The Worstship

What happens the only time I tell y'all that I'm going on a first date? I have to embarrass myself by giving an unexpected update. It has been forever since someone didn't want to go on a second date with me. I can't even remember when that was. I had fun on my date and I teach others how to only have good first dates. Ok, let's get to it already. Enjoy.

Madison makes great TV, but she's the girlfriend from hell. 

Next we have Annie, who gets drunk and picks fights. Her ex-boyfriend says Annie exhibited the same behavior when they were together, before or after her DUI arrest (I'm unsure but I mention it). 

And last but not least, KB is 27 years old (when Love Is Blind was filmed) and she says she wants Edmond to put a baby in her next year.... YIKES! The bar does not have to be in hell, ladies! And acting like Madison & Annie when you're dumped is toxic and SO STRANGE. I have so many questions!

The audio quality on this episode is pretty bad. I apologize.

I outline why Kalybriah "KB" Haskin, the Black social worker on Love Is Blind season 9, is toxic. KB is beautiful, kind, and patient but she shouldn't want her man to get into a fist fight on her behalf.

She also shouldn't talk about her promiscuous past while denying her nerdy fiance the cookie, and she shouldn't argue with her partner in public when she could have some respect and save the argument for when they're at home.

I like KB and I want her to succeed. She's done the best she could given the weirdo she ended up with, but it's time to dissect when KB is in the wrong because some of her missteps are common - talking about being promiscuous with a partner who doesn't know what promiscuity is?! I had to call her out.

I read an excerpt from my Dating Hacks chapter from my book, So Drunk A Tooth's Gotta Go. I also explain why it's good to talk to someone you meet (online or offline) about sex before it happens. I've dodged bullets this way and you will too! 

I recorded this yesterday, before getting ready for a date - I'll give an update.

I forgot to share more personal stories so I imagine I'll record a part 2 on this topic sometime in the future.

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Part 3 of our exclusive interview with Aleks Filmore, author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever, is easily one of my favorites! He speaks candidly on what it's like being a gay man in Romania vs. Belgium.

Did you know some people had to run gay clubs in their house?! Gasp. We also discuss Aleks' next book, (it should drop early next year), what made him cry, and so much more! Aleks does not hesitate to self-reflect. It's so refreshing to hear about his journey.

I also ask him to send me nudes. My inbox is waiting. I'll keep you all posted. In the meantime, I'm gonna try to get him to interview me soon. It's payback time? I explain during the episode. Enjoy.

The Worst Boyfriends Ever is peak entertainment! It's 25 chapters about 25 of Aleks' worstships. Grab a paperback for only $10! The ebook is only $4.99.

Aleks Filmore, author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever, talks about dating someone with elaborate kinks. He also dated a man in his 30s, who needed his mom's approval for everything, then there was a pathological liar who lived in a fantasy world... I also drag Aleks for being for the streets!

After we talk about some of Aleks' worstships, I ask him about the dating scene in Europe. This episode ends on a cliffhanger, but part 3 drops next week. I learned a lot about dating in Romania vs. Belgium and you will too (in next week's episode).

The Worst Boyfriends Ever is peak entertainment! It's 25 chapters about 25 of Aleks' worstships. Grab your copy for only $10!

Aleks Filmore wrote the shocking and entertaining book, The Worst Boyfriends Ever. I enjoyed his book so much, I asked for an interview. The Gambler Swindler asked Aleks for his credit card and used him for his entire credit limit! In this episode, we also talk about a pathological liar Aleks dated.

The Worst Boyfriends Ever is 25 chapters about 25 of Aleks' worstships. It's only $10!

I can't wait to share part 2 & 3 of our interview the next few weeks. Some of Aleks' exes are terrible. What a wild ride.

Aleks removed his picture from his profile. So sorry you can't see what I'm talking about when I say he's handsome. Enjoy part 1 of our exclusive with the talented author of The Worst Boyfriends Ever.

Dropping some life updates on y'all and reminding you NOT to listen to terrible dating advice from people who love & care about you. Don't fall for that trap! I'm also moving in less than 2 months and I can't decide if I'm happy for Summer Walker. Her new man looks old AF and she's in her late 20s.

I have a new interview coming next week! We're getting back to the basics - one on one interviews with people discussing their worstships. In the interim, I've recapped the Love Is Blind UK season 2 reunion. I think the show is broken. People can find everlasting love on reality TV, but I feel like there's a cultural difference with UK men. They're far more concerned with the optics, Javen's clownery excluded, than American men are. Love Is Blind UK didn't work the second season. Let's get into it.

Pop culture corner is back. Love Island USA season 7 reunion recap... Olandria cries about Huda's racist fans. Huda did nothing to stop them. Nic was also reportedly crying about Huda's racist fans - that footage was edited out, along with Jeremiah's rant about Huda's abuse. Are Love Island producers racist, or are they working overtime to try to protect Huda's image?

I forgot to mention that Netflix staff confirmed that Huda Mustafa lied, she can speak openly about dating Louis. I also forgot to mention that Huda says "I love you!" to manipulate others. SHE IS THE ABSOLUTE WORST and I hope she fades into oblivion yesterday.