This Human Life

Paul discusses the many schools of thought on human needs and takes inspiration from Anthony Robbins's ‘Six Human Needs’ model. Paul explains the powerful nature of the Six Human Needs and how they impact on our lives, by sharing his own journey from Pain to Philanthropy and how each need has played a significant role in his life -  both positively and negatively.

In a world of emotional instability, Paul felt vulnerable and insecure and as a result, turned to the dominant factor in his life - the demon drink. Hear how he had created an aler-ego and created a black or white all-or-nothing mindset.

Quote: “It’s easy to see how the booze at the time met all of my human needs both directly and indirectly. This created a very addictive pattern of behavior. Significance, growth, and contribution, however, were all met through sobriety.

Finally, Paul rounds out the episode with a quick exercise to help you identify your own human needs.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Anthony Robbins - Six Human Needs

We all have four primitive needs that need to be met, before having two higher or spiritual needs we can work towards.

Certainty

Uncertainty (Variety)

Significance

Love & Connection

Growth

Contribution

Remember these three things:

Human needs are not maybes, wants, likes or loves, these are must-haves in our lives and we will do anything to ensure our needs are met.

Having looked at values and rules in a previous podcast, it’s evident that we will violate our values in order to ensure our human needs are met.

Most of us have two top needs that act as our key drivers, these create a variety of people.

BEST MOMENTS

“If three of our needs are met with a rating of six or above (10 meaning completely) - we would become addicted to that behavior”

“The third human need of significance, the human need to feel special I attempted to gain significance through charitable endeavours on a large scale”

“The highest human need of contribution is about giving to people other than ourselves”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Speaking From Our HEARTS (Paul's Book): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Speaking-our-Hearts-Mastering-game/dp/1781332819

Emerging From The Forest (Paul's Book): Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging From The Forest’

(#001) Mastering Life: As Simple As ABC (Podcast)

Paul Lowe - A Question Of Bottle (poem)

The Three Pillars Of Life Model

http://www.paullowehearts.com/

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is the founder of PaulLoweHEARTS – which has a three-fold purpose. 

Firstly, to help you make the transition from Pain to Purpose; secondly, to get your inspirational messages and stories out into the world and thirdly, to support charitable organisations in their development & fund-raising.

We achieve this by:

Delivering our empowering Mindset For Success programmes

Sharing your true-life inspirational messages and stories through our Mastering Life Podcast and our Speaking From Our HEARTS book series

Utilising our significant charitable knowledge and experience.

Find Your Purpose – Make  A Difference!

Paul is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (an acronym) of:

‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

He has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in the game of life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

In today’s episode of the Mastering Life Podcast, Paul discusses values and rules and shares his own experience of almost joining the Royal Marines; fulfilling his sense of purpose to serve and protect. Paul describes his inspiring - yet self-destructive - journey; as well as his confusion around his own identity.

For Paul’s, all-or-nothing mindset, words were simply not enough as he chased his unreachable value of love.

Paul interviews John Batterby, as they compare their own values and goals; whilst aiming for the same goal (love), their outcomes were completely different.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Due to Paul’s precarious upbringing, he craved the reassurance of love, simply being told he was loved, was not enough

How do your values influence your life?

Think of a positive value to move towards

Think of a negative moving away value

Ask yourself, is there any conflict here, if not continue to focus on what you want

Become aware of your rules around achieving your values

Is this rule, making your value easy or hard to attain?

If it makes it hard, you have the awareness to simply change your rule

BEST MOMENTS

“I wanted to fight for others, those that couldn’t fight for themselves, rationalizing this is the legacy of my early unjust challenges. In my mind, the Royal Marines was the perfect answer and I was given the opportunity to join.”

“At heart, I was a naturally a caring and sensitive person.  This fitted well in the true warrior inside of myself”

“I was living a black and white polarizing existence, with darkness becoming ever more frequent.

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Speaking From Our HEARTS (Paul's Book): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Speaking-our-Hearts-Mastering-game/dp/1781332819

Emerging From The Forest (Paul's Book): Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging From The Forest’

http://www.paullowehearts.com/

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is the founder of PaulLoweHEARTS – which has a three-fold purpose. 

Firstly, to help you make the transition from Pain to Purpose; secondly, to get your inspirational messages and stories out into the world and thirdly, to support charitable organisations in their development & fund-raising.

