The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

This episode is all about turning your sissy fantasies into sissy training.
Mistress Erika talks about how to keep your sissy training going even when you have to do your feminization on the down low.
Ms Olivia loves to combine sissy training and fantasy roleplay scenes. This works really well, especially with the coerced sissy who will do what Mistress says, or else!
Ms Erika points out the erotic power of fear of exposure. That might also be part of a sissy humiliation scene.
The ladies give details on some feminization training tasks:
Wearing panties under male clothes.
Using feminine grooming products like bath wash and lotion.
Moving in a way that reminds you of your feminine side.
Locking up that clitty with sissy chastity.
Using cum eating to prepare sissy for cocksucking training.
It’s not all raunchy talk. Mistress Olivia asks Ms Erika about the importance of choosing a sissy name that fits your type of sissy. Are you a bimbo or slut? Are you elegant or the girl next door sweet?
Mistress Olivia mentions 2 places that do in person feminization.
Both ladies talk about some specific sissy fantasies and give their special spin on those hot roleplay ideas.

We know holidays can be busy and stressful. Sometimes that means a loss of libido.
In this kink podcast, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how cock control can improve your libido.
Some people can’t do a session, so we have JOI to the rescue.
Ms Erika gives tips on finding some private time.
There are also options for enjoying some discrete, naughty fun:
Sexy texting sessions
Email masturbation training programs
Phone or skype if you do have solo time.
Ms Olivia shares a cock edging assignment using bubble wrap - there’s an unexpected twist that will surprise you.
Mistress Erika gives ball work instructions - testicular massage works wonders. It can increase your libido and make your erection nice and firm!
Ms Erika explains how to do her “O” cock stroking technique.
These Femdoms talk about how they design tease and denial sessions for those who love cock control.
There are several more edging instructions:
Stroking and using cum cubes or ice cubes to pace your delay.
Using different hand positions to enhance your orgasm.
Using cock exercises to increase your size and endurance
The mindfuck of a ruined orgasm
Masturbating with panties
And more
This is homework that you will thoroughly enjoy doing!

It’s Mistress Erika’s anniversary doing distance domination and phone sex.
Ms Olivia asks about Ms Erika’s erotic journey. The ladies talk about how to:
How to learn to celebrate your sexuality
Why it’s hard for some people to embrace what makes them feel good.
What is “normal” sex and who decides what is outside the norm?
Ms Erika’s plans to celebrate her anniversary
Of course, Ms Olivia takes listeners on an excursion with a conversation about stripper music versus burlesque music.
Both ladies discuss some of the behind-the-scenes activities. Although sex work is certainly fun, it is also a profession and they are highly skilled professionals.
Oh and hear why Ms Erika ends the podcast licking her fingers.
You know you want to know.

Ms Freda returns to LDW. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find out all kinds of things they didn’t know about this mature, sensual woman.
Hear why Ms Freda has personal experience with a man who is cock curious and wants to suck cock in the presence of a Dominant Woman.
Learn about the Candyman. Oh my! This is quite the story.
Ms Erika asks about favorite callers and roleplay calls. Ms Freda talks about her sweeties, her lovely sissies, and says she has a special place in her heart for the sissy girls. She mentions her love of sissy training, feminization shopping and even discipline of a naughty sissy!
Mistress Olivia says she feels privileged to be able to be that safe place for someone to explore their desires. Ms Freda agrees and talks about the importance of being non-judgmental and guiding with love.

The ladies talk about kink, creativity and more with Dirk Hooper. He’s a lifestyle kinkster, BDSM mentor, award winning artist, fetish photographer and author.
Have you ever wondered if you could turn your love of BDSM and kink into a living?
That’s exactly what Dirk did. Ms Erika asks why and how Dirk ended up using his creativity in the erotic arts and sex industry.
Mistress Olivia brings up the book, Dominatrix Boss, by Asher Lake (Dirk’s pen name for BDSM erotica). The ladies talk about why they love the book and the relationship between the Femdom and her male submissive. There’s not enough really great Femdom erotica and they beg (or order) Dirk to finish the sequel.
All three talk about BDSM and kink in popular culture. Dirk says all sort of fetish play is way more popular and accepted than ever before; he thinks that people who enjoy only vanilla sex might actually be in the minority.
Finally, want to get your Mistress something really special? Hear about commissioned artwork that is stunning.
It’s fascinating to hear how Dirk turned his personal journey of BDSM into a thriving life and lifestyle.

