in this field continues to expand with promising implications for mental health

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🌐 Website Jenna Witkowski: https://www.jennawitkowskilcswr.com/

🌐 Website for The Center For Healing Intelligence (CHI): https://www.centerforhealingintelligence.com/

Contact Jenna Witkowski at her website to sign up for her training:

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🌱 Introduction to Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP)

A Live Online Training for Clinicians

Date: Friday February 27, 2026 & Saturday February 28, 2026 Time: 9 AM- 5:30 PM EST (both days) 14 hours of direct training time Format: Live Online via Zoom (sessions will be recorded for later viewing) Facilitators: Dr. Gregory Loewen (Physician) & Jenna Witkowski, LCSW

DISCLAIMER:

This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast and Midlife Media 716, LLC do not endorse or promote illegal substances. Psychedelic-assisted therapies discussed may not be legal, regulated, or appropriate in all locations or for all individuals. Always consult a licensed healthcare professional before pursuing any treatment.

Listener discretion is advised.

"Why Travel Matters in Midlife: Spiritual Awakening, Family Adventures, and Inner Transformation"

Travel in midlife is powerful in ways we rarely talk about. In this episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, host Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC, explores how seeing the world in this chapter of life brings deeper meaning, emotional healing, and spiritual awakening.

From experiencing true wonder for the first time in years, to walking through ancient cities that have survived war, weather, and time itself — travel opens something inside us. It reconnects us to curiosity, perspective, and the parts of ourselves that can get buried under routine and responsibility.

Mindi also reflects on the magic of traveling with loved ones, especially our children — the moments when history class becomes real, when mountains are no longer pictures but experiences, and when standing at 14,000 feet reminds us just how big and beautiful the world truly is.

This episode dives into:

• why midlife is the best time for meaningful travel

• how travel sparks inner transformation and midlife awakening

• the spiritual side of exploring the world (not religion — wonder)

• the emotional and mental health benefits of stepping outside routine

• the priceless joy of sharing travel with our kids and loved ones

If you're craving more purpose, perspective, and connection in your life, this episode will inspire you to explore the world — and yourself — with fresh, unapologetic eyes.

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Thyroid Health, Perimenopause, Hormone Balance & Functional Medicine with Tina M. Wheaton, MS, AGNP-C

In this educational and empowering episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, I sit down with Tina M. Wheaton, a Board-Certified Adult Gerontology Nurse Practitioner specializing in thyroid optimization, perimenopause management, hormone replacement therapy, and functional medicine for those in midlife.

Tina earned both her BSN and MS in Adult-Gerontology Nursing from Daemen College, graduating with advanced clinical training in Adult Health. Her expertise includes:

• Thyroid Optimization & Thyroid Dysfunction Treatment

• Medical Weight Loss Management & Metabolic Health

• Women's Health & Bioidentical Hormone Replacement Therapy

• Perimenopause Symptom Management

• Men's Testosterone Therapy

• Functional Medicine for Chronic Disease & Cardiometabolic Disorders

• Vitamin, Supplement, and Nutritional Therapy for Midlife Wellness

Together, we break down some of the most common—but most misunderstood—issues affecting men and women in their 40s and 50s. We dive into why thyroid disorders are often overlooked, how perimenopause impacts mood, energy, and metabolism, and what today's research says about hormone optimization and functional medicine as tools for restoring balance and improving overall quality of life.

If you've been struggling with fatigue, brain fog, weight changes, mood swings, or feeling unheard in traditional medical settings, this episode will give you clarity, validation, and actionable insight.

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Call 716-631-3555 ext. 4256 — Functional Medicine & Integrative Division, Invision Health.

This episode is a must-listen for any woman navigating midlife who wants to better understand her body, her hormones, and her health.

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The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast — with Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC

Parenting is tough under the best circumstances — but parenting while navigating perimenopause can feel like an emotional and hormonal roller coaster no one warned you about. In this raw and validating episode, host Mindi Lobuzzetta opens up about the real challenges women face when midlife hormones collide with the demands of raising infants, toddlers, little kids, or teens.

From mood swings, irritability, anxiety, overstimulation, and sleep disruption to the constant needs of our children, midlife motherhood can feel overwhelming and isolating. Mindi breaks down why estrogen decline and hormonal fluctuations make everything feel harder, how this impacts patience and stress tolerance, and why so many moms feel like they're "losing it" during perimenopause.