We achieve this by:

Delivering our empowering Mindset For Success programmes

Sharing your true-life inspirational messages and stories through our Mastering Life Podcast and our Speaking From Our HEARTS book series

Utilising our significant charitable knowledge and experience.

Find Your Purpose – Make  A Difference!

Paul is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (an acronym) of:

‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

He has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in the game of life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

ABOUT THE GUEST

John Batterby was the youngest serviceman to serve in the Falklands War. From a very early age, his ambition was to become a serviceman, following in the footsteps of his Grand-father. Joining as a chef in the Royal Navy, John become a clearance bomb disposal diver. He always had the support of his parents and after 25 years in the Navy and leaving as an NCO went to Spain to become a Personal Trainer.

Trainer John Facebook Page

Challenge your belief system and ask yourself... 'Do fish climb trees?'  In today’s episode, your host Paul Lowe describes his own journey from Pain to Philanthropy and how he learned first-hand that your beliefs and truths are simply based on your awareness at that given time; so ask yourself has your belief system really been put to the test?

Paul explains that anything in life can become a belief, positive or negative. Environment, education, past outcomes, events in life and creative thinking impact on our changing beliefs.

Finally, learn how to 'Let It Go'. Let go of past experiences that don't serve you - but not the lessons learned - creating space in your minds and embracing new, positive concepts, to form better self-serving beliefs.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Long-term transformations emerge as a result of creating new and empowering beliefs based on deep-rooted inspiration.

Understand your own belief system and find your true core self; it’s a case of establishing what beliefs will empower us in pursuit of our goals and then seeking experience in our life to support our belief.

Our thoughts and words massively influence our beliefs. So make sure you reaffirm positive words about yourself and understand the difference in the positive and negative. You’ll become strong when you use strong words and weak when you use weak words. Our mind does what we tell it to do. Constantly tell your mind to do different things and you’ll be more successful.

Understand that in essence Awareness, precedes Beliefs and Beliefs precede Creativity. It’s as simple as ABC - creative thinking provides the most power to serve us.

BEST MOMENTS

“I firmly believe that motivation is superficial and only offers short-term change”

“None of us are broken - we don’t need fixing, all we need to do is continuously work towards a better version of ourselves”

“Our exceptional performances of yesterday will barely suffice for today and won’t be good enough for tomorrow”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Speaking From Our HEARTS (Paul's Book): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Speaking-our-Hearts-Mastering-game/dp/1781332819

Emerging From The Forest (Paul's Book): Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging From The Forest’

http://www.paullowehearts.com/

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is the founder of PaulLoweHEARTS – which has a three-fold purpose. 

Firstly, to help you make the transition from Pain to Purpose; secondly, to get your inspirational messages and stories out into the world and thirdly, to support charitable organisations in their development & fund-raising.

We achieve this by:

Delivering our empowering Mindset For Success programmes

Sharing your true-life inspirational messages and stories through our Mastering Life Podcast and our Speaking From Our HEARTS book series

Utilising our significant charitable knowledge and experience.

Find Your Purpose – Make  A Difference!

Paul is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (an acronym) of:

‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

He has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in the game of life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

Welcome to this Mastering Life podcast. In today’s episode, your host Paul Lowe challenges you to ask yourself, around your awareness of goal-setting & goal-getting.

Paul recaps his inspiring story from Pain to Purpose and helps you to understand the importance of having a reason and working towards a goal in life. You too, can follow in Paul’s journey from Pain to Purpose, Prosperity, & Philanthropy and achieve your dreams by learning the key lessons within the game of life.

Learn how to find your Purpose and be resourceful when setting goals using Paul’s H.O.W model (Health, Others, Wealth). Take control of your life and stop being the victim in the face of adversity; life-changing chances often come off the back of our most difficult challenges.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Why we need goals and HOW.

Have you ever wondered why we sometimes we engage in addictive behaviour?

Have you ever wondered that life is simply happening to you?

Have you ever lacked a direct meaning or focus and, thought that you are capable of achieving so much more?

The world is like a massive football arena with many different types of players. Each performing at their own levels of awareness. Paul’s first-half of life was operating as a distrusting and cynical defensive player. But by learning to accept his own vulnerability and insecurities, Paul has now become immensely strong and is now far more aware of his true self.

