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  • I won’t be doing a combination of sex and religion episodes for one month until Sept. 15th, 2022
    8 Signs Of A Modern-Day Pharisee”
    Written by Christian Author, Frank Viola
    1) Pharisees spend more time focusing on what they hate rather than on what they love.
    And what Pharisees hate are people. Well, people who sin differently than they do.
    Because of Pharisaism, Christians are known for what they are against rather than for what they are for. It’s because of them that “evangelical” has come to mean fanatical zealots who have perfected “culture war” tactics and represent the grotesquely hateful versions of Christianity commonly peddled by ambitious politicians.
    2) Pharisees magnify the sins of others while minimizing — or even ignoring — their own.
    Jesus said to beware of the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy. A.W. Tozer put it this way, “A Pharisee is hard on others and easy on himself, but a spiritual man is easy on others and hard on himself.”
    3) Pharisees believe (and spread) accusations against others without ever going to them
    directly, something you’d insist on if it were you being slandered (Matthew 7:12).
    Regrettably, “Christian” Pharisees produce more vitriol and spread more poison than a Chernobyl-like nuclear disaster. Dispensing slander is labeled “poison” by the Bible because it exposes innocent souls to toxic substances which are spiritually lethal.
    Pharisees are adept at vilification, bombing others “with God on their side.” In fact, many of them don’t know what to do with themselves unless they’re fightin’ for Jesus.
    4) Pharisees are quick to pass judgment, but slow to inquire and listen to those they’re
    judging.
    Pharisees wake up with criticism in their hearts, plotting against those they wish to destroy, even before the coffee gets cold. In this regard, Pharisees minister toxicity and death to those who love God (all in the name of God).
    As E. Stanley Jones rightly pointed out, “The measure of my spirit of criticism is the measure of my distance from Christ.”
    5) It breaks a Pharisee’s jaw to admit they’re wrong or apologize to those they’ve
    mistreated.
    In this regard, Pharisees exhibit a remarkable lack of self-awareness. This also accounts for why they are so belligerent. They exist to correct others, never turning the spotlight inward.
    6) Pharisees only hang out with other Pharisees.
    Because Pharisees establish dubious doctrinal criteria by which every Christian is judged and condemned to hell, they only hang with their own kind. In addition, they aren’t a terribly happy bunch of people. They weren’t in Jesus’ day either. 7) Pharisees impute evil motives to the hearts of others (but are clueless that they’re merely
    revealing what’s in their own).
    NEWSFLASH: Only God has the ability to read the motives of mortals. And as I’ve contended elsewhere, the New Testament has zero tolerance when humans engage in it.
    On that score, Pharisees need to listen to Anne Lamott who said: “The difference between you and God is that God doesn’t think God is you.”
    8) Pharisees cannot tolerate correction, even when it’s given in the spirit of Christ.
    A Pharisee hasn’t caught on to the fact that no human sees every angle of everything.
    Pharisees are quick to join the bandwagon of brother/sister bashing, crafting special attacks against those who don’t line up with their unique interpretations of Scripture. And they break out in boils whenever someone points out their own flaws.
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    1 hr 7 min
  • Crime horror stories of my childhood
    “Organized crime is a category of transnational, national, or local groupings of highly centralized enterprises run by criminals to engage in illegal activity, most commonly for profit. While organized crime is generally thought of as a form of illegal business, some criminal organizations, such as terrorist groups, rebel forces, and separatists, are politically motivated. Sometimes criminal organizations force people to do business with them, such as when a gang extorts money from shopkeepers for "protection".[1] Street gangs may often be deemed organized crime groups or, under stricter definitions of organized crime, may become disciplined enough to be considered organized. A criminal organization can also be referred to as a gang, mafia, mob,[2][3] ring,[4] or syndicate;[5] the network, subculture, and community of criminals involved in organized crime may be referred to as the underworld or gangland.”
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    23 min
  • Pharisees are fearmongers who value making religion prison
    "LIST OF 20 NEGATIVE INTERPERSONAL TRAITS OF PHARISEES
    1. Apathetic
    2. Argumentative
    3. Cowardly/Scaring themselves
    4. Impulsive
    5. Self-centered
    6. Dishonest
    7. Unable to empathize
    8. Jealous
    9. Sarcastic (the bad kind)
    10. Arrogant
    11. The centerpieces of sex scandals, financial scandals, and abuse scandals
    12. Violent, monsters
    13. Narcissists
    14. Psychopaths
    15. Sociopaths
    16. Sickopaths
    17. Criminals
    18. Emotionally unintelligent/lacking emotional self-regulation
    19. Addicted to negative attention 
    20. Obsessively clingy."

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      53 min
    22. I won't be doing sex episodes again until September 13th, 2022 (one-month break starts today)
      "Feminists have debated pornography ever since the women's movement commenced. The debate was particularly vehement during the feminist sex wars of the 1980s, which is when feminist porn originated. It acquired momentum in the 2000s because of the Feminist Porn Awards, originated by Good For Her in Toronto in 2006. These awards spread awareness amongst a broader audience, extra media exposure, and assistance in uniting a community of filmmakers, performers, and fans. Many third-wave feminists are open to seeking freedom and rights of sexual equality through entering the adult entertainment workforce. However, many second-wave feminists believe that the oppression and/or sexual objectification of women is inherent in all pornography involving them. The conflict between the two waves causes many struggles between these different feminist views of pornography.
      Tristan Taormino, who is a sex educator, feminist pornographer, and co-editor of The Feminist Porn Book, defines feminist pornography as dedicated to gender equality and social justice. Feminist pornography is porn that is produced in a fair manner, where performers are paid a reasonable salary and treated with care and esteem, their consent, safety, and well-being are vital, and what they bring to the production is appreciated. Feminist porn seeks to challenge ideas about desire, beauty, gratification, and power through unconventional representations, aesthetics, and film making styles. The overall aim of feminist porn is to empower the performers who produce it and the people who view it." I also look forward to doing sex scenes in television shows and movies and being an intimacy coordinator as well as a intimacy choreographer in television and movies.
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      1 hr 47 min
    23. How to enter and stay in the porn industry
      "Applying for Jobs in the Porn Industry

      What is the process of applying for a job in porn?

      Yes, the adult industry still has a job application process and you will need to complete forms, attend interviews and, sometimes, put together your CV in order to bag that dream job.

      Depending on the kind of role you are seeking, the application process can be pretty intimate and, in the case of porn actors, incredibly detailed.

      This is usually around the kind of sex acts you would be willing to perform, any ‘talents’ that you have and full disclosure of any medical conditions.

      Most agencies will also require you to provide several photographs in advance of meeting them for an interview, though these are not required to be nude shots.

      However, they should show off your assets and be of the highest quality.

      Most agencies will conduct a series of interviews over email and phone before inviting you to come in to meet face to face.

      When attending your first interview, you should wear the kind of clothes that you feel most comfortable in. However, some agencies will ask you to come prepared for a screen test.

      This means being freshly showered and ready for the camera….so, make sure you have shaved, waxed and whatever else is appropriate before being snapped/filmed.

      For women, the purpose is to ensure you have the right demeanor and look and with guys, the producer will want to be able to see if you can get a hard-on without any difficulty.

      Sounds simple enough but you would be surprised by how many would-be porn stars get ‘stage-fright’

      How to Get Into Porn

      To be able to work as a performer in the porn industry in any country you must be aged 18 or over, though in some parts of the world (and with some organizations) you may need to be over the age of 21.

      Wherever you work, you will be required to meet some basic administrative checks including a right to work permit and hold the relevant tax paperwork.

      All reputable companies should perform an ID check and provide you with a contract or model release form which grants permission for a studio to photograph or film you.

      Contrary to popular belief, you don’t need to have the biggest cock or largest breasts to work in the adult industry nor do you need to be ‘drop-dead’ gorgeous, though this can certainly help particularly if you are aiming big.

      Instead, you need a strong work ethic, an open mind and to be comfortable with being nude and performing in front of people. Of course, if you want to work in porn then enjoying sex is also a prerequisite."

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      1 hr 58 min
    24. What Is It Like To Be A Porn Star?
      "Professionalism First

      If making porn for a living is your job then it should come as no surprise to find that the industry is a very professional one which demands high standards from all involved.

      Some research undertaken by BuzzFeed in 2017 in which the site quizzed employees at the adult video hosting service ManyVids revealed that this is something that surprises many people who are new to the industry. One recent addition to the staff there commented:

      “…the professionalism is very high, with top talent and excellent management. The owners at ManyVids are extremely respectful and nice people. I just did not expect that at all.”

