The Undesirables

When Tom downloads a new dating app called Feeld and discovers a whole new world of gender identity and sexual orientation, he and Tucker decide it's high time to confront their towering ignorance. What's the difference between demi- and pansexual? What qualifies as skoliosexual? And what could "Two-Spirit" possibly mean, anyway?

Note: We have a lot of laughs along the way, but this is a genuine attempt by two straight white male idiots to learn.

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In the last episode Jenny, Tom's friend turned romantic interest, seemingly dropped off the face of the planet. A few days later, Tom finally gets a response. Tune in to find out what happened to Jenny, and if a friendship can be salvaged after a romantic fallout.

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In the second half of our chat with Kait, Tom tells the story his rom-com gone wrong while Kait weighs in on topics like how to take your own wants into consideration when defining the relationship, the boundaries of ghosting, and the normalcy of post-date paranoia.

Don't forget to check out Tom's new article for Tinder: The Surefire Sign She Likes You.

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In the first of three gripping installments, Tucker brings in official Undesirables senior relationship expert correspondent Kait Emery to dissect and diagnose Tom's latest lady problems. This first case involves a particularly complicated ghosting that leaves both Tucker and Tom more frazzled than usual. Can Kait crack the case?

Don't forget to check out Tom's new article for Tinder: The Surefire Sign She Likes You.

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Comedian Tori Piskin is back with more hilarious stories in this second part. Learn all about whether calling or texting is worse, whether chivalry is dead (and whether it's sexist), whether it's appropriate for "a real Buddhist" to use the N-word on a date with Tori (spoilers: it's not), and whether or not Tucker is ever getting married, anyway.

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Tucker and Tom sit down with Tori Piskin, an incredible comedian who hosts a dating podcast with her mom called Got It From My Mama. They chat about divulging their sex lives to their moms, first date sparks, having sex dreams about your dad (yes, yours), and why Tori absolutely needs to break up with all the boys in her life.

This is the first of two parts! More with Tori coming next week!

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Tom's been going on too many dates and Tucker breaks the news about his breakup with Planetarium Girl. Along the way, we talk about Tom's first (and likely only) date from Bumble, casual physical intimacy, feeling weird about dating multiple people, the final straw and crying LIVE ON AIR.

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Tom sits down with Ben Goodman from CitySwoon to find out what the hell is "speed dating 2.0" and how fast is he going to get rejected by how many people, exactly? Then, Tom and Tucker debrief on how it went, the most notable characters of the night and who Tom brought home with him.

Read Tom's first article for Tinder here: Tinder Diaries: A Single Guy Invests Recklessly In Almost Everyone. His second article, mentioned in the intro, isn't out just yet, but follow along @mrthomasella to read it first. It's a good one.

Special thanks to Peter A! Listen to his My Little Underground music podcast at peteraradio.com.

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Tom and Tucker sit down with Lindsey Metselaar, the amazing and talented host of the hit dating podcast We Met At Acme, for a lively chat about astrology, what it's like to date with a dating podcast, open relationships, and why the hell Tom isn't on Hinge.

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Tucker and Tom sit down with Laura and Dylan Petro, sister-brother duo and two of the founders of Bounce, a new spontaneous dating app where you match and make plans for a date ~tonight~ all without a single message.

They break down how that works, why standard dating apps waste your time, why you should swipe left on someone if you've looked at their profile for more than a minute, drinking vs. coffee dates, night vs. morning dates, how to get out of a bad date in less than half an hour, and getting suspended from Bumble.

[Apologies for the audio quality on this episode. Thanks for bearing with us.]

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