In this conversation, Tamika Thomas and her guest discuss the importance of soul care and self-care. Tamika shares her personal experience of neglecting her own well-being and the wake-up call she received when she had a stroke. She emphasizes the need to prioritize self-care and make promises to oneself. The guest also talks about the strategies she implemented to take care of herself, including getting clear on her desires, accepting herself, nourishing her body, surrounding herself with positive reminders, practicing self-compassion, and managing shame. In this conversation, Tamika Thomas discusses the importance of managing shame and guilt and practicing self-care and self-love. She emphasizes the need for repentance and connecting with God through prayer and scripture. Tamika also highlights the significance of community and friendships in maintaining soul care. She encourages unpacking friendship breakups and cultivating deep, meaningful connections. Tamika shares her vision of a soul care retreat or oasis, which includes rest, massages, deep talks, and a safe space for authenticity. The conversation concludes with a practical tip on square breathing for stress relief.