The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

IT IS SEASON 3 AND THE WILD ONES ARE BACK!

For this episode we break down what this here Wildness thing is and also Leon asks us some Teen Vogue type questions.

What are the wild ones afraid of? What is their fave thing? Which celeb would the Wild Ones want as squad?

Its #20plenty and it’s time to get this year on an poppin’!

Buckle in Wild Ones, it shall be a bumpy ride.

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Its about that time of the year again people!

We're wrapping up season 2 by having a little chat about what popped (and didn't) in this year of our Beyonce 2019!

And we shall see you all in the year of our Lizzo 2020!

WE OUT .... B***CH

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In the second instalment of the BDSM series Tiff and Manda are chatting with the Chido about being a sub.

So what is a sub? What is a dom...actually what is a tech dom? Where do you find one? Does everyone have to be covered in leather? Do we have to be snaaxxing or nah? Did Leon clean the stu? And what does Tiff being a war journalist have to do with all of this?

Join us in a conversation about consent, creation, communication and a dive into sub and dom relationships.

Chido social medias: On Twitter @etanaPatra and on Instagram @etanapatriot

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Is there a sexy poem at 14:00 mins in to the podcast? Yes. Did the wild ones have a guest? Was there an erotica anthology released? Also what is a muse and are they naked. This podcast will answer these questions.

Also Chinue Igwe drops us a poem. A sexy erotic poem. Chinue on instagram: @chi.nuanced

Dark Juices can be downloaded here –

Mobile version: https://drive.google.com/open?id=1WOSfoF60UkbizeV5btRdr7ZElgTu3ZWw

Double page spread: https://drive.google.com/open?id=10GAGaMqGmABVQvrraMnzyox1wP9qGTs5

Abuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces.

The Wild Ones return with part II of abuse in queer relationships and spaces. If you have not listened to part I go back and listen to it. We recap some of the previous episode. The podcast breaks down different types of abuse because abuse is not just physical. Also how do you recognise the signs of abuse? Your ‘drama’ could be abuse.

Tiff is also still unpacking how her old relationship and how there was signs of abuse in ways. Sometimes you need a podcast and a Panda to figure things out.

Links to check out:

Querying the cloak, Queering the solution: Dealing with violence and abuse in our own feminist spaces - http://holaafrica.org/querying-the-cloak-queering-the-solution-dealing-with-violence-and-abuse-in-our-own-feminist-spaces/

In the Absence of Accountability: A queer woman’s rape in feminist spaces- http://holaafrica.org/in-the-absence-of-accountability-a-lesbian-rape-in-feminist-spaces/

'Who's Going to Believe Me?'—Why It's So Hard to Talk About Domestic Abuse in LGBTQ Relationships - https://www.self.com/story/why-its-so-hard-to-talk-about-domestic-abuse-in-lgbtq-relationship

TW: Mention of physical abuse and sexual violence

Abuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces.

The hosts discuss how abuse in queer spaces can take different forms and how to recognise it. Myths in intimate partner violence in queer relationships.

Recognising intimate partner violence, the hosts share stories and not wanting to show our mess to the heteros. The hosts also break down types of abuse. Activism and abuse. When your loved on/ someone you know has been accused of abuse. Speaking about a feminism that can account.

P.s Shout out to Feminist in India and South American Feminists who set the world on fire.

Links to check out:

Querying the cloak, Queering the solution: Dealing with violence and abuse in our own feminist spaces - http://holaafrica.org/querying-the-cloak-queering-the-solution-dealing-with-violence-and-abuse-in-our-own-feminist-spaces/

In the Absence of Accountability: A queer woman’s rape in feminist spaces- http://holaafrica.org/in-the-absence-of-accountability-a-lesbian-rape-in-feminist-spaces/

Not all queers want to be queens: The dominant to precarious queer spectrum- http://holaafrica.org/not-all-queers-want-to-be-queens-the-dominant-to-precarious-queer-spectrum/

'Who's Going to Believe Me?'—Why It's So Hard to Talk About Domestic Abuse in LGBTQ Relationships - https://www.self.com/story/why-its-so-hard-to-talk-about-domestic-abuse-in-lgbtq-relationships

The autonomy project CAL- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sm_fuScArIU

What is asexuality? Can you be sex positive and asexual? Why do people want to fix asexual people? How do you know you are asexual? Can you date and be asexual? Panda and Tiff learned ALL the things during this podcast. Some people ain’t f*cksing with the fuxxing and they are not broken. Come learn how.

Links to check out:

What is asexuality - http://www.whatisasexuality.com/intro/

The Asexual Spectrum – Huff Post - https://www.huffpost.com/entry/asexual-spectrum_n_3428710

The Wild Ones discuss heteronormativity in this episode and it is well… wild. Tiff is off on a tangent. Panda says she is having someone else’s baby. Someone walks out the stu. Leon says listen with caution. Despite the chaos we actually manage to drop some wisdom on heteronormativity and what it be. (it’s a little longer than the average but love us).

Links to check out:

What Is Heteronormativity – And How Does It Apply to Your Feminism? Here Are 4 Examples- https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/07/what-is-heteronormativity/

Heteronormativity: What It Is and Why It’s a Problem- https://www.entitymag.com/heteronormativity-meaning-problems/

Why is faking orgasms more complex than a few moans and eye rolling for a little while? Why are people faking orgasms? Why did Tiff snitch on herself about faking? Does Manda's vag*na twerk? And Manda has faked COUNTLESS orgasms with men. Where does Leon keep going whilst in we the stu?

Tiff and Panda were trying to turn it up in the studio to New Jack Swing *it's a party*

Links to check:

The Real Reasons women are faking orgasms - EveryDay Feminism https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/women-fake-orgasms/

What A Fake ‘Female Orgasm’ Statistic Says About Gender Bias -

https://medium.com/the-establishment/what-a-fake-female-orgasm-statistic-says-about-gender-bias-591985f8d68c

Are you high key cheating? Is Tiff trying to engage properly with polyamory? Had Manda grown in her polyamory? Did the Wild Ones answer a series of questions about polyamory and how to do it? Yes. Are those jungle sounds in the backgrounds?

Make sure you listen to polyamory 101 episode (episode 6):

https://soundcloud.com/thewildnesstiffandmanda/the-wildness-ep-6-the-wildness-chats-polyamory