Ever found yourself asking, "Why does my puppy act this way?"   If someone told you that your pup is a blank slate and it’s all in how you raise them - this episode is going to challenge that idea in a big way. Today, we’re digging deep into puppy behavior , and how understanding your dog’s nature can change everything about how you train and connect with them.   The truth is, puppy behavior is shaped by more than just training - there are powerful influences like genetics, temperament, and early life experiences at play. That’s where getting dog behavior explained through the lens of both nature and nurture makes all the difference.   In this episode, I break down what’s really going on beneath the surface and how you can adjust your training mindset to build a more connected, successful relationship with your dog. Because when we get dog behavior explained with clarity and compassion, everything changes for the better.   Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

• The truth behind the blank slate myth - and why asking “Why does my puppy do that?” might have a more complex answer than you think
• The role genetics, temperament, and even prenatal stress play in shaping puppy behavior before they even come home
• Why one-size-fits-all training advice often fails—and how understanding your pup’s background helps you tailor your approach
• Real-life examples of dog behavior explained, from herding breeds to retrievers and everything in between
• What is actually under your control—and how you can support your puppy’s growth in a way that feels good for both of you

Whether you’re raising your first puppy or still asking "Why does my puppy act so differently than others I’ve known," this episode will give you the insight you need to train with more empathy and effectiveness.   So if you’re ready to have dog behavior explained in a way that actually makes sense - and feels encouraging rather than overwhelming - tune in now!   Resources mentioned in this episode: HELP! My Puppy Is Biting Me!   Connect with Staci Lemke:

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Has your sweet, snuggly puppy ever turned into a little growling gremlin when you reached for their favorite toy?   If so, you’ve had a front-row seat to resource guarding - and you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re digging into resource guarding in puppies, why it happens, how to prevent it, and most importantly, how to stop resource guarding in puppies without fear, punishment, or power struggles.   Whether you’re dealing with full-on growling or just subtle signs of discomfort, this episode will help you understand the why behind puppy resource guarding - and what to do next. Using positive reinforcement and proactive techniques, I’ll share exactly how to build trust and stop resource guarding before it becomes a habit.   We’ll cover:

• Why resource guarding in puppies is more common than you think - and how early life experiences play a big role.
• The red flags of puppy resource guarding that are easy to miss (and what they mean for your dog’s comfort level).
• What to do instead of grabbing things from your puppy’s mouth - and the trade game that can make your dog want to give things up.
• How to prevent resource guarding from ever starting, with simple daily habits that build trust and confidence.
• When to reach out for help - and why resource guarding in puppies is totally fixable with the right approach.

Whether you're seeing early signs or just want to get ahead of things, this episode is packed with practical tools and reassuring insight. If you've ever Googled how to stop resource guarding in puppies, this one's for you.   Listen now and learn how to build a more trusting, respectful relationship with your pup - and keep the peace around the food bowl, the toy bin, and beyond.   What’s a piece of advice you were told about resource guarding that you’ve since ditched? Head over to Instagram at @mannersformutts and let me know!   Resources mentioned in this episode: Easy Pee-sy Puppy Potty Training HELP! My Puppy Is Biting Me!   Connect with Staci Lemke: Website - www.mannersformutts.com Instagram & Facebook @mannersformutts

Dogs in the summer don’t always have it easy - and if you’re raising a puppy, you already know how fast hot weather can turn fun into frustration.   In this episode, I’m giving you practical advice on keeping dogs cool in summer and staying safe when the heat is on. I’m breaking down real-world summer safety tips for dogs that every pet parent should know - whether you’re heading to the park, the pool, or just hanging out in your backyard. You'll learn how to prevent emergencies and still have fun, even when the temps soar. In this episode, I’ll cover:

• How dogs in the summer overheat faster than you think (especially puppies) - and which breeds are at the highest risk.
• The exact steps for dog heat stroke treatment - plus what not to do in an emergency.
• My favorite ways of keeping dogs cool in summer, including frozen treats, shaded potty spots, and indoor games.
• Must-know summer safety tips for dogs if you're traveling or just running errands with your pup.
• The lesser-known dangers of dogs in the summer - from bee stings to snake bites - and how to avoid them.

