This Human Life

Admitting when we are no longer compatible with our partners can be one of the most painful processes in our lives, but it can lead to a whole new period of regeneration for both of you. We are constantly developing as human beings, but does this mean that we deserve the chance to spread our wings if our partner is holding us back?

This week, Paul is joined by Bas and Priska, otherwise known as The Love Alchemists, who are here to discuss this fascinating, if sometimes painful topic  

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Women are generally the ones who grow and develop faster than their partners, often feeling the need to progress when something feels imbalanced in the relationship.
• In general, women tend to take a more aerial view of life, looking for the connections in a more comprehensive way, whereas men tend to be more “ground-level”, taking each challenge as it comes.
• Love comes in many forms. If we can separate romantic love with primal love, then we can recognise that love may exist even when romance is gone.
• There are three elements to a relationship: the partners themselves, but also the relationship itself, which needs constant nourishment.
• Interdependence upon another human being is what makes life worth living. Trust and love lead to enrichment and development.

BEST MOMENTS

‘It’s more about the energy than the gender’

‘You can still love someone even though that glue is weakening’

‘We grow apart because we forget to nourish the “third identity” in the relationship’

’No matter how much work we’ve done, first and foremost we are human beings'

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life  

The Love Alchemists - https://thelovealchemists.com

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHOD

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/ 

Arguably, the last few years have seen an unfortunate increase in the amount of damage we are doing to our planet. In the wake of the Coronavirus pandemic, people have marvelled at sights showing that - without humanity to spoil it - the earth has begun to heal. Will we learn from this insight before it’s too late?

In this very heart-centred episode, Paul chats to his compassionate guest Paul Kelly, about this timely and fascinating topic...

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Warning signs have been prevalent for the last few decades. Overpopulation, and the need to mine natural resources, have blinded us somewhat to the alarming signals from nature.
• Change begins within us, and can usually be effected more quickly if we realise that our needs are drastically different from our wants.
• Lockdown is forcing us to reconnect with our sensibilities as the human race, and is revealing that all along, we needed emotional connection, and that our presence here is damaging the world.
• People are more important than money. Wealth and position cannot exist without humanity, so why is the focus placed so regularly on becoming rich?

BEST MOMENTS

‘We need to start looking after Mother Nature before we think about ourselves’

‘Every time we take something from one part of the world, it has an effect on another part’

’The yin and yang of the world has been imbalanced, and Mother Nature is starting to fight back’

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life

ABOUT THE GUEST

Paul’s young parents divorced before he started primary school, resulting in him and his mother going to live with his loving grandparents.  From starting primary school, Paul was always a keen sportsman, excelling at swimming, football, chess and cricket, and after establishing himself as a regular in the Nottinghamshire (UK) cricket set-up, his grandmother decided to give Paul the opportunity to go to a private school to play his beloved sport; something he continued in Australia.

On his return to England, Paul was attacked after a night out and hospitalised, suffering temporary blindness, a double fractured skull and memory loss.  After 10 days in a coma, he awoke and started to try and rebuild his life; but encountering severe depression, suicidal thoughts, paranoia and heavy drinking binges.  With the help of family, the NHS, friends, and cricket friends, step-by-step, Paul began the road to recovery and happiness – a 25-year roller-coaster journey.

Contact Paul: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100029881989754

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHOD

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/ 

Paul is joined by returning guest, Martin Leifeld, one of the most successful fundraisers and thought leaders in the world, to discuss leadership, and how the first hours of the day can determine the day ahead of us. 

Martin talks about the ways in which he prepares himself to meet the challenges ahead and how focusing on his morning rituals has driven him to success.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Our mood, temperament and mental agility are determined by how we begin each day. By focusing on positivity and productivity straight away, we set the compass of our day.
• Journaling and reflection are empowering ways in which to focus our minds on our achievements, and by doing so, inspire us to achieve more.
• Preparation creates certainty, and adds to a solid foundation for your day ahead. It helps to remove the doubts about where our time will lead us.
• Leaders are not so because of their wealth or position. Leaders can be found at all levels of life, even in the home. We are all responsible for something.
• Always remember that one day we will be living through our final moments. Will there be parts of your life you regret, but more importantly, what will you take pride in?

BEST MOMENTS

‘How we begin our day has everything to do with the kind of day we have’

’The fruit of preparation is peace’

‘We are all leaders’

‘Live your life with the end in mind'

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life

 ABOUT THE GUEST

Asking someone to donate money is tough!

