This Life or Something Better

This Life or Something Better

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  • Permission to Live

    Have you ever caught yourself waiting - waiting for a sign, someone's approval, or the "right" moment - to make a change or finally be yourself? In this episode of This Life or Something Better, we dive into the unconscious pattern many of us carry from childhood: asking for permission before we act. Whether it's in relationships, career, or the way we express ourselves, this habit of seeking approval can quietly hold us back from living fully.

    Together, we'll explore where this pattern comes from, who you might still be unconsciously waiting on, and—most importantly—how to take your power back. It's time to stop waiting and start giving yourself the green light to live your life on your own terms.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    25 min
  • The Illusion of Control

    Today's episode is a topic that I think every one of us has struggled with at one time or another - The Illusion of Control. While we may like our life to be in some order, control is another level of that. It is often based in fear and lack of psychological safety. When we feel out of control, we either react or we acquiesce. In those moments we are not allowing our authentic self to be seen, felt or heard.

    In this episode, we'll unpack the illusion of control and explore the two things we can actually have power over. As we are in season of 25 Questions in 2025, I'll finish up with two reflection questions that you can journal on to help you find out where control might show up in your life and how you release it.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    30 min
  • What if Change was working For You, not Against You?

    When we make big life changes, our minds tend to focus on everything we're leaving behind instead of what we're stepping into. Even when the change is positive, starting a new career, leaving a toxic relationship, prioritizing our well-being, there's often a pull to mourn what's ending instead of celebrating what's beginning.

    In this episode, we're diving into why we do this, what it costs us, and how to shift our perspective from loss to gain. I'll share insights on how the brain processes change, why the past can feel safer than the unknown, and how to reframe your thinking so you can move forward with confidence.

    Plus, I'll leave you with a journaling prompt to help you reflect on the changes in your life.

    Tune in, take a breath, and let's start seeing change through a new lens.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    19 min
  • Finish what you Started

    Think about all the unfinished business in your life - projects, uncomfortable conversations or even simple tasks. There is a reason we put things off. In the moment, avoidance feels like relief. However, that relief is only temporary. Over time, what we avoid lingers, adding weight to our minds, creating stress and keeping us stuck.

    In this episode, Priscilla addresses the topic of unfinished business. Whether it be a goal, a project or that pile of papers sitting on your desk, she will help you understand your delay tactics and give you some ideas on how to be a finisher. Stay to the end for this episodes reflection questions to help you sort through your habits and help you take your first step to completion.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    30 min
  • Embrace the Beginner's Mind

    What if you approached your life with a Beginner's Mind? What if you could admit to yourself that you don't know anything? A beginner's mind is about approaching life as if it's brand new, even when you've been there before. It's seeing familiar situations, relationships or challenges through a lens of curiosity, not assumption When we allow ourselves to explore with that openness, we make room for new experiences, fresh perspectives and unexpected solutions.

    In this episode, Priscilla addresses how in order to make big changes in life, we often have to have a beginner's mind. A beginner's mind allows up to get out of the robotic mode and explore new possibilities and opportunities. She also talks about life being an adventure, not a chore. If we live with curiosity and creativity, we can move beyond stuck and begin to see the miracles that are all around us.

    There's a journaling prompt at the end for you to ponder that will help you move toward your something better.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    21 min
  • Becoming your Ideal Self

    Welcome to Season 4 of This Life or Something Better!

    2025 is here, and it's not just another year—it's the year of transition and transformation. This is your time to step into the life you've always dreamed of, to break free from what's holding you back, and to reach for your something better.

    This season, we're taking a deep dive into the heart of transformation with a powerful new framework: 25 Questions for 2025. Each episode, we'll unpack one of these insightful questions—questions designed to challenge you, inspire you, and help you uncover the truths that will guide your journey forward.

    And here's the best part: these aren't just questions to listen to—they're tools. Every session will be your opportunity to pause, reflect, and journal about how each question plays out in your life. We're not just talking about transformation this year; we're living it, one question, one step, and one breakthrough at a time.

