It’s the kind of thing that can divide a nation. Or, at the very least, it’s the kind of thing that can bring a perfect date between two grammar nerds to a screeching halt. Picture it. You’re midway through what has been a nearly perfect first date. Conversation has been interesting, awkward lulls have been minimal and basic hygiene expectations have been met. Then, somewhere between entrees and dessert, the word "alleged" comes up in conversation. Your date pronounces it with three syllables,