BEST MOMENTS

There are two types of people:

- “Those that know or discover one specific life passion”

- “Those that enjoy discovery and curiosity and short-term passions throughout their life”

‘Elizabeth Gilbert’

“Your purpose explains what you are doing with your life. Your vision explains how you are living your purpose. Your goals enable you to realize your vision." - Bob Proctor”

“Education means growth, not just learning for learning's sake”

“Leverage the opportunity and let the ball do the work”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Speaking From Our HEARTS (Paul's Book): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Speaking-our-Hearts-Mastering-game/dp/1781332819

Emerging From The Forest (Paul's Book): Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging From The Forest’

Nancye Sims - A Creed To Live By

http://www.paullowehearts.com/

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is the founder of PaulLoweHEARTS – which has a three-fold purpose. 

Firstly, to help you make the transition from Pain to Purpose; secondly, to get your inspirational messages and stories out into the world and thirdly, to support charitable organisations in their development & fund-raising.

We achieve this by:

Delivering our empowering Mindset For Success programmes

Sharing your true-life inspirational messages and stories through our Mastering Life Podcast and our Speaking From Our HEARTS book series

Utilising our significant charitable knowledge and experience.

Find Your Purpose – Make  A Difference!

Paul is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (an acronym) of:

‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

He has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in the game of life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

Welcome to another episode of The Mastering The Game Of Life Podcast. The theme throughout this podcast has been purpose the first pillar in Paul’s ‘Three Pillars Of Life Model’ Paul begins by sharing his own ‘Purpose Statement’ a simple three-paragraph statement that combines to produce a very powerful reminder of Paul’s purpose.

Paul’s journey from pain to purpose is only the first pillar of Paul’s life, the second is prosperity and the third philanthropy, listen in to hear more about Paul’s voyage and how you too can find your own life’s purpose. Discover how Paul’s purpose has benefited others in real-life practical terms and how he has organised countless adventures and events to help numerous charities, all aimed at making a difference.  

Finally, Paul shares an inspiring poem conceived at the top of Ben Nevis whilst on a charity event, focusing on faith.

Stay tuned until the end to claim exclusive gift Paul is happy to share with you.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

 

Paul has been mentored by Jim Britt and remains clear on that, passing on insights from a mentor is the best form of education. It is better to learn from others mistakes than your own.

 

Paul shares the list of charities and local community projects his work has helped. Paul has worked with International community initiatives that have helped to sponsor education.

Charity helps to inspire others no matter what your starting point is in life. Your past doesn’t equal your future, it is merely a stepping stone to get you where you are now.

BEST MOMENTS

“The benefits of Paul’s three pillars of life model can be life changing”

“As we continue to raise our awareness and growth our purpose statements will change, reflecting our ever-evolving visions”

“I believe the only true religion consists of having a good heart”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging from the forest’

#001 Mastering The Game Of Life Podcast - As Simply As ABC?

Paul Lowe - Jigsaws

Paul Lowe - The Three Pillars Of Life Model

Jim Britt - Tony Robbins mentor and partner to Jim Rohn

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is ‘The Third Sector Mentor’ and makes a difference by helping you make a difference.  He is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (and acronym) of: ‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

Paul has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in The Game Of Life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

In today’s episode of the Mastering The Game Of Life Podcast Paul discusses Values and Rules and shares his own experience of joining the Royal Marines fulfilling his sense of purpose to serve and protect. Paul describes his inspiring yet self-destructive and his confusion of identity.

For Paul’s, all or nothing mindset words were simply not enough as he chased his unreachable value of love. Midway through the episode, Paul interviews John Battersby the youngest serviceman to serve in the Falklands war as they compare their own values and goals, whilst aiming for the same goal (love) their outcomes as were completely different.

John Battersby the youngest serviceman to serve in the Falklands war. From a very early age, his ambition was to become a serviceman, following in the footsteps of his Grandfather. Joining as a chief John become a clearance bomb disposal diver. He always had the support of his parents and after 25 years in the Navy and leaving as an

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Due to Paul’s precarious upbringing, he craved the reassurance of love, simply being told was not enough

How do your values influence your life?

Think of a positive value to move towards

Think of a negative moving away value

Ask yourself, is there any conflict here, if not continue to focus on what you want

Become aware of your rules around achieving your values

Is this rule, making your value easy or hard to attain

If it makes it hard, you have the awareness to simply change your rule

 

BEST MOMENTS

“I wanted to fight for others, those that couldn’t fight for themselves, rationalizing this is the legacy of my early unjust challenges. In my mind, the Royal Marines was the perfect answer and I was given the opportunity to join.”

