The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

'Do The Homie! Do The Homie!'

Hooking up with squad exes. Are we having the convo of ‘does they do that thing?’ It is a hard to detach? Should you centre yourself? How did they end? How long were they together? Who is deserving of love?

*boxing commentator voice* Comrades, feminists, activists and esteemed Wild Ones...Are you reeeaaaddddyyyy to ruummmmbbbblllleeee!!!

This episode Tiff and Manda almost come to blows over whether or not it’s cool to date your friend’s ex, or your ex’s friend.

It. Got. So. Real

Spoiler alert...we’re still together <3

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

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Is Panda using lube? How are people finding that person to grind up on a Friday night or love forever as a queer person on the continent? What is Tu? Why is data so expensive sometimes? What are the inclusive apps? How can apps be used against you within your own country?

Accessing the internet is also exclusive. In this podcast we break down dating, the continent and the digital space.

Shout out to APC and Xeernah and Coding Rights. The Wild Ones speak about how to find love and sex and how the online space is helping and hurting queer folks to find love, community and snaxing.

Also people go to conferences to get LAID! *We see you*

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO)

Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia?

The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out.

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

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Links to check out:

Is masturbation always political or can it be just to get off? What are some of the messed-up myths around masturbation and women? Also do you HAVE to have candles when I rub one out (can masturbation not take all day please?)

Why is Leon drink shaming us? And why has Manda got ANOTHER best friend? We teach you how to say Botho’s name?

The Wild Ones chatted about that self love and doing the snaxing solo.

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

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Links to check out:

- 13 reasons masturbation is a feminist act - Bustle

https://www.bustle.com/articles/81994-13-reasons-masturbation-is-a-feminist-act

- Orgasms are good for you - Bustle

https://www.bustle.com/articles/109181-5-surprising-ways-orgasms-are-scientifically-proven-to-make-your-life-better

- 7 Myths About Women and Masturbation It’s Time to Unlearn Right Now – Everyday feminism

https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/myths-women-masturbation/

- So many ways to come so little time: Types of orgasm you should know about (Repost)

http://holaafrica.org/10667/

Where does everyone get their sexy things? Should Panda pay for rent or pay for feminist p*rn? Is Tiff watching the whole p*rn clip or just the snax?

Also womxn really like p*rn and spend more time on adult sites on average than their male counterparts.

The Wild Ones are discussing sexy times.

Shout out Tlangi! Panda and us love you! And do we need to put a tiny tampon in?

‘A girl crush is a non-sexual, non-romantic admiration that one woman has for another.’

What is that anyway? Are the straight women outchea thinking people is cute? When you say it are you secretly saying ‘no homo’?

The Wild Ones discuss the phrase girl crush and whether you need #WCW in your life.

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Links to check out:

- It's Time We Reevaluate The Phrase "Girl Crush"-https://www.refinery29.com/2014/03/64071/girl-crush-lesbian-homophobia?bucketed=true&bucketing_referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.co.za%2F

- What’s More Annoying: Spirit Animal or Girl Crush?

https://www.manrepeller.com/minor_cogitations/spirit-animal-girl-crush.html

- Girl crush: why the queer and lesbian community is

http://fashionista.com/2014/03/girl-crush-why-the-lesbian-and-queer-women-community-is-fashions-major-blind-spot/

- Politically I choose to only date women - http://holaafrica.org/politically-i-choose-to-only-date-women-say-what-now/

Is being sex positive mean you are constantly Down To F**k?

Do you have to be constantly be looking to get a finger in your butt randomly? Are period snacks a real thing?

Also how have we never done a sex positivity podcast?

The Wild Ones sit down and chat about how to do this sex positive thing.

Shout out to our white girl Casey who pole dances! Also we met a Sexy Lexy!

Links to check out:

- Oh Joy Sex Toy: What does it mean to be sex positive?- https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/oh-joy-sex-toy-what-does-it-mean-be-sex-positive

- 8 Ways To Be Positive You’re Sex Positive - http://www.thefrisky.com/2012-05-09/8-ways-to-be-positive-youre-sex-positive/

- 5 Myths Sex-Positive Feminism Can Perpetuate About Women Who Don’t Do Casual Sex -

https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/05/sex-positive-casual-sex-myths/

- 7 Myths About Sex-Positive Feminists (Bustle )- https://www.bustle.com/articles/113037-7-myths-about-sex-positive-feminists

The Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship.

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Where have the wild ones been? How do you send your naked body over the interwebs? Why is revenge porn a scam?

And we’re baaaaaaaccccckkkkkkk!!!!

Welcome to Season 2 Wild Ones. Tiff and Manda have been plotting away in the stu coming up with awesome episodes for season número dos. This episode we do a young recap of what the wildness is for baby Wild Ones who will be joining us this season and jumping straight into the art and complexity of sending segzy pics through the innanets. We delve into revenge porn and if that name is legit or nah.

Grab your wine, take a sexy snap of your knee (listen, it’ll make sense lol) and lets get it popping for 20-FINEteen

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life.

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Amanda on Twitter manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge

HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica

Links to check out:

Revenge porn: 5 Important reasons we should not call it by that name - https://www.genderit.org/articles/5-important-reasons-why-we-should-not-call-it-revenge-porn

How to send safe nudes without ruining your life - https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/safe-sexting-how-to-send-nude-photos-watermark-not-ruin-life-annika-simons-facebook-a7785311.html

10 sexting tips that will protect your nudes and take dirty talk to the next level - https://hellogiggles.com/lifestyle/technology/10-sexting-tips-that-will-protect-your-nudes-and-take-dirty-talk-to-the-next-level/

What popped with Tiff & Manda in TwentyGAYteen? Moving, heart breaks, studying, starting podcasts, violence in the community and movement, f**ky politics, good friendship and showing up for people, why folks aint s**t and being on NGO boards.

The Wild Ones count down their top things that happened, chatting the high lows of 2018. Grab your last glasses of wine and join them.

This the last episode of the year and of Season One. But do not worry we shall be back in the new year. Come back to us in Jan 2019!

@QueerWoc have the DOPEST intro song! And we stay fan girling.

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