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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I talk about all manner of things including where we’re at with our goals and habits, the importance of staying present in the moment, and how crucial awareness is if we want to make any kind of change in our life.

We hope you’ll find something useful in here!

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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It’s a very special episode today because my guest is someone I really do love, even though I’ve only known him for a matter of weeks. His name is Einar Thorsteinsson, and he was the wonderful, wonderful guide on my recent trip to Iceland in January. 

This trip was a first for me, not only because I’d never been to Iceland before, but also because I was hosting the trip - having partnered with Explore Worldwide for a Thrive Solo trip for single women. There were 13 of us from the UK, the Netherlands, and the US, and we had a truly fabulous and really quite special 5 days, not least because we had Einar as our most brilliant, brilliant guide. 

To put it in context, Einar is a 67 year old, very happily married man with five adult children, and he was given us lot as his group - but I like to think that he loved us as much as we loved him!

In this conversation, Einar talks about how and why he became a tour guide for Explore in his retirement years, he talks all about Iceland and why he loves it, and he describes the trip that we did in the south of the country which included waterfalls, beaches, and the Northern Lights. Einar also dishes the dirt on what it was like to be in charge of an unruly group of single women! I bloody love this man, and I know you will too.

02:15 Special Guest: Einar Thorsteinsson

04:58 Einar's Background and Career

07:48 The Iceland Trip Experience

13:03 Exploring Iceland's Natural Wonders

24:58 Group Dynamics and Reflections

31:09 The Magic of the Northern Lights

33:47 Magical Night Under the Northern Lights

35:25 Managing Expectations for the Northern Lights

38:11 Exploring Iceland's Natural Wonders

40:59 The Wild Beauty of Iceland's Black Beach

44:11 Final Day Adventures and Reflections

45:22 Looking Forward to Future Iceland Adventures

57:39 Conclusion and Farewell

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking about breaking the cycle of negativity.

We explore how easy it is to get caught in those negative spirals where one thought leads to another and suddenly we're knee-deep in a full-on wallow, feeling pretty rubbish about everything.

We chat about how the way we feel most of the time becomes the energy we're putting out into the world — and how that energy attracts more of the same right back to us.

We also share some of the practical things we both use to gently interrupt a negative spiral and shift our state when we notice ourselves heading down that familiar path.

We hope that you enjoy this conversation.

Love, 

Polly & Lucy x

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My guest this week on Thrive Solo is British country singer-songwriter, Harley Moon Kemp, who also happens to be the daughter of Spandau Ballet’s Martin Kemp, and Shirlie Kemp of both Pepsi and Shirlie, and Wham. 

Harley Moon appeared in last year’s Celebrity Race Across The World with her brother, Roman Kemp, and not only did they appear in it, but they won it. I’m sure many of you will have seen it and subsequently heard Harley Moon mention her happily single status. 

In this episode, Harley Moon and I talk about how she ended up getting into country music in particular and what she loves most about that genre; we talk about how she is absolutely loving single life right now; we talk about how her parents very happy marriage has impacted what she wants and expects from a relationship. We also discuss the shift in the dating scene in her generation, how people are no longer going out to meet people in the way they used to, and how dating as a high profile person can present its own challenges. 

02:15 Meet Harley Moon Kemp

03:45 Harley Moon's Musical Journey

06:00 Discovering Country Music

14:47 Embracing Single Life

23:49 The Modern Dating Scene

31:07 The Inspiration Behind 'My Girls (Love Me Better)'

32:45 Reflecting on the song 'I Know What Good Looks Like'

35:12 Personal Reflections on Relationships

38:43 Living with Intention and Positivity

47:29 The Adventure of 'Race Across the World'

54:43 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Follow Harley Moon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harleymoonkemp

Listen to Harley Moon on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7lTrAtvHlfVsJZgXMMR05X

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I are talking all about the patriarchy.

This social system that historically centres white men as the default holders of power, money, status and authority, is woven into the very fabric of society.

It shows up in a million subtle - and not so subtle - ways: women playing small because they’ve been taught to be pleasing, quiet, polite and accommodating; women taking on the ‘invisible load’ of housework and kid-min; women being put down at work or at home because of the inherent and subconscious belief that men are somehow superior.

In this conversation, Polly and I talk about how the patriarchy has shown up in our own lives, as well as how things are so much worse for women in other countries and cultures. And this is exactly why women need to start speaking up and standing up for both themselves, and the many, many women who are less fortunate than those of us in western cultures.

We hope you’ll find something interesting in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy x

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My guest on this week's episode of Thrive Solo, is the gorgeous Sarah Bennett, a single and childfree sober coach living in Hertfordshire. In her 30s, Sarah felt under huge pressure to find a partner and have children. As friends settled down and started families, she often felt left behind. In trying to numb the loneliness and deep sense of inadequacy she felt, Sarah’s drinking steadily increased. But instead of helping, it left her feeling lower and more depressed, with hangovers that made her feel even more alone, and a growing sense of shame and being out of control. 

Sarah is now 54 and in a very, very different place. She had already come to terms with being childless (although these days she calls herself childfree), but after her last relationship ended a couple of years ago, she decided to stop drinking. This has transformed her life in ways she couldn’t have imagined, and she is finally comfortable in her own skin, and has learnt to love and accept herself exactly as she is, without feeling like she needs a relationship or children to validate her life. Last year, Sarah trained with The Sober Club and became an accredited sober coach, and she now runs The Sobriety Society, supporting women who want to change their relationship with alcohol. She’s worked with women in many different situations, but her heart is very much with those who are single and childless.

02:06 Guest Introduction: Sarah Bennett's Journey

02:19 Sarah's Struggles and Transformation

03:17 The Sobriety Society and Coaching

05:07 Sarah's Single Life and Reflections

17:35 Challenges of Drinking and Finding Clarity

32:19 The Benefits of Quitting Alcohol

33:40 Social Pressures and Reactions to Quitting

37:54 Personal Experiences and Challenges

43:59 Coaching and Helping Others

52:37 Health Risks and Statistics

56:45 Final Thoughts and Resources

Check out Sarah's website: https://www.thesobrietysociety.co.uk/

Follow Sarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesobrietysocietyuk

Find Sarah on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesobrietysocietyuk

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On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Polly and I talk about what it really means to shift out of the background and into the lead role of your own life.

We chat about how easy it is, especially for women, to unconsciously slip into a supporting role, putting everyone else’s needs first, waiting for the “right time,” or playing small out of habit rather than intention.

We explore how being the main character doesn’t mean being loud or dramatic. It simply means taking up space in your own life. And it doesn’t require a big, sweeping change — sometimes it’s just one small moment where you back yourself and remember that you’re allowed to take the lead and want more.

We hope you find something useful in here.

Love,
Polly & Lucy xx

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