“At heart I was a naturally a caring and sensitive person, becoming aware. This fitted well in the true warrior inside of myself”

“I was living a black and white polarizing existence, with darkness becoming ever more frequent.

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging from the forest’

#001 Mastering The Game Of Life Podcast - As Simply As ABC?

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is ‘The Third Sector Mentor’ and makes a difference by helping you make a difference.  He is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (and acronym) of: ‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

Paul has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in The Game Of Life

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

Challenge your belief system and ask yourself why don’t fish climb trees? In today’s episode, your host Paul Lowe describes his own journey from pain to purpose and how he learned firsthand that your beliefs and truths are simply based on your awareness at that given time, so ask yourself has your belief system really been put to the test?

Paul explains that anything in life can become a belief, positive or negative. Environment, education, past outcomes, events in life and creative thinking impact on our changing beliefs.

Finally, learn how to Let it go. Let go of past experiences but not the lessons learned, create space in your minds and embrace the new, and the positive, to form a better self-serving belief.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Long-term transformations emerge as a result of creating new and empowering beliefs based on deep-rooted inspiration.

Understand your own belief system and find your true core self, it’s a case of establishing what beliefs will empower us in pursuit of our goals and then seeking experience in our life to support our belief.

Our thoughts and words massively influence our beliefs. So make sure you reaffirm positive words about yourself and understand the difference in the positive and negative. You’ll become strong when you use strong words and weak when you use weak words. Our mind does what we tell it to do. Constantly tell your mind to do different things and you’ll be more successful.

Understand that in essence Awareness, precedes Beliefs and Beliefs precede Creativity. It’s as simple as ABC, although creative thinking provides the most power to serve us.

BEST MOMENTS

“I firmly believe that motivation is superficial and only offers short-term change”

“None of us are broken, we don’t need fixing, all we need to do is work towards a better version of ourselves”

“Our exceptional performances of yesterday will barely suffice for today and won’t be good enough for tomorrow”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging from the forest’

#001 Mastering The Game Of Life Podcast - As Simply As ABC?

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is ‘The Third Sector Mentor’ and makes a difference by helping you make a difference.  He is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (and acronym) of: ‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

Paul has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in The Game Of Life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

Welcome to the of the Mastering The Game Of Life podcast. In today’s episode, your host Paul Lowe challenges you to ask yourself, are you’re Aware Of Why & How?

Paul recaps his inspiring story from pain to purpose and helps you to understand the importance of having a reason and working towards a goal in life. You too, can follow in Paul’s journey to purpose, prosperity, and philanthropy and achieve your dreams by learning the key lessons within ‘The Game Of Life’

Learn how to find your purpose and be resourceful when setting goals using Paul’s H.O.W model (Health, Others, Wealth). Take control of your life and stop being the victim in the face of adversity because as life-changing chances often come off the back of our most difficult challenges.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Why we need goals and how.

Have you ever wondered why we sometimes we engage in addictive behavior?

Have you ever wondered that life is simply happening to you?

Have you ever lacked a direct meaning or focus and, thought that you are capable of achieving so much more?

The world is like a massive football arena with many different types of players. Each performing at their own levels of awareness. Paul’s first half of life was operating as a distrusting and cynical defensive player. But by learning to accept his own vulnerability and insecurities Paul has now become immensely strong and is now far more aware of his true self.

BEST MOMENTS

There are two types of people:

- “Those that know or discover one specific life passion”

- “Those that enjoy discovery and curiosity and short-term passions throughout their life”

‘Elizabeth Gilbert’

“Your purpose explains what you are doing with your life. Your vision explains how you are living your purpose. Your goals enable you to realize your vision." - Bob Proctor”

“Education means growth, not just learning for learning's sake”

“Leverage the opportunity and let the ball do the work”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging from the forest’

#001 Mastering The Game Of Life Podcast - As Simply As ABC?

