To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

If you haven’t heard, Natalie is going to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversation. The two women discuss the social dynamics that goes into being a Swiftie, the focus on the men she has had relationships with, and how she has been treated as a professional in the music industry. Between the two of them, they go straight from a Lover to their Midnights Era, and talk about how being aware of how internalized misogyny and widespread cultural misogyny affects people on a larger scale. Topics that are confronted are the way we view success among women creators, to the way we talk about women who have had bad relationships, and how we talk about other women’s bodies and our own bodies. And that’s some real Vigilante Shit.

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Find Elizabeth:
All socials: @finalgirlscout and [email protected]
Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder

Hey Team Tolerator, it is time for another Patreon teaser! This is a sneak peek of Annie Sieg's second time on our Patreon exclusive episodes. We got together and chatted all about the Scandavol scandal on Vanderpump Rules (it isn't an Annie conversation unless we're bringing up those whacky kids on Bravo). In true fashion, the conversation also led to topics like reality dating show hosts, red flags in relationships, what's going on currently for us artistically, and... just what kind of bonus material can we make when it comes to misogyny being so prevalent in our culture? You have to be a Patreon member to find out all the hot gossip we have and how I was always right to think The Toms were sus at Sur.

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Find Annie:
Instagram: @aksieg
Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios

Kim Coffin, host of the podcast Get Your Sexy Back, is joining Natalie to talk about all things healing the connection you have to your sexuality and your body. Kim specializes in Female S.xuality, Tantric S.x and Relationship Transformation and gives clients the tools to unleash their s.xual confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, healing and intimacy with themselves - and in their relationships! Her and Natalie dive into the ways misogyny plays a role in shaming us about our bodies, how it closes us off to our sexuality and the power it contains, and what we can do about it going forward.

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Find Kim:
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/get-your-sexy-back/id1489475566
Instagram: @get_your_sexy_back_coach
Website: https://getyoursexyback.ca/
Free gift for listeners: - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63d4adadecc6781900626c2d

Amanda Kippert, co-host of the podcast Toxic and editor-in-chief of the non-profit Domesticshelters.org, is joining Natalie today to talk about her work with domestic violence reporting and her advocacy efforts for the survivors of domestic violence. Discussion will center around what policies fail people living with domestic violence, how our culture supports abusers and not the abused, and why misogyny is so prevalent that when survivors report their abuse, they often go unheard or not believed. It is an episode that offers people an insight into the reality of domestic abuse within our society, how we can advocate for those living with domestic violence, and also begins building solutions with the resources available to victims and survivors.

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Find Amanda:Instagram: @toxicthepodcast
Website: https://www.toxicthepodcast.com/
Resources Mentioned in the Episode
Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/
Find a Shelter or Other Aid Near You: https://www.domesticshelters.org/

Natalie is joined by divorce recovery coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to talk about how we have been conditioned to feel about divorce. Throughout the discussion on their own experiences with divorce, topics such as shame, settling, and learning about yourself will be covered. They will also touch on how misogyny plays a role in our ideals about marriage and our knee jerk reaction to avoid divorce at all costs. Divorce will be an end to a contractual relationship, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your joy or happiness. We hope this episode gives you some more perspective on how important it is to know and love yourself instead of tiptoeing around societal expectations and ignoring what you want from your life.

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Find Leah
Website: https://www.mindfullyready.com/
Instagram: @mindfullyready

It is our monthly Patreon Teaser episode! This week, you will get a sneak peek at a nerdy conversation between JD Ross and Nat! JD has been on the podcast before to talk about former tv and movie crushes and how he thinks misogyny affected the way he viewed women in media. Natalie has also been a recurring guest on his current podcast, Weirdwide! The two friends give you an insight look into all the nerdy things they like to joke about when you're not privy to their conversations. They talk movies, D&D, and more! But you have to be a Patreon member to hear all of it!

Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Find JD:

Instagram: @dudeistweirdo
Website: www.weirdwide.com

Dionna Goley is on the show this week and she has inspired this episode through her support of Natalie. Often, Natalie and Dionna get together for lunch to support one another in their ventures but more importantly they come together as two strong personalities to talk about how tired they are of tolerating the state of things. They have coined their new attitude about life “I wish you would try me”. For the episode they talk about the audacity of women not being paid, how they’re not being treated well, and how it's making people fragile when Dionna and Natalie want to talk about it. Join them in a feral conversation where they dare misogynists to even say something ridiculous to them.

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Find Dionna:
Instagram: @exquisiteessentialsllc and @_lynaee_

Podcast Promo for the Episode:
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Instagram: @the.storyofwoman

Natalie is getting back to her science teacher roots this week with guest Paige Folkers! Paige is the host of the podcast For Folk’s Sake, where you never say no to a conversation. The women will be discussing Paige’s experiences being a student of biology and genetics. Topics of morality and ethics within the science fields, notable women of science, and even a little witchcraft will be delved into. They will also talk about women not only taking part in the science fields but also how the way we choose to fund, study, and carry out science affects us and how misogyny manages to play a role in that process.
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Find Paige:
Listen to For Folk’s Sake: https://linktr.ee/forfolkssake
Follow Paige on Instagram: @forfolkssakepodcast

Are you looking for a group of people who never feel like they know what it is they’re doing in life? This episode features Jessamy and Alice from The Imposter Syndrome Club podcast. Natalie and her guests will be speaking on all the ways misogyny makes us doubt ourselves, our talents, and sometimes has us second guessing our own thoughts or feelings. Whether it be through your job, your dating life, your family, or just the inside of your own head; it gets really hard to trust yourself and be firm in knowing who you are as a person. Jessamy and Alice are the perfect duo to help you laugh through your doubts and help you feel more connected to those around you. We’re not imposters, we’re just figuring it all out!

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Find Jessamy and Alice:
Website: https://www.impostersyndromeclub.com/
Instagram: @imposterpod

Wait a minute, Natalie and Annie already did an episode about reality tv! You're so right, however it was actually our second take at chatting about reality tv. This episode was our first try and it is more chatting between two friends and less trying to dismantle The Patriarchy. So we're kept it as part of the Patreon where you get to learn more about Nat and Team Tolerator!

Annie and Natalie will be diving deep on one of their favorite guilty pleasures, reality tv. From the Bachelor Franchise to the Kardashians, Nat and Annie walk listeners through how reality tv can be trashy but it can also reflect on how certain people in our society are viewed and holds a mirror up to our culture and beliefs. Reality tv may not be a classy artform, but it does provide a lot of people the chance to reflect on themselves while also getting to laugh at some trainwrecks.

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Find Annie:
Instagram: @aksieg
Tiktok: anniemakesart and peachbanstudios