The Undesirables

Tom went on a blind date through Time Out magazine's The Undateables column and has a lot to say about it. Then he sits down with Will Gleason, the matchmaker behind the column, to debrief and find out how this all works, anyway. Meanwhile, Tucker catches up with Tom's blind date, Molly, to find out what it's like to date Tom.

You can read Time Out's The Undateables column about Tom and Molly's date right here: https://www.timeout.com/newyork/sex-and-dating/meet-the-undateables-molly-and-tom

Huge thank yous go out to Will Gleason for playing ball and letting us record the experience, and especially to Molly for putting up with us far longer than she signed up for with The Undateables. Small shout out to Time Out's photographer as well for putting up with Tom's shit.

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Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind who you can find at samliebe.com.

Tucker and his girlfriend *REDACTED* grapple with having different long distance styles, how much to communicate, and how specific a person's "type" can get (answer: very). Tom reaches out to his ex before downloading all the apps again and asking important questions about whether it's OK to filter potential matches by race.

THEN, Tom debuts a new segment: Shoutouts.

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*NOTE* Despite our enthusiasm for saying Planetarium Girl's name in this episode, we decided to censor it. We're fickle. Sue us.

Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind who you can find at samliebe.com.

While Rachel and Tucker re-litigate their breakup, Tom gets sad over his own.

Along the way, they answer some important questions like does Piggly Wiggly still exist and how sensually do you lick someone's elbow on the first date?

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Thanks to Rachel for taking the time and making the trip to be on this podcast TWICE this year. What a hero. Catch her humor and her face on Instagram @unfortunate_selfies and watch her and Tucker yell at each other on Twitter by following her @anti_socialite_

Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind who you can find at samliebe.com.

Tucker and Tom's friend Rachel is BACK by popular demand! She drove all the way to the Big Apple to see what this whole "Tinder" thing is all about and actually go on a date.

They address hot topics like what to do with your arms while kissing, whether to order a drink before your date shows up, and how fast can you have someone over for sex, anyway? An hour?

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Tucker and Tom explore the awkward beginnings of phone sex and the awkward endings of bad dates.

It's been a few months since Tucker and Tom got to sit down one on one and catch each other up on their personal lives. Who's dating whom and how does someone hit the eject button on a bad date? Let's talk about it.

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Tucker and Tom are back... in relationship therapy.

After what some would call "a season's worth of misery" and others would call "friendship," Tucker and Tom decide it's time to bring their problems to Deanna Richards, a licensed mental health counselor and relationship therapist, to get things back on track.

Along the way we hit the logistics on how to fit an entire polyamorous relationship on a two-person couch, the self-esteem hit of dating apps, and how the political climate has collided with online dating.

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Photography by the talented and patient Sam Liebeskind who you can find at samliebe.com.

The Undesirables are coming back for season 2 on Valentine's Day 2019! Catch up on season 1 now.

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Season one is over so Tucker and Tom take a hot minute to reflect on all the mistakes they made along the way.

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Special guest and professional dominatrix Lucy Sweetkill teaches Tucker how to choke someone sexually without totally murdering them and tells Tom exactly what kind of bottom he is.

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Tucker breaks up with New York for the weekend while Tom perfects the art of not getting dates.

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