The Unlearning Curve

Copyright 2025 - Stuart Delony & Karl Forehand

While many of us yearn for truth and understanding, the systems we participate in often prevent us from attaining genuine freedom in our everyday lives. As we move away from organized religion, we begin to recognize patterns. We believe that addressing many of these challenges requires us to examine all aspects of our lives, including:

* Toxic Leaders

Regardless of your belief system, we encourage you to unlearn anything that doesn’t benefit you. This will lead to healing and uncover a new way forward!

JD Forehand is the son of a preacher and an overseas educator. Stuart Delony is a former pastor, podcaster, and blogger for the Snarky Faith community. Karl Forehand is a former pastor who runs The Desert Sanctuary, a home for spiritual nomads, with his wife, Laura.

Disclaimer: We view ourselves as practitioners on a journey of discovery rather than as experts. While we strive to transparently share our experiences and the lessons we’re unlearning, we will also refer you to professionals when necessary. Trusted guides will arrive when you need them.

Feel free to send your thoughts, concerns, and necessary corrections to Karl ([email protected]) or Stuart ([email protected]). You can also visit our Facebook page, The Unlearning Curve.

The basic complaint against them is that they keep doubling down on things like racism, misogyny, and toxic beliefs and practices. Noted especially is their defiance of critical race theory, their executive board cover-up of sexual abuse, and their deference to the autonomy of their churches when bad things happen but enforcing their will on their congregation when it suits them.

Links consulted

https://youtu.be/KWhx3ZiAjzA?si=ejWcjfo8WfTOyVDj

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2019/06/07/7-facts-about-southern-baptists/

https://www.npr.org/2022/06/02/1102621352/how-the-southern-baptist-convention-covered-up-its-widespread-sexual-abuse-scand

https://www.sbc.net/resource-library/resolutions/on-critical-race-theory-and-intersectionality/

https://www.christianitytoday.com/2020/12/charlie-dates-ralph-west-southern-baptist-sbc-crt/

https://youtu.be/uaUFKeZeYHo?si=05v_mST7dwg8HhUn

Copyright 2025 - Stuart Delony & Karl Forehand

While many of us yearn for truth and understanding, the systems we participate in often prevent us from attaining genuine freedom in our everyday lives. As we move away from organized religion, we begin to recognize patterns. We believe that addressing many of these challenges requires us to examine all aspects of our lives, including:

* Toxic Leaders

Regardless of your belief system, we encourage you to unlearn anything that doesn’t benefit you. This will lead to healing and uncover a new way forward!

JD Forehand is the son of a preacher and an overseas educator. Stuart Delony is a former pastor, podcaster, and blogger for the Snarky Faith community. Karl Forehand is a former pastor who runs The Desert Sanctuary, a home for spiritual nomads, with his wife, Laura.

Disclaimer: We view ourselves as practitioners on a journey of discovery rather than as experts. While we strive to transparently share our experiences and the lessons we’re unlearning, we will also refer you to professionals when necessary. Trusted guides will arrive when you need them.

Feel free to send your thoughts, concerns, and necessary corrections to Karl ([email protected]) or Stuart ([email protected]). You can also visit our Facebook page, The Unlearning Curve.

Copyright © 2025 - Stuart Delony & Karl Forehand

In this episode, we introduce ourselves and share a clip from Tony Lambert, pastor of Picayune First Baptist Church in Mississippi. The clip comes from Facebook, which also has a link to the entire message.

For this discussion, Tony is an example of what most SBC pastors would understand and proclaim. In the next episode, we will discuss our feelings about that group in more detail.

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While many of us yearn for truth and understanding, the systems we participate in often prevent us from attaining genuine freedom in our everyday lives. As we move away from organized religion, we begin to recognize patterns. We believe that addressing many of these challenges requires us to examine all aspects of our lives, including:

* Toxic Leaders

Regardless of your belief system, we encourage you to unlearn anything that doesn’t benefit you. This will lead to healing and uncover a new way forward!

JD Forehand is the son of a preacher and an overseas educator. Stuart Delony is a former pastor who currently podcasts and blogs at the Snarky Faith community. Karl Forehand is a former pastor who runs The Desert Sanctuary, a home for spiritual nomads, with his wife, Laura.

Disclaimer: We view ourselves as practitioners on a journey of discovery rather than experts. While we strive to transparently share our experiences and the lessons we’re unlearning, we will also refer you to professionals when necessary. Trusted guides will arrive when you need them.

Feel free to send your thoughts, concerns, and necessary corrections to Karl ([email protected]) or Stuart ([email protected]). You can also visit our Facebook page, The Unlearning Curve.