Why do men report reaching orgasm far more often than women during partnered sex—and what can we do about it?

In this honest, humorous, and thought-provoking episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive into the reality of the "orgasm gap." Drawing on current research and their own personal experiences, they explore why so many women struggle to prioritize their own pleasure, how communication and trust shape intimacy, and why mutual satisfaction should be the goal in every healthy relationship.

The conversation covers everything from first orgasms and sexual education to confidence, vulnerability, pornography, long-term relationships, and the importance of advocating for your own needs. Along the way, the hosts share funny, candid stories while offering practical insights into creating stronger emotional and physical connections with a partner.

Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode is an open, judgment-free discussion about intimacy, communication, and why better conversations can lead to better sex.

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Have you ever experienced something that defied explanation? An uncanny coincidence, a psychic moment, an out-of-body experience, or a meditation so profound it changed the way you see the world?

In this fascinating episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari share deeply personal stories about astral projection, psychic phenomena, meditation, past-life regression, Reiki, near-death experiences, and the mysterious moments that have shaped their spiritual journeys. From childhood out-of-body experiences and vivid metaphysical encounters to unexplained premonitions, ghostly experiences, and life-changing meditation retreats, the conversation explores what might lie beyond ordinary consciousness.

Whether you're a skeptic, a believer, or simply curious, this episode doesn't claim to have all the answers. Instead, it's an open-minded discussion about the experiences that challenged the hosts' understanding of reality and inspired them to ask bigger questions about consciousness, spirituality, and what it truly means to be human.

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Brace yourself—this may be the funniest (and grossest) episode of The Women Are Plotting yet.

Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive headfirst into the wonderfully awkward world of bodily malfunctions, sharing outrageous true stories that range from hilarious to horrifying. Inspired by Heidi and Jane's book Shiterature: True Tales of Bodily Malfunctions, the conversation covers unforgettable nursing experiences, daycare disasters, travel mishaps, septic tank catastrophes, embarrassing bathroom moments, and the universal truth that every human being has a poop story.

Along the way, the hosts mix fascinating facts about digestion, toilets, and human biology with laugh-out-loud personal anecdotes that prove sometimes the funniest stories are the ones we'd rather not admit happened. Equal parts comedy, friendship, and oversharing, this episode reminds us that embarrassment is universal—and laughter really is the best medicine.

If you've ever had a bathroom emergency, you'll probably laugh, cringe, and maybe even feel a little better about your own stories after listening to this one.

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What happens when the person causing the most pain in your life is someone you're supposed to love—or someone who's supposed to love you?

In this deeply personal and compassionate episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari share their experiences with narcissistic parents, partners, friends, and other toxic relationships. Through honest conversations and personal stories, they discuss the warning signs of narcissistic behavior, emotional manipulation, gaslighting, control, and why setting healthy boundaries can feel so difficult.

The hosts explore how narcissistic relationships affect self-esteem, why victims often blame themselves, and the long road toward healing through therapy, self-discovery, and supportive friendships. They also talk about concepts like narcissistic supply, gray rocking, emotional abuse, and the importance of recognizing when it's healthier to walk away than to keep trying to change someone who doesn't want to change.

While this episode is based on personal experiences rather than clinical advice, it's ultimately a message of hope: healing is possible, boundaries matter, and everyone deserves relationships built on mutual respect, empathy, and unconditional love.

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Is midlife really a crisis—or is it the perfect time to build the life you've always wanted?

In this deeply personal episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari explore what it means to reinvent yourself in midlife. From divorce, career changes, and menopause to finding new friendships, rediscovering creativity, and learning to prioritize authenticity over expectations, the hosts share honest stories about navigating life's biggest transitions with courage and hope.

Together they discuss why so many women are embracing fresh starts later in life, how fear often keeps us stuck, and why choosing yourself isn't selfish—it's necessary. They also talk about changing careers, healing after loss, building a new community, dating after long-term relationships, hormone therapy, therapy, and the surprising freedom that comes from letting go of the life you thought you were supposed to live.

Whether you're considering a major life change or simply wondering what's next, this conversation is an uplifting reminder that every ending can become a new beginning—and that some of the best chapters of our lives don't begin until midlife.

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What was it really like to live through the 1990s? Before smartphones, GPS, social media, and streaming changed everything, life was a little messier, a little slower—and, in many ways, a lot more adventurous.

