Til Death Do Us Part

This week Natalia tells the story of Rabbi Fred Neulander, a man who chose murdering a person over murdering his reputation.

Sources

Wikipedia contributors. (2025b, October 17). Fred Neulander. Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fred_Neulander

Fred Neulander. (n.d.). Grokipedia. https://grokipedia.com/page/Fred_Neulander

Walsh, J. (2024, April 20). Fred Neulander, former rabbi convicted of wife’s murder, dies while serving life term. Courier-Post. https://www.courierpostonline.com/story/news/local/south-jersey/2024/04/19/fred-neulander-murder-carol-neulander-len-jenoff-paul-daniels-cherry-hill/73382927007/

The conversation this week explores the chilling story of Velma Barfield, the first woman executed by lethal injection in the United States. Natalia tells us about her early life, troubling marriages, and the mysterious deaths surrounding her before discussing her strange second life behind bars and the famous song named after her.

TW for domestic abuse

Sources

Velma Barfield, serial killer. (2016, November 2). NC DNCR. https://www.dncr.nc.gov/blog/2016/11/02/velma-barfield-serial-killer

Wikipedia contributors. (2025b, December 3). Velma Barfield. Wikipedia. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Velma_Barfield

OpenAI. (2025). ChatGPT (GPT-5.1) [Large language model]. https://chat.openai.com/

In this episode of Millennial Murders, hosts Stephanie and Natalia explore their cringe-worthy moments on video, discuss their snack cravings, and delve into their childhood interests in creepy stories. They then transition into a discussion about the infamous X-Files episode 'Home,' which was banned for its graphic content and inspired by real-life events, particularly the disturbing case of the Ward family. The conversation highlights the blurred lines between fiction and reality in true crime narratives. The conversation delves into the tragic story of the Ward brothers, focusing on the unusual living situation, the investigation following a death, the confession obtained under questionable circumstances, and the community's support for Delbert Ward. The discussion highlights the complexities of family dynamics, mental health issues, and the legal implications of the confession, ultimately reflecting on the legacy of the Ward brothers and the societal perceptions surrounding their case.

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For a sneak peek, we will post a couple of segments here for our loyal fans. We hope to see you all in the next pod!

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In the meantime, we know how much you miss us, so we're dropping spoilers for our loyal TDDUP fans through the month of December.

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The episode we are coming in strong with Katarzyna Zowada. In 1998 the University student never showed up for their scheduled mental health appointment. The next days, weeks, months, and YEARS that unfolded are tragic, eerie, and a must listen.

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It's hereeeee! Part 2 of the amazing, IN REAL LIFE recording between Natalia and Stephanie. In part 2 they wrap up with a discussion on suing social media giants, exposure to violence through media, and a lighthearted ending in the nurse's corner!

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Sources:

“Murders of Alison Parker and Adam Ward.” Edited by Wikipedia Foundation, Wikipedia, Wikimedia Foundation, 2 Mar. 2023, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murders_of_Alison_Parker_and_Adam_Ward.

Carlton, Genevieve. “The Horrifying Story of Alison Parker, the Promising Young Reporter Shot Dead While on Air.” All That's Interesting, All That's Interesting, 22 Jan. 2022, https://allthatsinteresting.com/alison-parker.

Morse, Dan, and Mary Pat Flaherty. “Ex-Colleagues of Virginia Gunman Say Many Tried to Mentor and Support Him.” The Washington Post, WP Company, 29 Aug. 2015, https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/ex-colleagues-of-virginia-gunman-say-many-tried-to-mentor-and-support-him/2015/08/28/07d2598e-4da5-11e5-84df-923b3ef1a64b_story.html.

Gibbs, Samuel. “Facebook and Twitter Users Complain over Virginia Shooting Videos Autoplay.” The Guardian, Guardian News and Media, 27 Aug. 2015, https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2015/aug/27/facebook-twitter-users-complain-virginia-shooting-videos-autoplay.

August 26, 2015 https://www.cbsnews.com/news/virginia-wdbj-station-shooting-alleged-gunman-posted-video-of-shooting-on-social-media/

Let’s Read! Podcast Episode 163 February 21, 2023

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chased-on-the-highway-28-true-scary-stories-ep-163/id1432242042?i=1000600987664

We are so excited to share this episode with everyone! Natalia and I finally met up in New Jersey to record together. The case covered was Vester Flannagan who shot and killed his coworkers on live tv! Listen to this two parter to hear the what, why, how, when and everything in between. I definitely CANNOT wait for us to get together again and record!

The episode may cut off, but that is why we are having part 2 posted.

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How much do we really know about the wild west? Wild Bill, Calamity Jane, poker games, shoot outs, brothels... it all really happened and makes for a great story!

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