What I learned about vacation after 15 years running a business.
Taking a vacation is different for everyone. We all have our own pressures. Taking vacation as an entrepreneur is something I'm still learning to do - 15 years in - from experience and from many mentors.
Here are six things I learned about vacation. Hope they help you skip a few speed bumps along the way:
1) Always take one. No exceptions. Especially in the early years when you can least afford it (in all senses of the phrase). When you start a business it's like "flying a plane with both engines on fire and a broken steering wheel." You're in "the jungle" and you're doing everything. Your most limited resource is time.
And yet, it is the single most important time in your life for you to take one. At least a week.
2) Always leave town and go far enough away you can't go back quickly. Our subconscious is powerful. The amount of information it manages, and protects us from, is extraordinary.
When we take time off at home or near work, our subconscious still knows all of the things we need to get done. That project around the house. That small to-do list item.
If we leave, we can't do those things. And we can relax. It may not feel like it in the moment, but we actually do.
3) The guilt never goes away, it just changes. In the early years, we look forward to the day we have a cadre of capable team mates we can leave in charge of the store so we can finally take advantage of "being our own boss."
In the early years, I felt so guilty leaving an understaffed overworked team. That guilt would permeate its way into vacation.
Now? Same guilt, different face. I love what I do and working with the team and I feel guilty when I'm gone. It's always there. And you'll learn how to live with it (and be happy).
4) Don't stress the stress
Entrepreneurs are oftentimes hyper-driven. The whole world is a nail - even vacation. When we get on holiday, we need to nail that too. We don't have much time and we can't spend any of it being stressed, sad, sick, etc.
A psychologist once told me "what, only locals are allowed to be stressed, mad or sad?"
My goodness they are so right. If you get stressed on holiday, that's normal.
5) No matter what you do, you'll think about work. That's okay. Especially when it's voluntary. Some of the best ideas we've ever had came on holiday while we were finally away from home and "flowing."
6) Don't burn out on re-entry! When we get back from holiday, all that guilt makes us push too hard. I'm doing it right now, as I'm writing this. Take it easy upon returning. Overdoing it is a terrific way to wipe out gains from a vacation and wear oneself down. Set parameters and know you'll catch up on that to-do list - or at least reach homeostasis once again