If you’ve ever wondered how to safely enjoy the sunny season with your dog, this is the episode for you. Keeping dogs cool in summer isn’t just about water - it’s about being proactive and prepared. You’ll walk away knowing exactly how to protect your pup and still enjoy everything summer has to offer   Resources mentioned in this episode: FREE Training Guide: How to Help Your Dog Prepare for the 4th of July WAIT! Come Back! Rapid Fire Recall

 

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Ever been told your dog is trying to be the alpha dog just because they jumped on the couch or ran through the door first?   That came straight from dominance theory—and in this episode, we’re breaking down it doesn't hold up.   I’m explaining how dominance theory in dogs and the alpha dog myth became so popular, why it was wrong from the start, and how it’s still showing up in today’s dog training myths. We’re taking a hard look at what it really means when your dog jumps, growls, or steals your socks—and trust me, it’s not alpha dog behavior.   This episode is packed with practical, positive strategies that help you ditch outdated dominance theory in dogs and build the relationship you actually want with your pup. Because let’s face it—the alpha dog mindset is holding us back. In this episode, I’ll cover:

• Where dominance theory in dogs really came from—and why the science doesn’t back it up anymore
• Why your dog’s behaviors aren’t about alpha dog behavior, and what they’re really trying to communicate
• Seven common myths fueled by dominance theory, including doorways, mealtime, and who’s allowed on the furniture
• What actually works to raise a confident, well-behaved puppy—without needing to be the alpha dog
• Why dominance theory debunked isn’t just about dog training—it’s about trust, connection, and better communication

If you’re ready to move beyond outdated advice and discover training that builds trust—not fear—this episode is for you.   Listen now to hear why dominance theory doesn’t work, and what to do instead.   If this episode challenged something you've heard before or if you've tried one of these old-school dominance theory rules, I wanna hear from you.   What’s a piece of advice you were told about dominance that you’ve since ditched? Head over to Instagram @mannersformutts and let me know!   Resources mentioned in this episode: Surviving Your Dog's Adolescence Program   Connect with Staci Lemke:

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Thinking of getting a puppy? Before you do, ask yourself the one question many new dog owners forget: can i afford a puppy?   It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement, but how much does a puppy cost—not just to bring home, but to raise well—is something every future pet parent needs to know.   In this episode, I’m breaking down the real costs of puppy ownership—from initial adoption or breeder fees to gear, training, vet bills, and surprise expenses. I walk you through the full picture of first year puppy costs, plus what to expect for puppy expenses month-to-month. If you've ever googled "how much does a puppy cost per month," this episode is for you!   In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why the question "can i afford a puppy" is about more than just the adoption fee
• A full breakdown of how much does a puppy cost—including breeder vs. rescue options, gear, vet care, and more
• What to expect when calculating how much does a puppy cost per month, from food to flea prevention
• The sneaky, unexpected puppy expenses that could throw off your budget (and how to plan for them)
• Real numbers and personal stories that reveal the truth about first year puppy costs and how to plan smart

If you’re wondering can i afford a puppy, or asking yourself how much does a puppy cost, you’ll get real answers, not just rough estimates.   I cover both ends of the spectrum—budget-friendly options and premium care—so you can make the best decision for your lifestyle and your future dog.   Tap play and get the full scoop on how much does a puppy cost per month, how to navigate first year puppy costs, and how to plan ahead for all the puppy expenses coming your way.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Easy Pee-sy Puppy Potty Training HELP! My Puppy Is Biting Me! But, My Puppy's Not Fully Vaccinated!   Connect with Staci Lemke:

