To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Natalie is joined by the lovely Julia Washington from Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous for this week’s episode. Julia has experienced a thrill that Natalie has only dreamed of, dating musicians. They talk about the ins and outs of what makes musicians so magnetic to the two of them. The stage presence, the big hair, the raw talent, and the extreme eye contact are the things that make Natalie and Julia feel like they’re in the middle of a movie and on the verge of a destiny that is filled with glory and passion. And yet, Julia will make Natalie realize a thing she is still coming to terms with: that the adrenaline of the highs of dramatic relationships with a volatile artist can get you only so far. What about musicians makes you all tingly inside?   Find Julia: On instagram: @popculturemakesmejealous @huesbyjuls and @thejuliawashington Website: https://lnk.bio/popculturemakesmejealous Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie is joined this week by Lindy and Stephy from Turn of the Millennials! They will be chatting about everything millennials have lived through when it comes to dating. Grinding in a dark school gym, limited text messages, no phone calls until after 9:00pm, and group hangs were the hallmarks of how Millennials had to navigate dating in their teens. Then, the world shifted and Millennials were introduced to online dating and they had to deal with the shame of signing up for “one of those websites”. Live in nostalgia with the women as they have some great laughs about all the trends they’ve had to witness when it comes to romance. What do you remember about dating in the early 2000s that just doesn’t happen anymore?   Find Stephy and Lindy:   Instagram: turnofthemillennialspod Website: https://www.millennialspod.com/ Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

Natalie and her guest, Elizabeth, do not love themselves enough to ignore a bad boy in a leather jacket! Why? Because of the Shawn Hunters and Dawson Leerys of the world! Elizabeth is going to help Natalie dive deep into how the 90’s Male Protagonists that they grew up watching set them up for some awful dating mindsets. Why does Natalie love to caretake her partners and fix men? Probably because Joey Potter had to. Join the two women as they give the tv shows of their youth a review and come to terms with all the ways they were set up to put men first and to downplay their needs for their partners. What did 90’s media teach you about relationships? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Elizabeth’s Plugs: All socials: @finalgirlscout and [email protected] Other Guest Spots: Plug it Up (@plugituppod), Bloody Good Horror (@bloodygoodhorror), Zombie Grrlz (@zgpodcasts), and Thor’s Hour of Thunder

This week, Natalie has the distinct pleasure of interviewing one of the first supporters of TATMITB, Delanie Fischer. Delanie is the amazing host of E-Ficionado and the co-host of Self-Helpless. She is going to walk Natalie through her minimalist lifestyle and how relationships, capitalism, and the patriarchy play a role in her choice to live minimalistically. Her motto “I’m going to do only the things that bring me the most happiness” is inspiring and she even tries to convince Natalie she is more than her maximalist manic spending and collecting in order to feel a moment of adrenaline. Minimalism is more than the stuff Delanie chooses to buy, it is being intentional with her time and her energy. How has our society conditioned you to not put yourself and priorities first and instead be distracted by everything available to us in the modern age? Take a few tips from Delanie from this episode! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and firesidechat.com/nataliekatona on Fireside for the live show! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Delanie’s Plugs: Instagram for Self-Helpless: @selfhelplesspodcast Delanie’s Business Simplicity Coach website: https://www.delaniefischer.com/ E-Ficionado can be found on Apple Podcast and Spotify

This week is an especially exciting week for Natalie! She is joined by Remy Kassimir, comedian and host of the podcast How C*m, to talk about their experiences trying to communicate about orgasming and pleasure with partners! Remy was a fantastic mentor for an hour as her and Natalie maneuvered through their past partners and how talking to them about pleasure has gone. Natalie lets Remy into her headspace when it comes to being passive and almost mechanical when it comes to trying to achieve the Big O in the bedroom. The hour is spent chatting about sleeping with men who don’t like you, body image coming into play when asking for what you want, and how everyone’s body deserves to be worshiped in the bedroom. What did Remy inspire Natalie to try out? And who else has tips about getting partners to help you c*m? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Remy’s Plugs:   Instagram: @remykassimir and @howcumpodcast YouTube:https://youtube.com/user/remyvk Website: https://www.remykassimir.com/

This week, Natalie is joined by a new friend, Taryn. Taryn began her nursing career on the brink of the COVID-19 Pandemic. She will walk Natalie through the struggles that nurses went through while we were honking our horns to celebrate them. The two women will also have an honest conversation about nurses’ perceived cost to a hospital compared to doctors’ worth to the hospital as well as what happens when lawmakers create laws where a medical practitioner has the power to use their prejudice to delegate what kind of care a patient deserves. We’re all affected by misogyny and the patriarchy and the medical world is no different. Support Taryn and the rest of our nurses by being more aware of how these systems affect their profession.    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!

This week, Natalie has the amazing Sarah Casper on the podcast to talk about her work with teaching students about comprehensive consent. What do acroyoga and consent have in common? They revolve around having the communication skills to pull off having a conversation about what makes you comfortable and what your boundaries are whether its in a yoga pose or in a sexual relationship. Sarah helps Natalie process some of her communication mishaps in the bedroom and allows her to let go of some of the pressure to always get it perfect when it comes to talking about sex. How were you taught about consent? Have your sexual boundaries been asked about or honored?  Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Sarah’s Plugs: Instagram: @comprehensiveconsent Website: https://www.comprehensiveconsent.com/

Unemployment Broke my Brain: Natalie has her friend Trina Ross come on and talk about their experiences with unemployment. While their unemployment came in different ways, Natalie due to a pandemic and Trina due to unfair supervisors, the result was very similar. The two women have no interest working 9-5’s with the same values and lack of boundaries they experienced before they were unemployed. Natalie and Trina dive into the types of toxic rhetoric they’ve been taught about being apart of the workforce and even worst experience they’ve experienced in their jobs. Dolly Parton wrote a whole song about how day jobs were bullsh*t and now Natalie and Trina are ready to listen! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Trina’s Plugs: unstable.unicorn on TikTok

Natalie had the pleasure of talking to Isabel Firecracker about her choice to be childfree. Isabel is the founder of Uprising Spark which allows Isabel to coach women into being proud, shamefree, and guiltless about the choice to be childfree. Natalie went completely honest about the recent revelation of how she has chosen to remain childfree and why that is the right choice for her. Isabele during the conversation breaks down her work and some of the stigma that comes with being a woman who chooses to be childfree. Are you a childfree woman looking for connection with other women who don’t want children? This is the perfect episode for you! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well! Isabel’s Plugs: The Uprising Spark: https://www.theuprisingspark.com/ Instagram: @theuprisingspark and @thehonestuproar

This week, Natalie is joined by one of her fairly new friends, Sarah Kate. The women will discuss how their ideals on relationships have changed since the COVID-19 Pandemic. For Sarah Kate, she found an assertiveness to her personality and now has a “this is how it is, I don’t care what you think it is” mindset. For Natalie, she needed to verbally process how odd it is to go back into a society and into relationships where you’re not sure if you still fit in. Natalie and Sarah Kate can agree, there’s definitely a change in the way relationships look now they’ve reflected on themselves and become more certain in who they are as people. How did your relationships change after you were forced to shelter in place? Let us know! Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!