The Warriors Community

Disclaimer: Not all of the views, beliefs, and core values expressed by guests on this podcast necessarily reflect the view, beliefs, and core values of Liza Lovett or the Warriors Community.

Today's guest was referred to me by a friend of mine who recently began reading a book series called Untwisting Scriptures. My friend came out of the same cult I was involved in and was telling me about how much these books were helping her. She asked me if I knew about the author and I said no.

So! I did some research. I found Rebecca Davis online and loved her ministry and mission so much I reached out inviting her to speak on the podcast. Thankfully, she said yes!

Rebecca has written five books in the Untwisting Scriptures series and is working on the 6th. She began writing these books after years of realizing how often scripture is taken out of context and used to abuse others.

If you have been abused in Jesus' name or involved in a legalistic environment and don't know where to begin in unpacking what you think and believe, then today's podcast is perfect for you!

Rebecca's Website:

⁠⁠Here's The Joy (Get your free resource mentioned in the podcast here)

Book Coaching

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I had a conversation with a good friend recently about leaving cults. She is also a cult survivor. She asked me a little bit about my story and how I made friends once I left the cult. And I realized, I have never discussed this before and it is really important topic!

So many people feel alone and may truly be alone after leaving religious abuse. So what do you do? How to do trust anyone again? How do you know what kind of friends you do and don't want? Well today, we are going to talk about it!⁠

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Today's conversation was inspired by an article I read on Medium.com, from someone whom I have grown close to. She wrote an article about leaving a church and why. And many people responded! The article created a lot of conversation that led to me writing an article as well!

Through these conversations, the topic of how important it is to be different came up. Sadly, many cultish environments package mind control, brainwashing, or legalism as "unity."

Today, we are going to discuss the importance of diversity and how to find a healthy community.

Website Links Referred to in Today's Episode:

Freedom of Mind

BITE Model Test - See if you are in a cultish environment

Articles Referred to on Today's Topic:

Do You Need Peace Today? I Do!

It's Important to be Different

Affiliate Links to the Book Referred to Today:

Freedom of Mind

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Disclaimer: Not all of the views, beliefs, and core values expressed by guests on this podcast necessarily reflect the view, beliefs, and core values of Liza Lovett or the Warriors Community.

Michelle Croyle is a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and Christian Life Coach who I found on a podcast Facebook Group. Michelle was gracious enough to invite me to speak on her podcast ⁠Mental Health For Christian Women⁠ where we could have talked for hours!

After being a guest on her podcast, I just knew I had to invite her to be a guest on mine. So! Today, Michelle talks with us about trauma: How to identify trauma, becoming self-aware, where to be begin in unpacking trauma, and more!

Michelle's Website:

⁠Mental Health For Christian Women⁠ (Get free resources here!)

Books Referred to in Today's Episode:

1. ⁠Waking the Tiger⁠

2. ⁠The Body Keeps the Score⁠

Other Resources:

⁠13 Steps for Managing Flashbacks⁠

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Recently, I read a powerful book about abuse in the church that was so impactful, I have to share it! I also happened to be reading this book at the perfect time when I went through a personal experience that this book directly speaks to.

There are a lot of powerful tools and resources in today's episode! This episode is specifically for victims of abuse who feel unheard, unseen, unbelieved, dismissed, or who have experienced harassment, stalking, threats, or blackmail for speaking out.

Please Note: This conversation just scratches the surface. There is so much more to this conversation than what we discuss today.

Website Links Referred to in Today's Episode:

⁠Diane Landburg

Mary Demuth

End Violence Against Women International

Blogs I Wrote on Today's Topic:

Why Do Survivors Take So Long To Talk About What Happened?

How To Better Respond To Survivors of Abuse in The Church

Shifting the Culture: How the Church can Support Victims of Sexual Abuse

Affiliate Links to the Books Referred to Today:

Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church - Diane Landburg

We Too - Mary Demuth

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Disclaimer: Not all of the views, beliefs, and core values expressed by guests on this podcast necessarily reflect the view, beliefs, and core values of Liza Lovett or the Warriors Community.

In the last 15 years, I have come across many different deliverance ministries. Some of them are doing it well, but sadly most of them are not. I have done a lot of research and spoken with dozens of people who have their own deliverance testimonies. And sadly, I have discovered that more testimonies than not are more about being traumatized than free.

So, I have had to ask the question, "Why is that?"

A big reason why is that so many deliverance facilitators are not trauma informed and not applying deliverance as God intended it to be applied. So let's talk about that!

How can we be more trauma informed? Why does that matter? What are signs for an unhealthy deliverance ministry? What is Biblical and what isn't?

Please Note: This conversation just scratches the surface. There is so much more to this conversation than what we discuss today.

Website Links Referred to in Today's Episode:

Handle With Care

Heart Sync

Podcast Episode Links Referred to Today:

Deliverance is Real

Heart Sync Inner Healing

Affiliate Link to Book Referred to Today:

The Body Keeps The Score

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Disclaimer: Not all of the views, beliefs, and core values expressed by guests on this podcast necessarily reflect the view, beliefs, and core values of Liza Lovett or the Warriors Community.

I found today's guest on Medium.com. I have read many of his articles and really loved them.

In the last decade, I have had too many conversations with people who were damaged or confused by the purity culture movement in the church. Too many people have come forward with sexual abuse stories despite such conservative or extreme purity teachings in the church.

Vytautas writes about purity in the church in such an intentional, careful, and Biblical way. So! I invited him to speak on the podcast.

Article Referred to in Today's Episode:

⁠3 Reasons Why Christian Men Shouldn’t Hold Women Responsible for Dressing in a Suggestive Way⁠

Read more of ⁠Vytautas Ratkevičius ⁠ articles on Medium.com

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Disclaimer: Not all of the views, beliefs, and core values expressed by guests on this podcast necessarily reflect the view, beliefs, and core values of Liza Lovett or the Warriors Community.

Today, we continue the conversation about word curses. But this time, I play a few voice memos from a group conversation about it. I love the perspectives given!

⁠⁠⁠Link to Article Referred to in Today's Episode:

How Focusing on God Broke Word Curses off of Me

You Can't Leave. Until You Can

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Disclaimer: Not all of the views, beliefs, and core values expressed by guests on this podcast necessarily reflect the view, beliefs, and core values of Liza Lovett or the Warriors Community.

Words are a big deal. We either speak life or death over ourselves or each other. Today, I want to discuss what word curses are, how to identify them, and what to do about it when you discover you believe one. I also share about how word curses in the cult were used and how that impacted my life, and other members within the group.

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If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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Disclaimer: Not all of the views, beliefs, and core values expressed by guests on this podcast necessarily reflect the view, beliefs, and core values of Liza Lovett or the Warriors Community.

I found today's guest by accident. As I was researching, I came upon a Ted Talk by Ashley Easter, founder of Courage365. As I listened, I thought, "I have to know more about this person!"

So, I researched Ashley and found her website, Courage365. I quickly discovered that Ashley is a survivor of a cult who now uses her non-profit to provide a safe community, free resources, and more for anyone who has experienced religious abuse.

Today, Ashley shares her story, along with what she is doing to serve people who have experienced religious abuse.

Join the ⁠⁠⁠The Warriors Community Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for weekly updates on the ongoing case against the cult I was in, along with deeper conversations and a chance to create and interact with me and a community of people. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

If you have any questions or comments about today's episode, please feel free to reach out and chat! You can find me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mrs. Liza Lovett⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. You can also send an email to [email protected]

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