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Are you bringing home a new puppy and wondering what to teach a puppy first?   You’re not alone! Many new puppy parents feel overwhelmed by all the advice out there, but don’t worry - I’ve got you covered with the essentials for training your puppy. In this episode, I break down the top 10 things to train your puppy to set them up for success from the start. Whether you’ve just welcomed a wiggly bundle of fur into your life or you’re trying to teach your growing pup some manners, this episode is packed with practical training your puppy tips and exactly what to teach a puppy first to make your life easier and your pup happier.   In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What to teach a puppy first to build a solid foundation for communication and trust. (Hint: It’s not just “sit” and “stay”!)
• Why training your puppy to respond to their name is one of the most important skills you can teach - and how to make it stick.
• The secret to stress-free potty training (no more midnight messes!) and how to set up your home for success.
• How to handle those sharp puppy teeth and teach your dog to chew on toys instead of your fingers.
• Why crate training and learning to be alone are crucial for your puppy’s long-term confidence and comfort.

If you’ve ever wondered how to train your puppy without overwhelm or frustration, this episode is for you. I’ll share practical advice and real-life examples to make the training your puppy process smoother, whether you’re a first-time dog owner or a seasoned pro.   Ready to raise a well-mannered mutt? Hit play and learn the top 10 things to train your puppy today! And don’t forget to share this episode with a fellow puppy parent who might need a little extra guidance.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Easy Pee-sy Puppy Potty Training HELP! My Puppy Is Biting Me! But, My Puppy's Not Fully Vaccinated! WAIT! Come Back! Rapid Fire Recall   Connect with Staci Lemke: Website - www.mannersformutts.com Instagram & Facebook @mannersformutts

Is crate training your puppy turning into a battle of guilt, barking, and second-guessing?   In this episode, I’m sharing practical and effective puppy crate training tips that will help you and your dog feel more confident and calm—without the chaos.   The truth is, when done with patience and positive reinforcement, crate training a puppy is one of the most powerful tools for raising a calm, resilient dog. In fact, the benefits of crate training a puppy go far beyond giving yourself a break—it’s about teaching independence, creating structure, and supporting your dog’s emotional wellbeing.   And if the idea of a crate still doesn’t sit right with you? No worries! I’ll also introduce several tried-and-true alternatives to crate training that can fit your lifestyle and still help your pup develop the crucial life skill of being okay on their own.   Here’s what I’m covering in this episode:

• Why some puppies struggle more than others, and how to tell whether it’s normal whining or something more serious—plus the first puppy crate training tips you should try
• What most people get wrong about crate training a puppy, and the step-by-step approach that actually works
• How to replace guilt with confidence by understanding the real benefits of crate training a puppy
• The best-kept secrets for creating a positive crate association—even if your puppy already hates it
• When crates don’t work: 4 smart and safe alternatives to crate training (and how to know which one’s right for your pup)

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clearer understanding of why crate training matters, how to make it successful, and how to pivot if it just isn’t working for your household.   Whether you’re using a crate or exploring alternatives to crate training, there’s something here for every puppy parent.   Resources mentioned in this episode: But, My Puppy's Not Fully Vaccinated! Crate Training Tips for Your New Puppy!   Connect with Staci Lemke: Website - www.mannersformutts.com Instagram & Facebook @mannersformutts

If you’re constantly apologizing for your dog jumping on people, I get it.   It’s frustrating, exhausting, and even a little embarrassing—especially when you’ve tried to fix it, but nothing seems to stick.   In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to train your dog not to jump on people—without yelling, pushing, or scolding.   Whether you’ve got an enthusiastic greeter or puppies jumping up with those deceptively cute little paws, I’ll help you understand what’s really going on and walk you through how to train a dog not to jump in a way that actually works.   In this episode, we’ll cover:

