Life is challenging, to say the least. The good times are amazing, but the bad times can really weigh you down, make you want to disconnect, and sometimes just give up. But you can’t. Because even when things seem to be at their worst, you need to keep going.
When you have tough moments, when things look like they will not work out, or not in the way you would like them to, have faith. Trust that you will be okay. When you go through something difficult or heart-wrenching, it can feel terrible. But when you come out on the other side of that difficulty, you can learn so much about your resilience and strength.
These experiences will help you to develop empathy. When you feel down, remember it is inevitable that you will feel pain and disappointment in life. The key is to not give up. It is important to remember that you have too much to gain. Do this rather than focusing on what you have to lose or have lost.
Going through pain makes you more vulnerable, empathetic, and kinder because you experience something that changes your self-awareness, perception, and belief systems.
Think of it this way. Have you had a moment in your life where you made a quick judgment of someone based on how they looked, dressed, where they lived, how they spoke or handled themselves? Oftentimes that judgment changes once you interact with that particular individual, and learn who they are and what shapes them. Sometimes your opinion of someone you previously judged changes when you experience something they have gone through.