this is a life experience

By carla estefani

hi, welcome! this podcast you can reference to help you as you progress through the stages of life. the building blocks of how to create yourself into a successful person. i present you with valuable ... more

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August 21, 2024 why you date losers
reasons why you date losers, why you tolerate less than you deserve, and how you can break that habit to start dating the guy you deserve.
because I know you are sick and tired of dating the same people, just different faces.
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16min
July 03, 2024 becoming stoic
becoming stoic is not about feeling "nothing". it's about feeling everything and taking control.
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a quick history lesson on Stoicism:
created around 300-320 BC by a merchant named Zeno who was introduced to philosophy when he arrived in Athens. he developed his adaptation to cope with loss. (he was in a shipwreck on his way to Athens where he lost everything)
originally, his followers were called Zenonians who later became known as stoics/stoicism
the people who made stoicism “famous” so to speak, were:
Marcus Aurelius, - emperor of the Roman Empire for nearly 2 decades
Seneca - known for letters from a stoic (started when he was exiled from Rome and continued throughout his whole life)
Epictetus (a man who obtained his freedom from slavery and went on to found a stoic philosophy school to teach until his death)
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4 virtues of Stoicism
courage - to continue even when life becomes challenging
temperance (moderation) - knowing your limits. not too much of a good thing or a bad thing in all aspects of life
justice - doing what’s right and treating others with respect because we are all human
wisdom - gained through learning, listening, and experiences. we have 2 eyes and 1 mouth for a reason. it’s acquiring the right information and using it for good
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10min
June 08, 2024 how to gracefully handle insults

how to gracefully handle insults instead of fighting fire with fire.
i tell what not to do and what to do so you can walk away feeling confident and secure
for the articles mentioned in the video
Article 1
Gender Communication: A Comparative Analysis of Communicational Approaches of Men and Women at Workplaces
It talks about how each gender communicates with their respective gender and why misunderstanding can lead to the classification of women as emotional, difficult, hysterical, etc… which causes women to stay quiet to avoid ridicule.
Article 2
Silencing the Silence: A Study of Women at Workplace
It talks about how men use authoritative language which causes women to feel reluctant to share their thoughts openly due to fear of being rejected at the workplace.
Article 3
Silencing Women? Gender and Online Harassment
It dives deep into the fact that even though men are more likely to experience inline harassment, it is the women who are harassed who become more cautious in expressing their opinions publicly.
Book
Between Voice and Silence: Women and Girls, Race and Relationship
By Jill McLean Taylor, Carol Gilligan, Amy M. Sullivan
A 3-year research project on 26 girls in high school who are of low income and a minority. The organizers, observed them as they went through hardships and concluded how the effects of their environments cause psychological effects which leads these young girls to isolate and fear speaking up to avoid trouble or being labeled, if they do speak up they do not feel heard.

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16min
May 28, 2024 7 traits of a secure attachment style
7 traits of a secure attachment.
i dive into what is a secure attachment? how do you know if you are secure by giving you a list of traits. and eventually, how does one become secure?
if you are ready to change the relationship with yourself and others this is the video for you!
research tools
https://www.verywellmind.com/secure-attachment-signs-benefits-and-how-to-cultivate-it-8628802
https://www.simplypsychology.org/secure-attachment.html
https://www.youtube.com/@heidipriebe1/featured
https://www.youtube.com/@UCtEWTaMjqOH8J1Gy06Ey0Yg
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20min
May 09, 2024 7 traits of a fearful avoidant attachment style
7 traits of a fearful avoidant attachment style.
i talk to you about what defines a fearful avoidant. what are the traits so you can spot them in yourselves and lastly how to heal each trait.
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articles used for research
https://www.simplypsychology.org/disorganized-attachment.html#Disorganized-Attachment-Signs-in-Adults
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-ptsd/202307/fearful-avoidant-attachment-and-romantic-relationships
https://www.thoughtco.com/fearful-avoidant-attachment-style-4169674
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-fearful-avoidant-attachment-5207986
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24min
March 29, 2024 what is an avoidant attachment style?
what is an avoidant attachment style? watch this video to understand the avoidant attachment style, learn how to identify it, and take actionable steps to heal it :)
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22min
March 10, 2024 7 traits of an anxious attachment style
7 traits of an anxious attachment style. how do you know if you have an anxious attachment style? what patterns do you subconsciously repeat in your relationships? and how to get started on healing this attachment style
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19min
November 01, 2023 how to move on
how to move on, post break up.
it sucks, it happens, it's part of life and I'm here to help with that process :)
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11min
October 19, 2023 how to calm down (in any situation)
how to calm down in any situation. i guide you through the steps to take to calm down and explain the purpose of each step.
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11min
October 19, 2023 how to change your mindset (it starts with self awareness)
how to change your mindset.
if you want to change for the better this is the video for you.
I talk to you about the importance of:
being careful with your words
how to change your mindset
becoming aware of your habits and behaviors and how they affect your life
and the consequences of a negative vs positive mindset
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18min

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