Martin Leifeld would sit in his car rehearsing his ask with sweaty palms, praying he wouldn’t get another rejection. Determined to master his craft he learned the power of embracing discomfort and through powerful human behaviour techniques was able to raise over $500 Million for three organisations!

Martin served as vice chancellor for university advancement at the University of Missouri–St. Louis for ten years.  While there, he led a dramatic increase in fundraising, averaging $26.4 million per year.  Prior to joining UMSL, Martin was associate vice president for university development at Saint Louis University, where he led his team raising $158 million in 3 years.

Raising money became his Number One passion and Martin has since been able to distill the art of fundraising into core fundamental principles and a clear formula that anyone can learn.

Contact Martin via: www.MartinLeifeld.com

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHOD

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/ 

Paul is joined by Joyce Shaw, as the pair discuss the concept of challenges, and why they must actively be faced as lessons in life, instead of obstacles. Only by embracing challenges in life can we truly grow, develop, and master the intricate and beautiful game of life.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Life happens, no matter how much we try to control it. We must accept that challenges arrive whether we like it or not
• Without faith, we will suffer from fear. The more this fear takes root, the less able we will be to face down the challenges of tomorrow.
• The antidote to fear is bravery, and the acquisition of bravery is an ongoing pursuit. Therefore, the acceptance of fear is often the easier option.
• Surrounding ourselves with positivity and support is the first step in achieving the self-belief we need in order to face life’s lessons.

BEST MOMENTS

‘We need to trust that things will get better’

‘We must make the choice to choose love’

’Find the positive. This too shall pass’

‘We know not what the future holds, but we know who holds the future'

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life  

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHODS

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/

Often we spend so much time disciplining ourselves for failing to live up to impossibly high standards. But how can we reframe this disciplinary attitude into one of positivity and gratitude?

Kym Hamer joins Paul once again to discuss the fascinating topics of forgiveness and gratitude, with a particular focus upon self-forgiveness.  

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• The lessons we learn in our formative years are sometimes not the best for of education, yet because we are young we accept these lessons at face value.
• When we are hurt, the choice becomes clear. We can either accept the pain and move on, or we can let the pain become a series of metaphoric blows that never fade unless we address them.
• By accepting responsibility for our part in the things that hurt us, we reduce the resentment and anger we feel.
• Perspective grants us the ability to create awareness and thereby alter the perception of any outcome. By mastering perspective, we take the first step towards mastering the game of life.

BEST MOMENTS

’If we can’t accept our own truth, how can we possibly accept others?’

‘Every choice gives you life’

’The only thing that matters in life is perspective’

‘If we leave the weeds in life’s garden, they’ll strangle the beautiful flowers of gratitude’

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life

www.artemisfutures.co.uk

Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/kymhamer/@kymhamerartemis

Kym Hamer Twitter - https://twitter.com/kymhamerartemis

Kym Hamer Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kymhamerartemis/

ABOUT THE GUEST

From Corporate Change Agent to Thriving Entrepreneur, Kym is an international business coach, entrepreneur & speaker showing businesses and their teams how to master uncertainty and accelerate results.  She is also a managing partner in The Next Ten Years, a start-up taking customer-led business practice into the Middle East, and a trustee at a Secondary Academy in London. 

Kym is passionate about empowering others to take the leap from corporate employee to thriving entrepreneur and as the founder of Artemis Futures, she inspires and equips people to imagine, design and build their own profitable, future-fit businesses.  Kym’s reputation as a master storyteller and powerhouse connector make her the perfect advocate for storytelling and collaboration as two of the essential building blocks in building a business – and life – you love.

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHODS

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/ 

Human beings are much like butterflies, who grow and develop through life until they have taken an entirely different form through radically unique journeys. We should view the current lockdown crisis as a catalyst, not for retreat but for true development. 

Has the darkest of moments for humanity actually provided us with a kickstart for our futures? 

Here to discuss this fascinating topic is Paul’s special guest, Kym Hamer.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• No one ever considered that such large-scale change would ever become the norm, and yet six weeks since lockdown began, we seem to have adapted completely to a new way of life.
• Lockdown has caused us to appreciate the many joys in life that we perhaps have taken for granted for so long. A return to life will cause us to be more appreciative going forward.
• Cataclysmic events pass. We have endured similar feelings of retreat and fear. But these times pass, and we find the will to survive and thrive.
• Now is the time to support and love. Negativity is something we have to learn from others. Our natural instinct is to care. We should give in to our natural compassionate state.