This episode offers compassion, education, and practical support, including:

✨ Understanding the biology behind irritability and overwhelm

✨ Why perimenopause amplifies parenting stress

✨ How to find pockets of self-care even when it feels impossible

✨ Ways to reconnect with your kids during emotionally intense seasons

✨ Options for getting help, hormone support, and advocacy

✨ Permission to admit that midlife motherhood is messy — and beautiful

If you've ever felt overstimulated, touched-out, bone-tired, or guilty for snapping at your kids while your hormones are crashing, this is the episode you needed. You are not failing. You are not alone. You are parenting through one of the most under-discussed transitions of womanhood — and you deserve support.

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The holiday season can feel overwhelming—especially in midlife, when stress, emotional triggers, and long-standing family dynamics collide with one of the busiest times of the year. In this episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, host Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC, helps you understand why the holidays can feel heavier in midlife and how to navigate this season with more calm, clarity, and confidence.

Whether you're dealing with complicated family expectations, the pressure to maintain old traditions, or the desire to create new ones, this episode offers practical tools and mental health strategies to reduce holiday stress and support your emotional well-being.

• Why the holidays feel different during midlife and perimenopause

• The emotional impact of family roles, history, and unspoken expectations

• How stress, anxiety, and people-pleasing show up this time of year

• Ways to set healthy boundaries without guilt

• How to create new traditions that align with who you are now

• Grounding tools and nervous system support for high-stress moments

• How to prioritize peace over perfection

If you're looking for a more intentional, balanced, and joyful holiday season, this episode will help you navigate the chaos, reconnect with what matters, and protect your mental health.

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Perimenopause is chaotic, unpredictable, and downright brutal—and for so many women, it feels like walking through midlife with a blindfold on, wondering, "What fresh hell is this?" In this raw and honest episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, host Mindi Lobuzzetta, LMHC, digs into the messy truth of perimenopause: the night sweats, the brain fog, the anxiety, the rage, the aching cold hands, the sleepless nights, the emotional chaos, and the very real identity shifts that come with this season of life.

As a licensed mental health counselor and two-time cancer survivor, Mindi shares personal stories and clinical insight while naming the symptoms most women experience but rarely talk about. She also breaks down why so many women feel dismissed by medical providers—and what real advocacy looks like when your body feels unfamiliar and out of control.

This episode will make you feel seen. It blends education, humor, lived experience, and truth-telling to help you navigate perimenopause with more clarity, compassion, and power.

In this episode, we cover:

• The "unfiltered" reality of perimenopause symptoms

• Why midlife can feel like a complete identity crisis

• How hormones and stress collide to amplify mood swings and anxiety

• The mental health impact no one warns you about

• How to advocate for yourself in a medical system that often minimizes women's symptoms

• The emotional whiplash of managing life, motherhood, relationships, and a changing brain

• Why perimenopause isn't a crisis… it's an awakening

If you've ever wondered whether you're losing your mind—you're not. You're evolving. And you deserve real information, real support, and a community that gets it.

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🎙️ EPISODE — The Power of Female Friendships in Midlife

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Discover why female friendships in midlife are one of the most powerful sources of healing, confidence, and emotional wellness. In this episode of The Unapologetic MidLife Podcast, host Mindi Lobuzzetta — licensed mental health counselor, author, and two-time cancer survivor — explores how meaningful connection and community can transform your midlife experience.

From the loneliness many felt after COVID-19 to the renewed importance of sisterhood, Mindi shares real stories and insights about how female friendship supports mental health, reduces stress, and builds resilience. Learn how to nurture deeper relationships, overcome barriers to connection, and rediscover your social joy — no matter what season of life you're in.

You'll hear:

• Why strong friendships improve emotional and physical health in midlife

• How to make new friends and rebuild community after disconnection

• The role of laughter, vulnerability, and shared experience in women's well-being

• Tips for sustaining authentic friendships in a busy, modern world

Because when women support one another in midlife, we don't just age — we thrive.

✨ Tune in for raw reflections, practical wisdom, and the reminder that connection is medicine.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only and does not replace professional mental health or medical advice.

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