The new design for the Sissy School site is the inspiration for this episode.
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about all the LDW Group sites for the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans women.
Sissy School
Sissyville
Sissy Style Magazine
Get Girlie
The ladies share questions from several sissies.
Topics include:
How to come to terms with your sissy desires, feminine side or crossdressing activities.
How to avoid purging all your pretty feminine clothes.
How to explore sissy desires.
Ways to honor your feminine self when you need to dress in male clothes.
How to handle things when your partner knows but doesn’t want to participate.
How the Sissy Training Calendar can help you on your feminization journey.
And, why it’s important to have support in your feminine journey.

Hurricane Ian slammed into Florida knocking Ms Erika off line for a bit during LockTober. The ladies decide to continue chastity during No Nut November.
Mistress Olivia asks Ms Erika about her chastity pets. This leads to a conversation about the mental and emotional parts of chastity, including how a Chastity Keyholder decides how long someone will be locked up.
What is a prostate orgasm and why does a Mistress do prostate milking for someone in long term chastity?
Speaking of long term chastity, the ladies go from Locktober to No Nut November to Denial December … then, perhaps, Jerk Off January.
We’re (maybe) joking about extended orgasm denial. The ladies talk seriously about expectations around chastity, concerns, and common questions.
One reason why both Femdoms like chastity is for the behavior modification. It’s perfect for sissy training, enhancement of submission, and more.

Duchess Willow says, “Every year, at the Monster’s Ball, something supernatural happens to the guests.”
Today, you get just a taste of a sexy, spooky story by Duchess Willow, the Ebony Femdom. What happens at the Monster’s Ball? Ohhhh just listen!
Ms Erika and Ms Olivia talk with Duchess Willow about writing erotica. She’s been writing Ebony Femdom erotica for years and you will be surprised at the reason why she started exploring that creative side of herself. This leads to a conversation about writing and the ladies come up with a plan to publish erotica.
Ms Willow is well known for her love of all things Giantess. Ms Olivia has an off the cuff idea to do a Christmas tree covered in tiny men - Ms Willow adds, “...and their tiny erections.”
Sexy, smart and very fun - Ms Willow is one of our favorite guests. She has her own podcast on Anchor FM - you can find all her links on her blog: EbonyFemdomPhoneSex.com

What really makes Halloween fun for you? Is it the sexy, naughty costumes? The chance to be and look slutty in public? The candy? Something else?
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have a special Halloween series of podcasts.
First up, Miss Constance tells us about the blog train and what that means for you.Maybe you get a treat, or you might get tricked. The very lucky ones might get all that and more.
Ms Brighton thrills with a spooky, sexy, and very sticky story. You’ll never read the words “drip, drip, drip” without thinking of this yummy tale.
Miss Mandy has a transformation story where a lovely and shy trans girl
has a BFF who pushes limits. Here's a hint, the skirt will be very, very short!
The ladies all talk about storytelling, creativity, chocolate, and sex.

“You’re so smart, what’s a nice girl like you doing sex work?” We sometimes hear questions or comments like that so we decided to talk about it.
What exactly is a ‘nice girl.’
Is phone sex something ‘nice girls’ don’t do?
Does a woman in the sex industry need “saving”?
Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about the importance of business acumen and professional skills for anyone doing Distance Domination.
Why do these smart, successful, creative women choose to do phone sex?
Is there a social expectation that women should provide sex or emotional labor for free in order for it to be appropriate or real?
The ladies tackle the stigma of sex work, judgment, and much more in this episode about why 2 successful women choose to phone sex as a career and a calling.
You also get real answers to questions about what we do:
Do you work off a script?
When do you think of someone as a regular caller?
Funny, thoughtful and mostly irreverent - we’re glad enjoy our kinks and kindness.