To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.

Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!

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We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin (For Why Games) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The two friends will relive their favorite moments from the show and talk about the show as a form of queer representation in the media. They will also discuss how the show had them reflecting on their own experiences with love, audiences reactions to the show, and the discourse that happens all over the internet because of the show.

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Megan Metzger is a comedian from Chicago who has recently gone through a divorce. She joins Natalie on the show to walk through the misogyny she experienced within her marriage and what the future holds for her. The problem with that future? Megan has found it really hard to be attracted to men or want to spend time with them after her divorce. Dating, relationships, women’s experiences with casual sex, and more will be discussed as we try to find the solution for how to have a physical attraction to men when you don’t actually like men all that much.

*For this episode, there was an audio issue on my end and my track ended up muffled. My philosophy is that in real time conversation is always the priority but I do apologize for the audio quality.

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Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is being a teenage girl. Within the conversation surrounding Sailor Moon, they will also talk about the hierarchy of girlhood and how they experienced girlhood as young women and ways they’re reclaiming it today. They’ll also discuss other treasured franchises that were celebrating young women while they were growing up.

How to Support TATMITB:

Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

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Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up.

Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set!

How to Support TATMITB:
Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!

Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to dive deep into her feelings about Glinda now that she has seen Wicked: For Good. Natalie and Julia will discuss the deep amount of empathy Elphaba holds for Glinda, even when Glinda is still siding with Oz and taking the privileges that come along with that choice. They will also discuss Glinda’s path to understanding it isn’t enough to entertain the thought that there are oppressive systems surrounding you, eventually you do have to do some actions to bring about change. There will also be discussion surrounding how the media serves as a reflection of our society as well as some troubling thoughts on our society’s diminishing media literacy.  Was Julia sold on Glinda being changed for good? Listen to the episode to find out.


How to Support TATMITB:
Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

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Sarah Intelligator is a family law attorney and author of the book Live, Laugh, Find True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship, By a Divorce Attorney. She joins Natalie to talk about all the things she’s observed from couples who have solicited her help when they make the decision to file for a divorce. These observations have led Sarah to have some clear cut do’s and don’t’s on how to really be intentional on finding the right partner. In this episode, she gives some solid advice on how to pay attention to the important details when you’re dating to make sure you’re a good match.

How to Support TATMITB:

Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

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Sara Caplan is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman show, “What is a Woman: A One Woman(?) Show” to Gen Con 2025 and Natalie was lucky enough to be in the audience. Natalie and Sara will talk about transphobia, the philosophy behind gender roles, and their experiences confronting people who are so rooted in their identity because of the gender roles they have committed to.

How to Support TATMITB:

Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.

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Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for all TATMITB content!

This mini-episode will be your guide to our new tiers and how you can ingrain yourself in a community of people who are as tired of tolerating misogyny as you are! Be prepared for this year to be filled with more bonus content than ever before and to be a place I celebrate all the things I've learned about myself as not only a podcaster, but as a writer as well!

BIG SPOILER ALERT: One of the last announcements for this episodes is that anyone who is a paid member of our Patreon community will be getting a handcrafted friendship bracelet from yours truly! You didn't think I had ran out of beads, did you?

To join in on the fun and to read our first newsletter, come join us on Patreon and make sure to say hi in our free chat once you're done signing up!

Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another. 

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