Mango and I discuss the family matters on her heart. She really expresses her feelings about various family situations which lead to one or more members departing. A disconnection resulting due to a death in the family, unforgiveness, rejection, and other painful circumstances. We realize family can be the root of our sorrows or abuse. We find safety in our created family of friends.
Some families are loving and full of compassion. They love one another out of pure willingness. There are other families that tolerate one another due to obligation, which then meets its limit once the condition is right reject one or more family members. The obligation-love is short lived and full of hatred, jealously, or greed. The clan suffering through these issue will devolve through time.
I pray that you and your family have an intimate relationship through the years. If you are unfortunate in being born into an abusive and cold family, then create a family with healthy friends. It's your life and it's relatively short period time compared to other forms of life. Do you want to spend your time begging for obligated love? Leave the shores of rejection that only causes you stress and depression.
Inclusion, fine joy in the lord and those willing to love you. Learn to love and learn to accept those who love you.