Nancye Sims - A Creed To Live By

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is ‘The Third Sector Mentor’ and makes a difference by helping you make a difference.  He is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (and acronym) of: ‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

Paul has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in The Game Of Life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

Welcome to the ‘Mastering The Game Of Life’ podcast. Hear Paul’s incredible story from pain to purpose and understand the clutter and confusion in our own minds that contribute towards complication. If you want real Purpose, Prosperity, and Philanthropy in your life and resonate with a more emotive – but results-driven – approach, then tune in and to listen to the 'Mastering The Game Of Life’ podcast…

Plus listen to the end to claim an exclusive free gift.

In today’s episode, your host and founder of the Hearts charity (‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’) Paul Lowe shares with you his inspiring journey and the stark realisation of ‘The Game Of Life’

Discover the three basic insights that will help you to become a better person and help you to achieve your goals. Learn how to take back control of your life and let go of the pain from the past but not the lessons learned.

Paul explains how we grow, by finding the courage to take calculated risks and embrace the learning from the voyage of discovery, because everything starts by knowing who we are and realising our purpose.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

As a result of abuse, neglect, and cruelty during a difficult childhood, Paul attempted suicide in March 1974. However he soon realised a deep-rooted purpose in his life, a desire to help others and in 1991 Paul Kickstarted an 11-year journey of academic and vocational learning, helping him to strive toward bigger and better goals. As a result, Paul got involved in charities forming the Hearts foundation (Helping everyone achieve results toward success).

As Simply As ABC?

Awareness - before we change anything we must be aware of it.

Beliefs - Focuses upon us and our own individual value systems. Do you believe your living life to the full potential?

Creativity - You will never succeed at a challenge without creativity. Elevate our minds so we can elevate our minds.

BEST MOMENTS

“I’m part of the biggest and best club in the world TLC (The life club)”

“Treat life as a game and enjoy every moment of the most precious gift of all, time.”

“Picture your life as a puzzle, as time passes you fit more pieces together to complete the picture”

“The past cannot be changed but it contains some colourful pieces that can help us toward our goals”

“Remember not to fear the unknown, embrace it and learn from it. It’s excellent leverage for us to embark on a more purposeful path.”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging from the forest’

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is ‘The Third Sector Mentor’ and makes a difference by helping you make a difference.  He is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (and acronym) of: ‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

Paul has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in The Game Of Life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

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YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

Paul discusses the many schools of thought on human need and takes inspiration from Anthony Robbins ‘Six Human Needs’ model. Paul explains the powerful nature of the six human needs and how they impact on our lives by sharing his own journey from pain to prosperity and how each need as played a significant role in his life both positively and negatively.

In a world of emotional instability, Paul felt vulnerable and insecure and as a result turned to the dominant factor in his life - the demon drink. Hear how Paul had convinced himself that he didn’t need to meet others expectations and as a created a black or white all or nothing mindset.

Quote: “It’s easy to see how the booze at the time met all of my human needs both directly and indirectly. This created a very addictive pattern of behavior. Significance, growth, and contribution, however, were all met through sobriety.

Finally, Paul rounds out the episode with a quick exercise to help you identify your own human needs.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Anthony Robbins - Six Human Needs

We all have four primitive needs that need to be met, before having two higher or spiritual needs we can work towards.

Certainty

Uncertainty (Variety)

Significance

Love & Connection

Growth

Contribution

Remember these three things:

Human needs are not maybes, wants, likes or loves, these are must-haves in our lives and we will do anything to ensure our needs are met.

Having looked at values and rules in a previous podcast, it’s evident that we will violate our values in order to ensure our human needs are met.

Most of us have two top needs that act as our key drivers, these create a variety of people.

BEST MOMENTS

“If three of our needs are met with a rating of six or above (10 meaning completely) - we would become addicted to that behavior”

“The third human need of significance, the human need to feel special I attempted to gain significance through charitable endeavours on a large scale”

“The highest human need of contribution is about giving to people other than ourselves”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging from the forest’

#001 Mastering The Game Of Life Podcast - As Simply As ABC?

Paul Lowe - The Question Of Bottle

The Three Pillars Of Life Model

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is ‘The Third Sector Mentor’ and makes a difference by helping you make a difference.  He is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (and acronym) of: ‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

Paul has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in The Game Of Life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

CONTACT METHOD

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: www.PaulLoweHEARTS.com

Facebook: PaulLoweHEARTS

Twitter: @paullowehearts

Instagram: paullowehearts

YouTube: PaulLoweHEARTS

Mobile: +44 (0) 7958 042 155