BEST MOMENTS 

’Not a lot of us thought we would really be affected by this crisis’

‘All that we have is this moment, and there are 86,400 moments in a day'

’This too shall pass’

‘Practising kindness and compassion for ourselves and others is truly important at the moment’

‘Our time is now'

VALUABLE RESOURCE

Mastering The Game Of Life

Paul Lowe

www.artemisfutures.co.uk

Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/kymhamer/@kymhamerartemis

Kym Hamer Twitter - https://twitter.com/kymhamerartemis

Kym Hamer Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kymhamerartemis/

ABOUT THE GUEST

From Corporate Change Agent to Thriving Entrepreneur, Kym is an international business coach, entrepreneur & speaker showing businesses and their teams how to master uncertainty and accelerate results.  She is also a managing partner in The Next Ten Years, a start-up taking customer-led business practice into the Middle East, and a trustee at a Secondary Academy in London. 

Kym is passionate about empowering others to take the leap from corporate employee to thriving entrepreneur and as the founder of Artemis Futures, she inspires and equips people to imagine, design and build their own profitable, future-fit businesses.  Kym’s reputation as a master storyteller and powerhouse connector make her the perfect advocate for storytelling and collaboration as two of the essential building blocks in building a business – and life – you love.

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHOD

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/ 

As someone whose fought his way up from rock-bottom, few people know more about positive transformation than Gary “Boatsy” Clarke. From positive, nurturing beginnings, Gary saw his life spiral downwards when he became involved in the world of football hooliganism in the 1980’s, resulting in a prison sentence.

For many, it would have spelled the sad end to a once promising life, but as Gary discusses with Paul this week, it was merely the beginning of an entirely new chapter…

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• When we perceive ourselves to be the victims of bullying, we often attempt to regain that control through the same, unfortunate channels.
• Many gravitate towards gang culture as a way of feeling some sense of camaraderie and support. Especially in deprived areas, this mutual connection can sometimes be the only form of understanding.
• The human spirit requires re-grounding sometimes. For Gary, the experience of prison was a powerful reset switch that caused an entire life reboot.
• Life is a constant series of choices. We can’t possibly hope to make the right choice each time, but the important thing is to learn the lesson when the choice turns out to be a poor one.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Being part of a gang meant something - a sense of identity & belonging’

‘I realised it was leading me down one path, and I knew I had to get out of it’

‘My epitaph would read “Seemed like a good idea at the time”'

’The world will judge us on the mistakes we make. All we can do, is keep taking the learning'

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life

Paul Lowe

ABOUT THE GUEST

Gary came from a very respectable family, and enjoyed a secure, loving upbringing, so it was a stark surprise when he became embroiled in the destructive world of football violence within the UK, in the 1980’s.

As a dedicated, loving family man, this was a total contrast to who Gary really was, at his true core self.  Four months’ imprisonment in Durham jail, gave him the opportunity to reflect on his wayward antics, and start to emerge as the compassionate ‘gentle giant’ he naturally is.

Contact Gary via Twitter: @GBoatsy

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHOD

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/ 

We’re in slightly risqué territory today, or are we, as Paul is joined by special guest, Georgia Foster, who’s here to talk about four secrets that can help you to enliven and reignite your sex life.

We’re all sexual creatures, and all have our own specific needs. But as Georgia and Paul discuss, maybe it’s time to take the conversation out of the taboo area and into the open. Today’s show is perhaps the first step in that direction...  

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Seduction begins when we find ourselves attracted to someone. This triggers a reaction in the brain, which awakens our sexual impulses. Seduction begins in the brain.
• Our senses need to be working in alignment with our brain in a positive way. Operating on a sensual level requires that we allow ourselves a certain security and freedom within ourselves.
• Surrender is the act of allowing a person to take the ultimate control of our being. It is the most challenging part of any relationship, but a vital one in terms of development and trust
• Reflection is the art of looking back at the experience as a whole, and granting ourselves a positive outcome, no matter how it made us feel. Even a disagreeable experience is a lesson.

BEST MOMENTS

‘A lot of people think that if you want to talk about sex, it’s going to be dirty or kinky’

’The biggest sexual organ in the human body is the brain’

‘I am sexy. I am vibrant. I am worthy’

’Skin-on-skin is a really profound, positive experience'

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life

Paul Lowe

Georgia Foster - https://www.georgiafoster.com

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHOD

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/ 

Martin Leifeld has spent a twenty-four year career in fundraising over $500 million dollars for the many organisations he’s worked for. It’s a task that’s required bravery, compassion, and most importantly, listening to the voice of his own heart.

