Thirsty: the Podcast

Thirsty: the Podcast

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  • 49. Taking Chances Tyler

    Laura has been known to "sleep-swipe" a time or two on dating apps. For the uninitiated, sleep-swiping is when Laura dozes off and her fingers do the swiping for her. This summer, she sleep-swiped right on Taking Chances Tyler, a man who was only visiting Chicago for a few days. He lived a full plane ride and several states away, so Laura was surprised when she discovered that their connection was more than text deep. A series of romantic weekends and big feelings followed, until one day, Tyler pulled the rug out without warning. However, after a little crying, a little no-contact, and a lot of heart-to-heart conversations, this love story wasn't over. Today we're talking about hope, connection, and when to give love a second chance.

    45 min
  • 46. How to design a self-growth strategy that works

    Today, Heather and Laura are debriefing this past year, then talking about real strategies for self-growth in 2023 — with a sense of humor, as always. They're covering the rollercoaster that was 2022, including international adventures, reflections on connection, and why Laura is determined to carry assorted enormous furniture by herself. Thirsty is also sharing why New Year's resolutions fail where intention wins, exploring why we have so much trouble asking others for help, and proposing that accountability should make you feel supported rather than scolded. New revelations include the fact that while Laura is ready to share a big love update, she also paints like a monster and Heather isn't allowed in her office — ever. Lastly, they've got Thirsty's very first digital tool kit: "Thirsty for More", a 31-page strategic framework for putting words to what's going on in your heart and helping you find the momentum to move forward thoughtfully. Buckle up, 2023 is going to be the best year yet, for all of us.

    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

    Thirsty for More: a digital toolkit for self-growth

    The Thirsty Shop

    55 min
  • 45. Is it possible to change your attachment style?

    Attachment Theory is a field of study coined in the 1950s by psychoanalyst John Bowlby. This phrase describes how the behaviors we learn as a child make a big impact on our romantic relationships as adults. We call them “attachment styles,” and there are four: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. Laura and Heather wonder whether your attachment style can change over time? Is your style a permanent label, or something you can shift? Are they doomed to be anxious attachers for life? Today, Thirsty is talking about how identifying your style can help you understand yourself better, the big lessons Laura learned from her very first boyfriend, and why “barfable moments” are A Thing. They’re also covering why you should bring your bananas to the group chat, how octopus arms help you hang on to your problems, and why anxious avoiders would rather take breadcrumbs than nothing at all.

    Mentioned in this podcast:

    The Thirsty shop

    Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love, by  Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel SF Heller (book)

