We are always told if only we had better options, everything would be fixed. But this ignores human nature.

In a world where we see hundreds of people show off their lives every single day, how do we enjoy ours? Today we discuss how to reduce the fear of missing out.

How do you learn from something you don’t remember?

What has fear cost you?

Wherever you look right now in our society one thing is consistent: we are all plagued by fear. But fear has a cost.

Fear has cost me so much. So much peace. So much joy. It’s a silent thief that quietly drains every moment of it's beauty but we tolerate it because it’s familiar. How do we break that miserable comfort zone? Today on Not A Victim.

Today I start with a great piece by Dennis Prager then bring some loosely connected thoughts on the interplay between Goodness, Purity & Cynicism.

Do we really know who we are? Or are we just trying to get by and blend in? Today my good friend Tim Collis contributes his thoughts on the role belief in God plays in knowing our Identity and our destiny.

As mobs tear down statues, we begin to see an ugly reality: Despite killing 100,000,000 people, collectivism is on the rise in America. How could this be? What is it about the modern psyche that finds it's home in such a destructive ideology?

Today on Not A Victim

(Kenosha)

Is BLM really just about making sure African-Americans are treated fairly? or under the mask is there something far bigger at play?

"We dismantle the patriarchy"

"We disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family"

"Freeing ourselves from the tight grip of heteronormative thinking"

Today we look at what animates chaos and what we can do about it.

In today's society Loneliness is an epidemic. One study showed that acute loneliness has the same physical affects as smoking 15 cigarettes per day. What can we do about it? Today we discuss a few ideas.

"How do I stop feeling like everyone hates me?

I dunno, I've felt this way for years. I usually end up ignoring people because I'm like "Oh they hate me anyways"...which usually ends up kinda coming true because I end up ignoring them because I'm convinced they hate me when really I guess they end up just feeling like I'm rude, antisocial, and don't really want anything to do with them. And part of me just doesn't want anything to do with them, because, again, I'm convinced everyone just hates me... How do I get over this? I know rationally, sure, no one HATES me. But it just feels that way and I don't know how to go about changing that mentality. How do I get over this?!"

#ToughQuestions