The Vision-Driven Marriage

Doug and Leslie discuss why it's hard when your spouse is triggered because of a past trauma and eight things you can do to be a supportive spouse.

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Ron & Halee's free resource:
“7 Tips for a Healthier Trauma Response,” an article to help husbands and wives understand a common trauma response called hypervigilance and steps toward hope and healing.

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Doug and Leslie talk with Ron and Halee Wood about how trauma responses can affect relationships. They define what happens in the brain when a person is triggered and discuss ways to help someone who is suffering through a trauma response.

Where to find Ron and Halee
Run the Race Together. Ron & Halee Wood
www.RunTheRaceTogether.com
The Simple Marriage 

Get your free resource from Ron & Halee:
“7 Tips for a Healthier Trauma Response,” an article to help husbands and wives understand a common trauma response called hypervigilance and steps toward hope and healing.

Where to find Doug and Leslie

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Doug and Leslie share the definition and concepts of complementarianism. This insightful episode contrasts complementarianism with egalitarianism.

Verses Mentioned: Exodus 18:4 

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Book Mentioned: I’d like you more if you were more like me: getting real about getting close John Ortberg

The quote mentioned: “The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.” ~Aristotle

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Additional reading on Complementarianism

Complementarianism for Dummies

The Gospel Coalition (TGC)

SEPTEMBER 4, 2012 | MARY KASSIAN

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Doug and Leslie discuss how finding your identity in Christ helps strengthen your marriage. Idols can creep in without our awareness especially in the area of our family. We discuss what that might look like and how finding your identity in Christ can eliminate falling to idols.

Verses mentioned.

Matthew 6:33 Matthew 6 (CSB) - But seek first the kingdom (blueletterbible.org)

The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast episode #19 Biblical Masculinity Biblical Masculinity with James & Mindy Bradford - Heart Call Ministries

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Doug and Leslie unpack two simple verses to distinguish between healing masculinity and toxic masculinity.

Verses Mentioned:

1 Corinthians 16:14 & 14

Micah 6:8

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Doug and Leslie talk with James and Mindy Bradford about how he came to understand how Biblical Masculinity is defined and what to do to take steps toward being masculine in the Lord.

Our conversation with James and Mindy Bradford is a special one. Jim’s heart to be submitted to the Lord has brought forth a message on Biblical masculinity that every man needs to hear. He talks about the struggles that today’s men face and how God has led him to overcome many of them. He and Mindy explain how being submitted to Christ, finding your identity in Christ, and having a clear view of the role of the bride of Christ helps us complement each other in our marriages. I loved our conversation with Jim and Mindy.

Scripture mentioned during this interview:

Matthew 6:33 

1 Peter 3:7

Philippians 2:3 3

Romans 12:10

1 Corinthians 13:5

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Get the book Masculinity by Design, Finding True North

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Doug and Leslie differentiate between setting personal boundaries and setting couple boundaries. They discuss how setting boundaries as a couple can solidify your marriage.

If you’re interested in learning more about the quiz that Leslie mentions in the episode, you can access it here: https://heartcallministries.org/n3gk

Scripture mentioned in the episode:

Titus 2:11 & 12

The book of Proverbs

Ephesians 4:26 

Ephesians 4:29

The other podcast episodes that are mentioned:

The Tess Scott Interview

The Annette Chesney Interview

Download the Free Prayer Guide

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Taking Care Of One Another: Serving So Your Spouse Feels Honored And Understood

Doug and Leslie discuss how Gal 5:13 “serve one another in love” can help you solidify your marriage.

Mentions: The Tess Scott Interview: Being Honest and Vulnerable when Real Life Happens with Tess Scott - Heart Call Ministries

Praying with your Spouse: A brief guide: Click here to receive this free resource. https://heartcallministries.org/r8hf

Scripture Mentioned:

Galatians 5:13

You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.

Colossians 3:12

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.

Matthew 23:11

The greatest among you will be your servant.

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Doug and Leslie discuss the definition of reconciliation and how to reconcile your relationship once an offense has occurred.

Scripture mentioned:
2 Cor 5:18-20

Come to the process with humility.

1. Let your spouse know that you intend to work on rebuilding the things that are broken.
2. Be willing to make changes with purpose and make them.
3. Admit your own feelings and encourage to share their feelings with you.
4. clear the air with your spouse
5. Take responsibility for your actions.

The Couple’s Prayer Guide can be found here:

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Tess Scott shares a heartwarming story of God's grace through her divorce and remarriage, and cancer diagnosis. She encourages couple to stick it out when times get hard. God blesses our efforts and redeems our failures.

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Find out more about Doug and Leslie:

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