• Why puppies jumping up becomes a habit so quickly—and why it’s often something we’ve unintentionally rewarded…
• The three things most pet parents do that accidentally reinforce dog jumping on people (yep, you’re probably doing one of them)…
• My go-to 4-step method for how to train your dog not to jump on people—and why it’s more about what you do want than what you don’t…
• How to set up training scenarios that teach calm greetings before guests come over…
• Why I don’t rely on the “off” cue—and what I teach dogs instead when I’m working on how to train a dog not to jump…

  If you’re tired of being tackled every time you walk through the door, or you just want calm greetings without your dog jumping on people, this episode is for you.   Resources mentioned in this episode: HELP! My Puppy Is Biting Me!   Connect with Staci Lemke:

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Thinking about bringing home a puppy, but not sure how it’ll go with your kids?   You’re not alone! I get this question all the time: “Am i ready for a puppy?” And when kids are in the picture, the answer gets even more layered. In today’s episode, we’re diving into everything you need to know about the beautiful chaos of raising a puppy and kids under one roof.   I’ll help you assess whether your family is ready for the responsibility of a new puppy, how to prep your home and your kids, and most importantly—how to spot the signs a dog is uncomfortable with a child so you can keep everyone safe and happy. With a little planning and a lot of patience, bringing home a puppy with young children can be a joyful and rewarding experience.   In this episode, I cover:

• How to know if you’re truly ready to introduce a puppy and kids, and what signs to watch for if you're not quite there yet.
• How to prepare your home before bringing home a puppy, including the overlooked hazards and stress triggers that could derail your first week.
• The truth about raising a puppy and kids together—from building a bond to creating structure and avoiding chaos (and chewed furniture).
• What every parent needs to teach their child about puppy body language, plus key signs a dog is uncomfortable with a child—this can make or break the relationship.
• Age-appropriate tasks for your kids, so they can help with care and training while building empathy and confidence (and learning some lifelong lessons along the way).

  If you’ve been wondering “am i ready for a puppy?” and also navigating the whirlwind of parenting, this episode is for you.   Whether you’re already bringing home a puppy or just daydreaming about it, knowing how to manage puppy and kids together is key to making this journey fun, safe, and successful for everyone involved.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Easy Pee-sy Puppy Potty Training HELP! My Puppy Is Biting Me! But, My Puppy's Not Fully Vaccinated!   Connect with Staci Lemke:

• Website - www.mannersformutts.com
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Ever wondered when can you leave a puppy alone without supervision?   Are you considering leaving dog out of crate while at work but aren’t sure if they’re ready?   In this episode, I’ll walk you through a puppy training schedule by age to help you determine the right time to grant your pup more freedom. From training puppy to be alone for short periods to preventing a destructive dog, I cover everything you need to know about safely expanding your puppy’s world.   I’ll cover:

• The biggest mistake puppy parents make when giving too much freedom too soon—and how to avoid it.
• When can you leave a puppy alone? How to tell if your puppy is ready for more freedom, based on their puppy training schedule by age.
• A step-by-step plan to transition from crate training to free-roam safely.
• Why training puppy to be alone properly is key to preventing a destructive dog.
• The common signs that your puppy may need more time before leaving dog out of crate while at work.

  Giving your puppy more freedom is an exciting milestone, but it needs to be done at the right pace. If you want to know when can you leave a puppy alone and set your puppy up for success and avoid accidents, destruction, or setbacks, tune in now!   Thank you for taking the time to help your dog become a more well-mannered mutt! Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive more training tips, canine wellness advice and fun activities for dogs and their owners!   If you have questions about today's episode, or if there's a topic you want to learn more about, come connect with me on Facebook and Instagram @mannersformutts. If you enjoyed this podcast, head over to Apple Podcasts and leave a review - I'd love to hear what's been helpful for you and your canine friends. Talk to you next time!   Resources mentioned in this episode: Your puppy training schedule by age: Step-By-Step Plan for Giving Your Puppy More Freedom WAIT! Come Back! Rapid Fire Recall   Connect with Staci Lemke:

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