In this episode of The We Do Collective, we're joined by therapist Cat Donohue of Flow House Therapy, who specializes in trauma, family systems, and couples therapy. Together, we explore the mental and emotional challenges nearlyweds face as they prepare for marriage—not just the wedding day. From managing social media pressures to balancing self-care and relationships, Cat offers expert advice on navigating decision fatigue, anxiety, and external pressures from family and friends.

We’ll also discuss how couples can use therapy or relationship coaching to strengthen their connection before the big day. Plus, we dive into sensitive topics like handling grief when a loved one can't be present and the often-overlooked mental health challenges during wedding planning, including body image concerns and imposter syndrome. Whether you're in the thick of wedding planning or just getting started, this episode is packed with invaluable insights to help you prepare for a lifetime together, not just one day.

Ready to find the dress? In this episode of The We Do Collective, we’re chatting with the incredible Lizzy Polden of Agency Eight Bridal Styling to uncover everything you need to know before you start wedding dress shopping. From understanding your personal style and what flatters your body, to navigating trends and avoiding common mistakes, Lizzy shares her expert insights on what every bride should consider when choosing her gown. We’ll also talk about the importance of timing, budget, and how to make the dress shopping experience stress-free and fun. Whether you’ve been dreaming of your dress for years or have no clue where to begin, this episode will guide you to the perfect choice for your big day!

In this episode of The We Do Collective, we’re joined by the fabulous Schuyler Polk of Polk Paper to dive deep into all things wedding stationery! From save-the-dates to thank you cards, we’ll walk you through what’s essential, how to stay on top of timelines, and why the USPS is still a key player in your wedding planning journey. We’ll also tackle the big question: when is it okay to go digital? Whether you’re planning a formal affair or something more relaxed, we’ve got expert advice on creating a stationery suite that reflects your wedding style and ensures guests are in the loop. Tune in for insider tips and a breakdown of everything you need to know to avoid any stationery mishaps!

You've got the ring, the excitement is through the roof, and you're officially engaged! But before you dive into the world of wedding planning, there are a few must-do things to focus on first—and they don’t involve picking venues or florals. In this episode of The We Do Collective, we’re breaking down the important steps to take after the proposal, from aligning on your future together to tackling financial planning and meeting with key professionals, like lawyers and therapists. This isn’t just about planning a wedding; it’s about building a strong foundation for your marriage. Get ready for real advice and practical tips that will help you set the stage for a successful future together. Spoiler alert: Wedding planning comes later . Tune in and find out why!

Episode 1: Meet Fallon Carter – The Story Behind The We Do Collective

Welcome to the very first episode of The We Do Collective! I’m Fallon Carter, your host and wedding planner extraordinaire, and I couldn’t be more excited to take you on this journey. In this episode, I’m diving into my backstory – how I went from starting my business with zero experience to being recognized by Vogue, Harper’s Bazaar, and more. You’ll hear how The We Do Collective was born out of the challenges of helping couples get married in 2020, and how it has grown into a must-have resource for nearlyweds. From planning templates to expert advice, this platform is all about making wedding planning smoother, more fun, and entirely your own.

Have questions or need advice? I’d love to hear from you! Email your questions to [email protected], and I’ll be answering them in upcoming episodes.

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