To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women are represented in horror is a gateway of understanding how women are treated by society in general. Through the strength of the Final Girl, the three women have become empowered to leave bad situations, speak up for themselves and others, and say goodbye to politeness if it means they get to stay safe. A sampling of the movies, with spoilers, that will be discussed are Men, Barbarian, Bodies Bodies Bodies, and Halloween. Trigger warnings for body horror, sexual assault, and domestic violence.

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Gisselle Herrera (the Strong Sunflowers Podcast) and Natalie talk about the ins and outs of creating and maintaining intentional relationships. Gisselle’s podcast has the mission to guide women into living a life they enjoy and feeling empowered to advocate for themselves.This has driven her to only give her energy to relationships that are worthy of her time and add value to her life. The two women will talk about the relationships that made them commit to holding their hearts and relationships to a higher standard.

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Katie from the podcast The Bar is Ankle High is here to talk about her experiences with receiving an ADHD diagnosis and how life has changed after it. Natalie shares her experiences with her self-diagnosis of being somewhere on the ADHD spectrum. The women share past events that could have gone so much differently if only they understood how their brain functioned and accommodated themselves for it. Topics will also include gatekeeping for ADHD diagnosing and accomodations, what advocating for your accommodations looks like, and what the world looks like when we lose the mindset of “well if I have to accommodate you, I have to accommodate everyone.”

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Julia Washington is back for your Patreon teaser! We know we are about 2/3s done with the year 2023 but we wanted to do a check-in on those vision boards and goals we created at the beginning of the year. Also, there are some surprise stories from the summer that include how I met some of my idols from Critical Role and Dimension 20. Come celebrate our wins and help push us into success by 2024!

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Natalie is joined by Courtney Gilmartin for a conversation about Courtney’s experiences with family court during the divorce from her former husband. Courtney shares openly about how misogyny within the court system makes it extremely difficult for women to keep themselves and their children safe and separate from their abusers. A large part of the discussion will focus on how Courtney was treated by judges, lawyers, and other professionals for speaking out against the domestic violence she was experiencing. There will also be a conversation surrounding how abuse presents differently in each case but there are patterns that many abusers exhibit and follow.

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Instagram: @textsfromthenarcissist
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Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we experience depression. And how does misogyny use our fear responses as a tool to oppression and a way to keep us silent and small? All of it and more is discussed in this episode!

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Website: https://amygreensmith.com/
Instagram: @heyamygreensmith
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Natalie and guest Julia Washington let listeners in on one of their privately most talked about topics. This is an episode designed around the idea of what makes it hard to be a deprogrammed woman who has to live in a world where other women uphold misogynistic beliefs or Patriarchal standards. The women go into what makes them frustrated when it comes to living a life that isn’t centered around men but living in a world where centering men is very much the status quo. They also talk about recent current events and how disappointing it is when powerful women who they admire are found to be acting in misogynistic ways or dating misogynists themselves. Celebrities of note they will discuss are Lizzo, Taylor Swift, and Beyonce.

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Here is your monthly Patreon Teaser! Tolerators got an inside look in Natalie and Julia's heads on what it takes for them to feel they've set up a year for success. Whether its through Tarot, vision boards, budget planning, or other means, Nat and Jules are determined to have a feral year filled with podcast numbers, opportunities, success, and loving themselves above all else! And you can hear all about their goal mindset when you become a Patreon member!

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Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous

Natalie is joined today by Alrinthea Carter, Emmy-nominated writer for Max’s A Black Lady Sketch show. She is here to talk about her experiences as a television writer and why the WGA and SAG-AFTRA union strike is so important. Topics of discussion will range from making a livable wage, what happens when AI is charged with filtering out resumes and also writing tv shows, and the powers of workers uniting so everyone can live a lifestyle funded by the work they are producing. We urge you to take time to educate yourself on why WGA and SAG are on strike and support your favorite television writers by donating to the Entertainment Community Fund.

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On Instragram: @alrinthea @wgastrikeunite @sagaftra
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Hi Barbie! We’re back from summer vacation. This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and join the discourse and discussion following Greta Geriwg’s film. The episode will revolve around the movie serving as an awareness piece on everyday misogyny, the roles Ken played in the movie, Barbie’s journey to becoming a human, and more! This episode is more than Kenough!

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On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington
Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous