The Vexed Intellects Podcast

This week the Intellects discuss creative & unique dating ideas for people looking to ‘spice up’ their love lives, or potentially get to know someone new (53:13). Conversations about “what is a date?”, “who should pay?”, or “how much should a man spend on a date?” happen weekly online. The gentlemen offer some fun & different ideas to make your next date a memorable one.

"The most important thing is to try and inspire people so that they can be great at whatever they want to do." - Kobe Bryant

This week the Intellects discuss the life, and legacy of the legendary Kobe Bean Bryant.  The guys share their thoughts, and personal memories of Kobe, and how he inspired them.

The gentlemen also discuss the Coronavirus (4:37), the Grammys (8:27), Jeff Bezos' phone/nudes being hacked/used against him (17:39), Terry Crews vs Gabrielle Union/black women (18:53), Benjamin Netanyahu's indictment (28:48), and much more.

Sincerest condolences to the families of the victims of the horrific helicopter accident that took place in Calabasas, CA on January, 26th, 2020. R.I.P. to the following:

Kobe Bryant, 41

Gianna Bryant, 13

John Altobelli, 56

Keri Altobelli, 46

Alyssa Altobelli, 13

Christina Mauser, 38

Ara Zobayan, 50

Sarah Chester, 45,

Payton Chester, 13

#getvexed and enjoy!

Tyler Perry's Fall from Grace release on Netflix certainly had the internet buzzing.  From the wigs to the acting, mostly everyone something to say about this polarizing film.  The Intellects discussed all of those things and if Tyler Perry is truly making money exploiting pain from women of color.  Something that has been a topic of discussion for a better part of his career.  

Other topics the gentlemen tackle include:

All of this and so much more when you...

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Privilege - a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group.

There are plenty of discussions being had about "privilege" these days.. While white privilege, male privilege, and straight privilege typically account for the bulk of these discussions, examples of other types of identity that can afford an individual privilege include: religion, socioeconomic status, country of origin, language, and/or ability. One other form of privilege that spans all spectrums of identity but is rarely discussed is pretty privilege, or the "Halo effect". This week the Intellects discuss pretty privilege, and some of it's many benefits (63:00).

The gentleman also discuss a plethora of other topics in "First things First" (9:36) such as contention in the Democratic party prior to the last debate before the Iowa caucuses (9:58), Oprah Winfrey stepping away from her latest #metoo documentary (12:53), Prince Harry and Meghan Markle renouncing their throne (14:24), activists protesting the inhumane conditions at Parchman Prison in Mississippi (17:44), and 23andMe selling the rights to develop drugs based on its users' DNA (21:06). Plus, Yung Joc gets shamed for driving rideshare (41:38), Facebook and Twitter combat cyber bullying (46:50), and Jillian Michaels on Lizzo, and celebrating obesity (53:56). 

#getvexed and enjoy!

"I'm MAD AS HELL, and i'm not gonna take this anymore!" Wolf is mad y'all, (in case you missed that from the first sentence). 

On a recent episode of daytime talkshow The Real, Co-host Loni Love said: “I do think that a lot of Black men, they really don’t know how to have true, faithful relationships. They think because they have money, because they have power, that they can treat women any kind of way.” 

Wolf shares his thoughts and feelings about these comments, and the perceived agenda (as he sees it) against black men. 

"No victim here. Just raw passion, and an observation. This shit here must stop!!" - Wolf

#getvexed and enjoy!

We are not long into the new year but we have plenty of things to discuss in our first episode of the decade.

Are we heading to World War III? (46:47) The Intellects unpack the recent events in the Middle East from the death of Qasem Soleimani to Iran's retaliatory missile strike and give their opinions on what happens next. Ari Lennox's Rottweilers Rampage (72:22) The guys also discuss the first lady of Dreamville's social media reaction to being called a rottweiler.  Was she justified or did she overreact? 

Other Topics Discussed Include: Harvey Weinstein gets more sexual assault charges (12:25); Fires ravaging Australia (15:12); A man in prison after allegedly sexually assaulting 195 men (18:30); Lori Loughlin is learning prison lingo and martial arts...you know...just in case (24:42)     

Plus, You Glow Girl...Real Man of Genius...and the guys reaction to a story by Roy Wood Jr.

Enjoy! And... #GetVexed

This week the Intellects collaborate once again with the ATL Westside Connection, Tall Paul Shawty & Mr. Westside.

(Coincidentally these guys could have a great podcast talking about all things Atlanta...just saying)

In this episode, we discuss the Oprah Winfrey's upcoming documentary on Russell Simmons detailing allegations of sexual misconduct against the music mogul.  This is the second documentary of this nature Oprah has produced. (the first being Leaving Neverland) 

Is Oprah attacking blatantly attacking black men? We discuss.

The gentlemen also discuss Karol Sanchez the Bronx girl that helped stage her own kidnapping; Harvey Weinstein settles with his 30 accusers; An intruder hacks Ring camera attempts to trick a young girl; and Tekashi 6ixX9ine is coming home early.

Plus, we answer some of life's most interesting questions:  Are guys broke if all their money was used to pay bill and does number 2 work for you...at your job?

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This week the Intellects discuss body positivity and fat shaming. Atlantic Records recording artist Lizzo caused quite the stir recently when she went to a Los Angeles Lakers game wearing a shirt with her butt cheeks exposed. The guys discuss the larger conversation surrounding Lizzo, and if being critical of the outfits or antics of a new body positivity and self-love icon should be considered "fat phobic", or just holding one individual accountable.

The gentleman also discuss the NFL's decision to honor Michael Vick at the Pro Bowl by making him an honorary captain. People are NOT happy about this. At the time of this recording, a change.org petition had garnered over 500,000 signatures in protest of this choice by the NFL. Is true redemption only reserved for a certain few? Is it because he's black? Is it fair to continue to strip opportunities away from someone that has not only paid their debt to society, but used their platform to advocate for the rights of animals?

Plus, Democrats formally unveil two articles of impeachment, Uber reveals 3000 incidents of sexual assault, 'When They See Us' gets snubbed at the Golden Globes, and a UPS driver and a civilian are killed in Miami when at least 18 police officers fired their guns in a movie-style shootout with hijackers. 

#RIPJuiceWrld  #getvexed and enjoy!

The boys are back in town! 

After a brief hiatus for Thanksgiving break, the Intellects return to discuss the wild week that was. Kamala Harris drops out of the Democratic presidential race, NY legislators propose a bill to ban "purity exams" on the heels of T.I.'s controversial comments, ICE creates a fake University arresting more than 90 enrolled foreign students, & UPS employees allegedly ran a massive drug shipment operation for over a decade. 

Also, This week in WTF: butt sunbathing, consent for sexting, D-pic etiquette, Joe Biden's blond leg hair, and a wild voicemail involving a girlfriend, a clogged toilet, & her boyfriend's dead cat's litter box... 

Lastly, the gentlemen discuss tips for dealing with grief during the holidays, & bring awareness to the VERY important issue of Sex Trafficking. 

#getvexed and enjoy!