If your wife has been through sexual trauma, she took some negative lessons from that trauma.For one, people will see her as an object to be used for their benefit while hurting her.For another, people will remove choices around her body from her.And, that she is powerless to stop something bad from happening to her.As her husband, you’ll want to demonstrate a new approach around this.That you can approach her physically and sexually in a way that reflects care and love for her.You can respec...

Tips On Approaching Sex After Trauma

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

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Tuesday we talked about releasing emotions in a healthy way.Today, choose 1 emotion…And choose 1 healthy way to release it.Then, let me know what you choose.And, if you try the release, let me know how it went.Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena new link here for YouTube)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY13pnVVwwo (Lorena new links here for YouTube)Dr. MikeP.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge!P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is re...

Choose A Healthy Emotional Release [Thursday Challenge]

I'd like to recommend the Jordan Harbinger Show. Jordan is a husband and father, and his show has recently featured some fascinating guests. Hope you enjoy checking it out.

Introducing the Jordan Harbinger Show

Do you find yourself…Avoiding your emotions…Pretending like you’re OK when you’re not…Or wanting to avoid seeming anxious, sad or angry in front of your wife?A lot of us as men think that emotional strength is about not “letting emotions get to us.”But, emotions are like farts.They need to be RELEASED. And ideally, in healthy ways that don’t stink up the place.Learn how to release emotions in ways that are healthy, strong and attractive…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP...

How To Control Your Emotions In Your Christian Marriage Relationship

Think of 3 reasons why your wife is RIGHT to create distance from you.How have you been a poor choice for her?Then, work on those 3 reasons.Make yourself a better choice.And, for a complete system to make yourself a great choice, join Strong Men Strong Marriages.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy ...

Thursday Challenge - 3 Reasons

When you’re trying to save your Christian marriage…But your wife doesn’t seem to be trying…It can be very frustrating and defeating.You can feel lost and unsure of what to do.And, men often make significant mistakes when they try to save their marriage alone.Learn what those mistakes are…And what to do instead…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emot...

Tips On Approaching Sex After Trauma

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