Thirsty: the Podcast

It's the tech we love to hate: dating apps. While dating apps are necessary for anyone wanting to meet a new match, sometimes they create more roadblocks than they remove. Today, Thirsty is talking about why dating actually might not be a numbers game after all, and why the phrase "putting all your eggs in one basket" may be a misnomer. Heather and Laura are discussing about how to make better (and quicker) decisions about your love life, the "swipe right" mentality, and why looking for the "best one" means you may never find it. They're also covering why dating apps dehumanize us, appeal to our addictive sensibilities, and sometimes keep us from meaningful relationships. If there's one thing dating apps have taught us: instant connection is real, but a true love story plays the long game.

Rebuilding life as a divorced or single parent takes creativity, ingenuity, and grit. You're doing things you never thought you would have to do — and many times you might feel totally alone. The good news is that there are ways to make life run a little bit more smoothly, and Thirsty is here to talk about it all today. From buying a car to managing a home to moving your body (and more), there are many things you can do to get things under control, even if you don't have a local support system. Laura is talking about the recent car emergency that tried to send her into a tailspin, how Heather bought the house of her dreams, and methods they've used to manage finances after finalizing a divorce. Life may look and feel differently now, but overall, there are ways to make your second chapter your best chapter, even when you're doing life on your own.

Meet Too Touchy Travis, the date who was charming, fun, but didn't keep his hands to himself. Heather's experience on this date had her wondering how to navigate the physical factor when you're just getting to know someone for the first time. How should we handle the situation when ew feel uncomfortable on a date? Is the answer different if you're attracted to them? Is there a right or wrong answer when we're talking about small physical interactions? Today, Thirsty is covering it all, including the difference between "dark days" dating and dating while (mostly) healed, making intentional choices, and why we compromise ourselves when starved for affection. Heather and Laura are also talking about big age differences in dating, why newly separated folks sometimes make excuses for their behavior, and why yellow flags are the best kind of flags. 

Today, Thirsty wants to know, do nice guys really finish last? And, what makes someone a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" in the first place? Heather and Laura are talking about the difference between truly nice men, and the ones who are just pretending. This episode proves that appearances aren't always what they seem, and sometimes what looks good on the surface hides deeper issues of entitlement, insecurity, and a disconnect from reality. They're also talking about "bad boys" that aren't so bad, why we choose the dates that we do, and why Laura's got a lisp that'll last her for a real long time.

For this year's Valentine's Day, Thirsty wants to know, is true love real? Heather and Laura dove deep on this topic, wondering what it takes to find real love, and, what makes love last? They're covering the three types of love, why attachment styles matter, and what they look for in a love match. Is love truly a verb, what does the science say, and more than anything, does everyone gets the opportunity to experience a great love story?

What do love, long distance, and corn have in common? In the words of The Corn Kid, we've never seen a more beautiful thing. Modern dating is hard enough without throwing hundreds of miles into the mix. Or, is it? Maybe with a dose of thoughtfulness, a side of clear communication, and two open hearts, love really can go the distance after all. Today, Thirsty is covering how to make long distance work, and why it may actually be easier than dating local for divorced parents. Heather and Laura are talking about how to keep your relationship from becoming a vacationship, long distance from a man's point of view, and what makes Laura go into hiding. They're also covering hair debacles, Laura's affection for Love after Lockup, and what happened when Heather ran into Shawn the Smokeshow last summer. While long distance relationships include their own set of challenges, sometimes the effort is well worth the reward.

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Today, Thirsty is unpacking fantasy bonds (and they're not what you think.) People can pretend to be in a great relationship, yet things aren't always what they seem. They post the cute Instagram pics, tell themselves all is well, meanwhile the spark, intimacy, and connection are long gone. Heather and Laura are covering why some choose to stay, when to leave, and why our closest relationships can be the most inauthentic. There's a big difference between boundaries and being controlling, many romantic relationships can resemble a parent/child dynamic, and sometimes the work to sustain a relationship can become too much. If there's one thing they know, learning to confront deep truths can be the way to unlock real love, but only if you're brave enough to make some changes. Real love is on the other side. 

Getting over an ex can be tough. Whether the relationship ended after three months or three years, certain people leave a lasting mark on our hearts. Today, Heather and Laura are covering it all: why we tend to romanticize (or villainize) our exes, what gets us stuck, and why when someone walks away, it's a gift. They're also talking about when we give ourselves breadcrumbs, discerning whether your relationship was about attention or the person, and why Heather doesn't believe in closure. They believe you should say what you need to say after a breakup, being grateful that your heart's light still works, and what whirlwind romances can teach us. In life updates, we'll hear about the half marathon that wasn't, why RunDisney groups are a page-turner, and why we should never take dating advice from friends.

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It's the phrase we see all day, every day on dating apps: "Only looking to date casually." We roll our eyes, sigh deeply in response, but what if casual dating is just... dating? And, what if it's actually possible date casually in a fun, healthy way? Thirsty is doing a deep dive on all things casual. We're talking about how men define it, why women do it, and how to stay true to yourself no matter what. Heather and Laura are also talking why Heather hates labels, how not everyone's looking to get married or cohabitate, and when casual is still emotionally meaningful. They're defining boundaries versus a need to control, why you should stop pretending to be someone you're not, and how if you're trying to avoid "catching feelings" — you might be in the wrong relationship. Dating requires being curious and open, and while casual dating may have a negative rep, it can be really great for two (or more!) people on the same page. Today, they're also covering how Heather scored a real hot date while auditioning for a national reality show, why Laura has been spending time on Brides.com, and wondering do you hang huge murals in your home (or are you normal?)

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