    We are starting the season with a big question of, "Who do you wish to be at the end of 2025?". We are so used to doing that we forgot how to simply be. In this episode, I'll give you some insight, some guidance and a journal prompt so that you can reflect and process this information for yourself. When we embody who we are becoming, we connect the physical, spiritual and emotional bodies. We are not just thinking about we want to be, we are feeling it at every level of our being. There's lots of great information in this episode. Listen once then listen again and take some notes.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    21 min
  • Think Big, Start Small: Crafting Habits for Lasting Impact

    In the final episode of our 24 in 2024 challenge, we dive into the power of habits as the cornerstone of health and wellness. Priscilla explores how habits shape our lives, from the small, seemingly insignificant routines to the transformative identity shifts that bring us closer to our goals. Drawing from personal stories, lessons from thought leaders, and actionable insights, this episode will inspire you to embrace small changes that lead to something better. Ready to rethink your habits and start living with intention? Tune in and let's wrap up 2024 on a high note!

    Join Priscilla on New Year's Day for her annual Message and Meditation on January 1 at 10:30 a.m. via Zoom. A channeled message is given for guidance for the new year and a guided meditation follows. All participants will receive a link to the recording. To register, use the link at the bottom of this page. A registration confirmation will be sent to you along with payment options.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    35 min
  • Small Steps for Bigger Results: Health and Fitness Hacks for Everyday Life

    We are in the final topic of the 24 in 2024 Challenge with a special focus on health and wellness as we near the year's end. This episode will cover the importance of setting personal goals beyond just New Year's resolutions, the evolution of fitness, and the significance of starting small in your fitness journey to achieve bigger results.

    We'll discuss making your health and wellness plan a 24/7 process and not just the hour you spend at the gym. I'll also provide you with some practical tips on how to integrate movement and mindful posture throughout your day, whether you're at the gym, at your desk, or even in the kitchen. Plus, I'll share the wisdom I've gleaned from over 30 years in the fitness industry, helping you find balance and functionality in your daily life. So, tune in and let's work together towards a healthier, happier you!

    New Year's Day Meditation Information

    Stay to the end as I talk about the annual New Year's Day Meditation coming up on January 1. What a great way to get started on your Something Better in 2025. If you want more information, or wish to register, use the form at the bottom of this page to reserve your spot. I'll get back to you with payment options.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    36 min
  • Creating a Conscious Family: A Soulful Approach to Parenting

    In today's episode of This Life or Something Better, we dive into creating a conscious family life. We explore how holding onto outdated family dynamics can impact future generations and emphasize the importance of understanding each family member's unique journey.

    I discuss guiding children with love and support while respecting their free will. We cover the influences of biological and adopted families. This episodes Challenge is a journaling prompt to reflect on relationships. Check out how to set healthy boundaries and co-create plans with your adult children. Join us in examining your parenting beliefs and crafting a family blueprint for a brighter future.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    35 min
  • Navigating Family Dynamics: Understanding Your Primal Family

    We were all souls prior to coming into the human experience. As we came into being human, we had to rely on others to help us navigate our life. This process goes on well into our teens and it creates who we are as a human. Sometimes this primal family we were born into works out, and other times it doesn't. Either way, the primal family is the place where we set a foundation of learning for ourselves. Our beliefs are formed. Our behaviors are formed. Our navigation of relationships is formed. It may not always be fun, but it is a process.

    On this episode, we'll explore the role of our primal family and how we can best navigate the learning we received. Priscilla explore Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and applies it to growing up within our primal family. We'll finish off the episode with a challenge that may help you to see your family in a different light.

    Thanks for listening. If you find this episode helpful, please share it with a friend or family member. Rating and reviewing the podcast helps us to reach a greater number of lives.

    Stay in touch with us between episodes and join us in the This Life or Something Better Facebook Group. There, we'll share bonus episodes, run challenges and provide you with some additional inspiration as you reach for your Something Better.

    Work with Priscilla

    34 min

About This Life or Something Better

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Life can be challenging and oftentimes we get stuck when living it. Priscilla Bengtson is here to help you accept the life you are living without resistance and then find your something better. …