In the second part of their conversation, Paul and Martin discuss the human side of fundraising, and why some things are far more important than money.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Fundraising should never be about the number. It should never be about the amounts. It’s not a competition. It should always be about the people we help through that fundraising.
• Work is a place where we can discover more about ourselves, where we can reveal more about ourselves, and where can have true impact upon others.
• We create organisational structure in order to create good. As human beings we tend to need clearly defined instruction instead of a driving purpose.
• People are people, no matter how much money they have in their pockets. Fundraisers, and human beings, should always treat others with the respect they’ve accrued through life. 

BEST MOMENTS

‘Work becomes a primary place through which we can express who we are’

‘We have the most noble of goals. We have the noble of missions’

‘You have to love people, and be curious about people, in order to do this work’

‘Life is all about relationships, and so is fundraising. It’s what we do with what we’ve got'

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Mastering The Game Of Life

Paul Lowe

ABOUT THE GUEST

Asking someone to donate money is tough!

Martin Leifeld would sit in his car rehearsing his ask with sweaty palms, praying he wouldn’t get another rejection. Determined to master his craft he learned the power of embracing discomfort and through powerful human behaviour techniques was able to raise over $500 Million for three organisations!

Martin served as vice chancellor for university advancement at the University of Missouri–St. Louis for ten years.  While there, he led a dramatic increase in fundraising, averaging $26.4 million per year.  Prior to joining UMSL, Martin was associate vice president for university development at Saint Louis University, where he led his team raising $158 million in 3 years.

Raising money became his Number One passion and Martin has since been able to distill the art of fundraising into core fundamental principles and a clear formula that anyone can learn.

Contact Martin via: www.MartinLeifeld.com

 ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

CONTACT METHOD

Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101

E-mail: [email protected]

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Rachael is the founder of Welford Wellbeing, dedicated to helping everyone discover their "high vibes gateway to better mental health”.

Rachael is in discussion with Paul today about the subject of labels, and how the unfortunately all-too-common practice of labelling such complex beings as humans can lead to stigmatisation and misconception, and how we can do our part to dismantle these regrettable barriers.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Labels seek to limit our potential. By applying them to human beings, especially those who have faced challenges in life, we instantly stigmatise and restrict their capacity.
• By instilling a sense of identity upon someone, we force them, sometimes unintentionally, to adhere to that expectation. This is especially true when it comes to children. 
• Most people have never truly experienced unconditional love. This makes it even more difficult for some, as how can we move towards a place of inner peace, when we have no reference point to guide us?
• Affirmations work best if practiced in a certain format. They should be present tense, positive, and practiced persistently. 
• We are driven by awareness, bravery and choice, but many fail to recognise the choice aspect. Remember that even when we make no choice, we are subconsciously choosing not to choose. We are always in control.

BEST MOMENTS

‘I am not my label. I am far more than that’

‘Choose love over fear’

’The key thing is to challenge that inner critic'

‘Are you going to choose the inner-cheerleader, or the critic?'

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Mastering The Game Of Life

Paul Lowe

ABOUT THE GUEST

Rachael is the founder of Welford Wellbeing.  She is on a mission to empower people to take control of their mental, emotional and spiritual health so they can live life on their terms and access their full potential.

Welford Wellbeing poses the question, "What if everything we knew about mental health was wrong?"

Rachael is an inspirational speaker and holistic therapist who has an infectious energy.  Sincere, not serious; she believes in rising together and enjoying life.

She teaches with passion and knowledge gained directly from personal experience of burn out, depression, anxiety and panic attacks.  Having had a breakdown following years of unhealthy coping mechanisms, she decided to face her issues and change her life.  Through this process, as well as extensive training, she has established solid practices that enabled her to not only rebuild her life but launch a business helping others thrive in the same conditions.  This warrants a unique perspective which is delivered in an authentic way.  Often acting as the bridge between spirituality and science, magic and the mainstream Rachael creates an inclusive place of self-discovery, inviting people to join her on a journey to master their mental health and overall wellbeing.

Having worked with a variety of companies from Spotify, Soho House, The Ministry, Reuters, Havas International, TFL and Barbican to NME, lululemon, and Rude Health, Rachael creates unique wellbeing experiences, which inspire others to cultivate self-awareness and build lasting change.

Contact Rachael via: www.welfordwellbeing.com

ABOUT THE HOST

One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”

Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.

Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

“Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”

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