The Worstship

I like to get into the toxic women and men of Love Is Blind each season because the psychos make the show fun. Benita from Kosovo is a disaster with very archaic beliefs, a short fuse and she's arrogant for days. Why does a woman who is conventionally attractive feel like she has to get married yesterday? If she likes traditional roles, she should want a man to pursue her so he can "experience her" later. Benita is an absolute disaster and I'm so glad she was cast because this season is one of the worst seasons in Love is Blind history

Ally Iseman is a relationship mentor, coach and educator who used to be an executive for a Mark Cuban company. She's following her passion, working with clients in mostly America and London and she breaks down the difference in couples here vs. across the pond, identifying toxic jealousy, her upcoming book "For the love of jealousy.," the core elements of modern desire and more!

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Part 1 of my interview with relationship expert Ally Iseman ends with me asking if couples in non-monogamous relationships should discuss a possible date for closing off their relationship or if they should take things day by day.

After Ally answers that question she shared fascinating insights on non-monogamy and how most people misunderstand jealousy and envy and how those feelings can affect their romantic relationships.  Enjoy! Part 3 drops next week. 

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Relationship coach and kink aware professional Ally Iseman says, "I wish people were talking about sexual compatibility as a part of the entire compatibility conversation." 

She gives some great advice on how to introduce new kinks and curiosities in romantic relationships. 

Ally also said, "Finding a partner is different than finding compatibility." She dropped so many gems. I'm telling y'all, you don't want to miss this episode! Part 2 drops next week.

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Daejon Love is the 35 year-old scammer who pretended to be a 49ers wide receiver so he could scam more than 26 women out of nearly $1.4 million. He faces up to 20 years in prison. This episode begins off the cuff, where I briefly mention Love Is Blind UK season 3 before revealing that I intend to launch a newsletter/substack. Then I remembered the loser that is Daejon Love so I had to talk about him a little. I'll be back next week with a new interview episode, hopefully.

You can listen to my new interview on the Turn Her On podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or YouTube. I'm polarizing, which is always better than being boring. Enjoy.

In part 3 of our exclusive with Amari Ice he dives into how superficial preferences decimate most gay men and straight women's dating pools.

Amari also reveals what narcissists are more likely to love bomb, when matchmakers are a waste of money, what we haven't been teaching men and women about partnership and so much more! Enjoy.

Take Amari's dating quiz and contact him here to get started.

In part 2 of my exclusive interview with ask gay dating coach Amari Ice, I ask Amari what the similarities are between straight women and gay men and he had compelling responses that I completely agree with. He also points out the pitfalls that gay men and straight women fall into and how that impacts the longterm success or failure of our romantic relationships.

Amari's married but he gives the best reason why we shouldn't judge dating coaches based upon whether or not they're single. Next we talk about trolls and then this episode ends on a cliffhanger! 

Amari provides the stats and data on why so many people are single in part 3 of our interview next week!

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Amari Ice has been a dating coach for the past 15 years. He's the first black gay dating coach and matchmaker in America and he has great advice for everyone, of every orientation. He's smart, likeable, and his success speaks for itself. Many of Amari's former clients are married because of the skills he taught them.

We discuss red and green flags, what to look for, attachment styles, picking a partner who has the right capacity for you, how he met his husband and so much more. You're gonna love this episode. Part 2 drops next week. Enjoy.

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Jessica Grace spent her The Ultimatum season 4 appearances showing viewers everything they should avoid in a relationship - a controlling partner who refuses to forgive and aims to humiliate and "punish." 

I rewatched all of Edris' scenes to discuss why I believe Jessica is lying when she told Nick Viall that Edris is a great guy and she was exaggerating her abuse claims at the reunion. Viewers can see that Edris comes across as a textbook abuser, IMO.