What's on the other side of this mess ?

What place do you visit when obstacle visits you ? Who do you talk do ? what do you do ?

Well for me the past 3-4 months has  been a happy , hurting and healing process . Not much of a why me God but more of a I need the elevation but I hate the obstacle that God is making me go through . And this is all because I had a perfect plan for the year but my plans were standing in the way of God's plans for my life .

It took me 4 months to remind myself that I have to choose Happiness over everything , I've come to far from where I started from and I just give up like that  .

Despite all that has happened I have to Live with no excuses. Love with no regrets. Trust God with no limits. God will anoint you for something in your future that doesn’t line up with your current condition and I am ready to receive all that is meant for the highest good for everyone else .

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-I had to stop being the driver of my life and start surrendering  _Eunice Themba

-Your interruption is your introduction _ Ps Mike Todd

-The wound is the place where light enters you _ Gabriel Bernstein

-I had to hit another bottom in my life in order to have another awakening _ Eunice Themba

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Hello and welcome to episode 17 of the Unbecoming the Ordinary Podcast .Join me as I break  some of my embarrassing money failure management moments and how I've gotten myself from that scary non-progressive space .

Episode summary :

The Emotional side of money is hardly discussed in public and talking about it can actually make all the difference .Surprisingly Emotions can influence our financial decisions in predictable ways. We tend to be overconfident in our own knowledge and decisions and sometimes we just tend to be under-confident with regard to financial decisions and their outcomes

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-God will not entrust you with more resources until you use what his already given you _Dr Myles Munroe

-Why should I give a tip if nobody gives me a tip for doing my job ? Do you Tip  a Doctor after a consultation ?_Eunice Themba

-Instant Gratification is not a cure to the fact that we grew up in proverty stricken homes. _Eunice Themba

-Do you have an extra flow of income that pays for your party life ? Extra Epenses that are way beyond your financial means ? _Eunice Themba

 

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The Financial series of the Unbecoming The Ordinary is  aimed to help you develop a mindset of financial knowledge through the sharing of books that that myself and others have read .In today's episode I am joined by Nobuhle Blossom who is currently doing her final year of studies at the University of the Witwatersrand. She is also an entrepreneur , Longrich marketer and an aspiring author who is striving to build finance and freedom for herself.

In this short yet informative podcast , she shares some pearls of wisdom on the ways in which the book "Rich dad poor dad" has  shaped her thoughts about money and investing. "You don't need to earn a high income to be on the financial wellness journey" _she says .

From the greatest leaders of the world has seen to your ears .I hope you will enjoy this podcast as much as I did . I enjoy hearing from you guys please feel free to share a comment or an experience with me on :

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From the greatest leaders the world has seen to inventors, entrepreneurs and visionaries… every individual that’s attained success by societies measures began with a clear vision of what they wanted.

After having read this very wonderful book which set me on a good start with regards to my financial journey, it  occurred to me that it would great to share it with The unbecoming community because I truly believe that  we all deserve be holistic when it comes to wealth .

In this short yet informative Podcast, I share some of the most profound tools which Napoleon Hills suggest are a strong base in attractive all round wealth . I share all the the principles that he shares in the book as well as the methods he recommends to get you started on your path to Financial wellness .

 

I enjoy hearing from you guys please be sure to share a comment or experience on how this Episode has impacted you .

 

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Hello and welcome back  , It feels so good to be back on the mic again . On this episode I share a little  on why I had to take and break, Things I did to overcome my adversities and how taking the time off has helped me to reconnect with my personal power .  

Episode Summary :

The closest you can get to a women is to critique her purpose . You are probably wondering why I had to rebrand ,and also have a lot of questions as to why I suddenly went AWOL ,Being an advocate for mindset change  I want to lead from a fearless place and for the past month I was not going to be able to do that because I would be giving from an empty cup instead of a cup that's overflowing  .

The process was fulfilling  and it introduced me to new opportunities . therefore I am grateful  for a divine set up .

Things had to fall apart in order for me to get to a place of honesty and acceptance of where I am .

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Everything is happening for me so that I can be able to help others heal _ Eunice Themba  

Self care is how we fuel our self-love so that we are able to share our love with everyone around us _Heart Talk 

Sometimes God does what we ask for through a process instead of doing it in a moment _ Anonymous 

We are not raised to feel and in all honesty it is okay to take a step back and allow yourself to feel all that needs to be felt at the time _ Anonymous 

External issues are only fixed by internal issues _Eunice Themba

 

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After being too overwhelmed and going through a phase of wanting to drop out of Varsity I thought It would be wise to share a bit about my most recent experience and also touch on the importance of being present in life's moments instead of always wanting to be perfect .Sometimes our busy is not really being busy but we are simply trying to escape life realities that we are faced with .Join me Eunice Themba as I go more into details on this particular topic .

 

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De-cluttering is not all about getting rid of old stuff but also letting go of things emotionally . Everything you do physically also impacts your emotional, mental and spiritual well being . More like exercising it involves the physical body but it defiantly improves the flow of thoughts .

I think we tend to suffer in silence so much to a point that we carry our burdens around and carry on as though everything is okay ! we almost get to a point whereby we are no longer motivated but we are driven by insecurities .

On Today's episode I am joined by Beloved Mphomane who not only talks about Well being but touches on everyday factors that impact our everyday relationships and our putting yourself first can actually save you a lot of heartache in the long run.

 For a build up of knowledge incase you missed our first episode please feel fr to catch up here : https://unbecomingtobecome.podbean.com/mf/play/udthr3/BELOVED_Changing_the_narrative.mp3

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To be intentional is to knowingly choose your direction and shake up the routine on occasion to get your conscious mind working. and when relating to the state of being happy, healthy, or successful it   important to be intentional .

There are some who teach that we should have routines to lessen the burden of all the choices we have to make and there is some truth to that strategy.

But what happens when we allow our routines to run our lives, rather than intentionally engaging them? Autopilot costs us lost opportunities or it may take us completely off course, landing us at a destination we have not envisioned or planned. That happens when we don t consciously or intentionally take over from our autopilot a sin of omission.

 

Join me as I do a rewind session as an intro to Wellness and Well-being

 

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This week we are closing off the Relationship episode my girls Refilwe Matitoane and Shenea Dube. It has been a beautiful Journey filled with Deep teachings and Real life stories that would get one to question themselves as to why exactly they are in a Relationship.

 

Talking with different individuals from different cultures , age groups and believes has taught me that at the end of it all Love is Love is Love.

 

On this particular episode we are laid lack and we seemed to share a lot of laughs than usual . My home girls also decided to put me in a hot seat of questions as they drilled the knowledge out of me . Nonetheless it's a fun filled complex conversation on matters of Marriage differences, relationship goals an more .

 

 

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Andiswa Njoli and TlInfidelity is one of the greatest fears many of us have about intimate relationships, and it can be a traumatic experience characterized by betrayal and injury, or a relief allowing one to finally leave an unfulfilling relationship.

Join me Eunice Themba as I unpack this in detail with Andiswa Njoli and Tlotlo Thoane