Jane, Heidi, and Etienne share their raw, unfiltered experiences with perimenopause and menopause, discussing the surprising symptoms that signaled their hormonal changes. The conversation tackles everything from unexpected libido surges to emotional volatility, urinary incontinence, and the misconceptions surrounding hormone replacement therapy.

• Perimenopause can cause an unexpected surge in libido, contrary to common beliefs about declining sex drive
• Women can still get pregnant during perimenopause and should continue birth control until fully in menopause
• Hot flashes, mood swings, and memory issues are common symptoms that can significantly impact quality of life
• Hormone levels affect various body systems, with low testosterone contributing to brain fog and mood issues
• Many women experience urinary incontinence due to estrogen depletion, which can improve or vanish with hormone therapy
• Medical misinformation about hormone replacement therapy has left many women suffering unnecessarily
• The book "Estrogen Matters" provides valuable information about hormonal health during menopause
  
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Our hosts share the books, short stories, and movies they wish they had created themselves, revealing the stories that have influenced them as writers and readers.

• What Stephen King wished he had written 
• The top three works most writers reportedly wish they'd written 
• Heidi praises a book focused on time travel and a claustrophobic movie 
• Etienne admires a book centered on a hostage situation and an Academy Award winning movie set in Los Angeles 
• Jane highlights 3 authors she loves 
• The hosts discuss books that provoked strong emotional reactions, both hated and loved 
• Real-life survival stories 

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The unexpected phenomenon of "hobosexuals" takes center stage in this eye-opening episode that will have you reconsidering your dating boundaries. We unpack the surprising definition of hobosexuals and you'll be surprised how long this term has been around!

Shocking statistics reveal the prevalence of financially motivated dating. The classic warning signs emerge through hilarious personal stories: rapid relationship acceleration, mysterious housing insecurity, and exceptional bedroom skills used as manipulation tools.

Our hosts share their close encounters with potential hobosexuals, from the "savant of oral sex" living in a garage with bunk beds to "Pighair," a homeless man who attempted to convert a simple act of kindness (and 13-bean soup) into a permanent living situation. These cautionary tales highlight how these relationship opportunists target empathetic people, particularly caregivers already conditioned to nurture others.

What distinguishes hobosexuals from sugar relationships is the element of deception rather than explicit understanding. As we navigate modern dating's complexities, perhaps our most valuable takeaway is this: whether you're living alone or with roommates, be wary of anyone who seems more interested in your address than in you. Have you encountered a hobosexual? Share your stories with us on social media or email ([email protected])

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Remember stumbling upon that mysterious stack of magazines hidden in your parents' closet? You're not alone. In this candid, often hilarious conversation, Etty, Jane, and Heidi--three Gen X women--share their first encounters with adult content and how these formative experiences potentially shaped their sexual preferences and perspectives.

The hosts reflect on how finding erotic materials as curious pre-teens and teenagers created lasting impressions that influenced their adult relationships and desires.

Beyond personal anecdotes, the episode explores surprising research findings that challenge common assumptions about pornography, sparking thoughtful discussion about authenticity in adult entertainment and how performative expressions of pleasure might create unrealistic expectations.

The conversation takes a deeper turn when considering how today's easily accessible online content might be shaping younger generations' sexual expectations. The hosts express concern about the prevalence of certain themes in mainstream pornography while acknowledging the importance of open, honest conversations about sex and media literacy.

What makes this discussion unique is the balance of humor, vulnerability, and thoughtful reflection. These women aren't just sharing embarrassing stories—they're examining how early exposures influenced their understanding of sexuality, pleasure, and relationships in ways both subtle and profound.

Ready to reflect on your own formative experiences? Share your stories with us at [email protected] or connect with us on social media. Join the conversation as we continue exploring the complex intersections of sex, relationships, and personal growth through the lens of creative Gen X women.

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Our hosts share personal stories about their experiences with psychedelics, from accidental first trips to intentional journeys with shamans, including insights on therapeutic potential and safety.

• Etienne, Jane, and Heidi share their fun and/or interesting facts for this episode
• Jane's first LSD experience happened accidentally at a Grateful Dead concert at age 16
• Etienne's three-day acid trip at 21 with the "Ken Kesey acid" led to a surprising romance and creative epiphany
• Heidi didn't try psychedelics until age 50 but has had profound experiences with mushrooms and ayahuasca
• Ayahuasca ceremonies provided healing, visions of fractal patterns, and spirit guide encounters
• Recent research shows psychedelics' therapeutic potential despite their Schedule 1 classification
• Mushrooms rank as one of the safest substances, contradicting their legal status
• Safety tips: have trusted companions, a sober trip sitter, and approach with intention

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What makes someone become a writer? For the three Gen X hosts of Women Are Plotting, their creative origins trace back to childhood—creating elaborate storylines for Barbies, convincing neighborhood kids a shark lurked in a backyard pond, and discovering the thrilling power of bringing imaginary worlds to life with nothing but words.

This debut episode reveals the fascinating, often winding paths that led Etienne, Jane, and Heidi to writing. From the four-year-old who realized she could transport others with her stories to the aspiring filmmaker who discovered screenwriting through a scheduling conflict, each journey demonstrates that creativity finds its expression against all odds. 

With delightful asides about Stephen King sleeping with the lights on and Ray Bradbury being "knighted" by a carnival performer, this episode celebrates the quirky inspirations that fuel creativity. The hosts make a compelling case for why authentic human storytelling—born from lived experience—will always connect with readers in ways artificial intelligence never can.

Whether you're a writer yourself or simply curious about the creative process, this warm, honest conversation invites you into the world where ideas exist as living entities, searching for the right vessel to bring them to life. Subscribe to The Women Are Plotting for more insights into creativity, writing, and the stories we tell ourselves.

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