    The Attached style quizzes

    51 min
  • 42. Making holidays magical (whether you’re divorced or not)
    Holidays give us the opportunity to put work away and reconnect with our loved ones. However, this time can also bring a unique sense of melancholy and stress, whether you’re divorced, partnered, married or single. Today, Heather and Laura are talking about how to make each holiday the day that YOU want it to be, from Christmas to birthdays, Mother’s Day and beyond. They’re covering the year they ran away to a spa for Thanksgiving, why Heather quit holiday cooking for good, and why they take a mini-vacation every Father’s Day weekend. There was that time Heather spent Christmas with Netflix, $10 frozen pizza paired with $70 champagne, and it turned out to be the best Christmas ever. Learn why saying “no” to traditions that no longer serve you and saying “yes” to the things you actually want to do — no matter how unconventional — may be the way to creating memorable holidays that fill your cup with the real joy of the season.
    49 min
  • 41. How important is physical attraction in dating and relationships?
    Recent studies have indicated that people are de-prioritizing physical attraction in favor of more meaningful character traits. This makes Heather and Laura wonder whether Love is Blind is more than just a popular reality show. Turns out emotional maturity, relationship skills, and an ability to commit are winning the day. The data says daters who work on personal growth are more attractive, so what does that really mean? Today, Thirsty is covering what makes daters swipe right, the rules of attraction, great conversation starters, and why every man Heather dates looks the same. Heather and Laura are also talking about Hinge’s voice prompts, how to stop sounding defensive in dating profiles, and why we need to stop interrogating our matches. From decoding popular profile phrases like “fit and active” to the #1 thing we should all look for in a potential partner, they’re covering it all. Love might not be blind, but maybe it’s a little more than skin deep.
    54 min
  • 39. Should you be outsourcing your dating choices to a Facebook group?
    These days, the dating pool can feel like a tricky, scary minefield. It’s become common practice to Google, and even background check, any and all potential dates. If you’re savvy, you’ll also find many Facebook groups designed specifically for today’s modern dater, offering community, support, and advice. In addition, Heather and Laura are asking if there’s such a thing as too much information, how your gut instinct might be the best tool in your dating toolbox, and why we’re always going to be Team Woman. Finally, Thirsty is announcing the birth of their newest babies: the Shop and The Thirst Trap, a special series just for subscribers.
    1 hr 1 min
  • Announcing our new subscriber series and the Thirsty Shop!
    Thirsty is so excited to announce two big developments in our evolution as a podcast! We are launching both a subscriber series and a capsule collection of Thirsty merchandise. Firstly, subscribe to The Thirst Trap to get two bonus episodes per month, created exclusively for Apple Podcast subscribers. The subscribers-only Thirst Trap episodes will be more personal, more candid, more of what our community loves about Thirsty in the first place. Subscribers will also have access to a 10% discount on all our new shop merchandise. Check out the Shop on ThirstyThePodcast.com to see mugs, stickers, hats, sweatshirts, tops and tees. Listen for the full lowdown, subscribe, get yourself a real cute mug from the Shop, and we hope to see you over at The Thirst Trap. The first subscriber episode drops 11/28/22!
    4 min
  • 38. What does it mean to be truly emotionally available?
    Emotional availability is a bit of a buzzphrase in today’s modern dating landscape, but what does it really mean? Vulnerability, bravery, and authenticity are the ingredients to creating a fulfilling and meaningful relationship with romantic partners, friends, family, and even yourself. Heather and Laura are talking about self compassion, learning from past mistakes, and creating a support system that really works. They’re covering why real relationships mean talking about the tough stuff, being yourself at all times, and why telling yourself the truth can sometimes be the most challenging task of all.
    45 min
  • 37. How to handle a breakup you weren’t expecting
    Relationships usually end, whether it’s been a few months, a few years, or a few decades. We’ve all been there. However, sometimes a breakup seems to come out of left field, and you just weren’t ready for it. Heather and Laura are talking about how to stop romanticizing (or villainizing) your ex, how to say the things you need to say, and how to move on. They’ll also help you decide whether to stay connected with your ex, why a rebound relationship might be your best bet, and why Dua Lipa has the best breakup advice we’ve heard yet. Finally, we’re teasing a real big Rowdy Ryan update (from S1:E8) when Heather is surprised to meet — a lot — of Rowdy Ryan’s former dates, uncovering truths she never would have expected.
    51 min
  • 36. Carson the Conundrum: Putting yourself first
    Carson was a former flame who felt like The One, until he disappeared. One year later, who should appear in Heather’s Bumble queue? None other than Carson the Conundrum. Today we’re talking about the difference between The Who and The How in dating, men who think you have amnesia, and how when we’re struggling, maybe it’s time to talk about it. We all know it can be hard to find someone who really fits, but a whirlwind romance is never a bad thing, even if it ends earlier than expected.
    37 min

About Thirsty: the Podcast

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This is a podcast about love, life, and a second chance. Though our marriages failed, we still believe in the power of a great love story. We share the best (and worst!) dating stories, the highs and lows, lessons learned, and nothing’s off limits - well, except for Laura’s refusal to date anyone who lives more than 30 minutes outside her radius. This is Thirsty: the podcast - because sometimes life leaves you wanting more.