In this nostalgic episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari look back on the decade that shaped Gen X. From grunge music, raves, Reality Bites, and the Spice Girls to payphones, paper maps, calling cards, airport gate passes, thrift-store fashion, and life before the internet took over, the hosts share hilarious stories and unforgettable memories from one of the most transformative decades in modern history.

Along the way, they reminisce about traveling overseas without smartphones, discovering underground music scenes, the culture of authenticity that defined the era, and why the '90s felt like the last time people were truly disconnected—in the best possible way. Filled with laughter, personal stories, and plenty of pop culture references, this episode is a celebration of a decade that taught a generation to embrace independence, creativity, and living in the moment.

Whether you lived through the '90s or are simply curious about what life was like before everything went digital, this episode is a fun and heartfelt trip back to the last great analog decade.

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Where do great ideas come from? Do writers invent them—or do they simply learn to recognize them when inspiration comes calling?

In this thoughtful and wide-ranging episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari explore the mysterious nature of creativity, inspiration, and the elusive muse. Drawing from Greek mythology, famous artists, bestselling authors, and their own writing lives, they discuss whether ideas exist independently of us, why some stories seem to arrive fully formed, and how dreams, memories, everyday experiences, and even life's greatest challenges can become the foundation for unforgettable stories.

Along the way, the hosts share personal experiences with creative breakthroughs, the writing process, childhood memories, journaling, memoir, and the healing power of storytelling. From Elizabeth Gilbert's Big Magic and the Beatles to Stephen King, Edgar Allan Poe, and the role of empathy in great fiction, the conversation celebrates the joy—and discipline—of turning inspiration into art.

Whether you're a writer, artist, musician, or simply someone who has ever wondered where creativity comes from, this episode offers an inspiring reminder to stay curious, stay open, and be ready when the muse whispers in your ear.

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Can friends really have sex without complicating the relationship? Or does someone always end up catching feelings?

In this candid and hilarious episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive into the complicated world of friends with benefits. Drawing from their own lives, they explore everything from accidental situationships and successful casual relationships to friendships that were forever changed after crossing the line into romance.

The conversation tackles the unspoken rules of friends with benefits, the importance of honest communication, whether men and women can truly remain "just friends," and why some people can separate sex from emotions while others simply can't. Along the way, the hosts share unforgettable stories about college hookups, military romances, awkward kisses, love bombing, celebrity trivia, disastrous dates, and the lessons they've learned about attraction, boundaries, and modern dating.

Equal parts funny, honest, and surprisingly insightful, this episode reminds listeners that every relationship is different—and sometimes the best stories come from the ones that never became relationships at all.

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What happens when three Gen X women take a trip back to the days of rabbit-ear antennas, Saturday morning cartoons, after-school specials, and television that everyone watched together?

In this nostalgic episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari revisit the television shows that shaped their childhoods and influenced the people they became. From The Twilight Zone, The Incredible Hulk, Fantasy Island, and Charlie's Angels to Cheers, The Golden Girls, Little House on the Prairie, Magnum P.I., and countless other classics, the hosts share favorite memories, childhood crushes, behind-the-scenes trivia, and the life lessons these iconic shows taught them.

The conversation explores what made Gen X television so memorable, why some beloved series still resonate today while others haven't aged as well, and how shared TV experiences created a unique cultural connection before streaming and social media changed the way we watch entertainment. Filled with laughter, heartfelt memories, and plenty of pop culture references, this episode is a celebration of the shows that entertained, inspired, and, in many ways, helped raise an entire generation.

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Have you ever experienced something that defied all logic? A shadow in the doorway, unexplained footsteps, a presence you couldn't ignore—or a ghost you still can't explain years later?

In this spine-tingling episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari share the most frightening paranormal experiences of their lives. From haunted houses and mysterious apparitions to unsettling encounters that left them questioning everything they thought they knew, each story is deeply personal, surprisingly emotional, and guaranteed to give you chills.

The conversation explores why so many people report paranormal experiences, whether ghosts are lingering energy or something else entirely, and how fear, intuition, and curiosity shape the way we interpret the unexplained. Alongside the scares are moments of humor, compassion, and wonder as the hosts discuss family ghost stories, protective spirits, haunted locations, and the experiences that still stay with them decades later.

Whether you're a lifelong believer, a healthy skeptic, or simply love a good ghost story, this episode will leave you wondering what might be waiting just beyond the edge of what we can explain.

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