      When you think about it, it’s not that surprising and is both a result of an industry where the participants largely come from other careers beforehand combined with the fact that making money and keeping the crew and talent happy is important.

      Likewise, performers must be punctual and prepared as delaying a shoot could get them fired or at very least give them a bad reputation which won't help them find work with other studios."

      "What Is It Like To Work In Porn?

      Creating a porn movie from scratch takes a lot of effort from a lot of people and it’s often all too easy to forget the fact that the set of an adult film involves more than just the people you see on screen.

      For a big-budget production filmed by one of the larger studios, there is the director, camera crew, multiple technicians (sound, light, wardrobe, hair and makeup) and production assistants.

      The new technology of VR, UHD, 3D and POV filming may demand more technical expertise so you could be looking at a dozen of so people on set at any one time….and that’s in addition to the two, three, four or more performers waiting for their scenes.

      Off-set there are writers, editors and other producers all working hard to put together something that will appeal to their audiences and maybe deliver a few gongs at the many adult industry awards nights.

      CEO of Joybear Pictures was quoted in a recent interview claiming that up to 30 people work on an average film for his studio.

      However, to give their performers more of an intimate atmosphere when filming some scenes this is condensed to a skeleton crew of just four people (director, camera 1, camera 2 and the sound/production manager).

      Still far from your ordinary night in with the missus and a far bigger audience than many people would be comfortable performing for.

      In truth, the reality of working in porn is far from the polished and flawless results that you finally get to see on DVD or through a premium porn channel.

      This is not an industry where you simply put two people together in a room and film the results."

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      1 hr 41 min
    25. Secular sex and secular rationality
      “Our friend, Mr. Darne, says giving pleasure is a key trait of someone who is good at sex. “A great lover is always more than willing to give as good as she or he gets. They’re always looking to ‘one-up’ their mate’s attempt to please them.”
      5. They are vocal
      Your first thought here may be the scene from When Harry Met Sally when Sally gives her best orgasm impression.
      Being vocal doesn't mean loud. It just means expressing your thoughts and feelings through sounds. It can include moans, heavy breathing, whispers, and more. You don't have to yell out, but letting out an “mmm” when you are touched in the right spot is a vocal sign that lets your partner knows you're enjoying what they are doing.
      A vocal sex partner will let you know how they feel through sounds and, in turn, listen for sounds and learn how to respond to them.
      Barry Komisaruk, a neuroscientist and the author of The Science of Orgasm, says, “The sound is a representation of the intensity of excitation. If a partner gets excited hearing a shout during sex, then that can be a rewarding communication that bonds the partners and encourages them to do it again.”
      Talking about sex outside the bedroom also helps. One study found that those who communicate about sex, both in and out of bed, have better sex than those who don’t talk about sex at all.
      Salt N Pepa were on the money when they said Let’s Talk About Sex.
      6. They make sex fun
      Sex should be fun but isn't always.
      One depressing study found that many women have sex out of a sense of obligation. Sixty-six percent of women surveyed had sex with their partner to get it out of the way.
      Sex shouldn't be considered a chore that needs to be ticked off on your weekly to-do list. No one should be having sex out of obligation.
      Great lovers make sex fun. They mix things up, surprise their partner, and use their research from point one to spice things up. And importantly, they ask their partner what they like.
      Sex shouldn't be a task but an activity.
      7. They are a sex detective
      Are you a Sherlock Holmes in the sack?
      A sex detective will pick up on nonverbal sex clues as to what their partner likes. We spoke about vocalization, but this is picking up on body language, eye contact, demeanor.
      Is your partner feeling body conscious or anxious? Pick up on these cues and build their confidence.
      A good sex detective will look for cues and clues not only during the act of sex but also perceive when their partner wants to have sex.
      According to Isiah McKimmie, relationship therapist & sexologist. “Men fail to pick up on a woman’s cues for sex because they’re simply too subtle or there’s a lack of communication. There’s also still a myth that women are less interested in sex than men, and I think both men and women can fall victim to this.” My porn sex and my real life sex are one in the same. I even do vaginal sex (backdoor and front door.) I am open to ethical open relationships (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship.) I am open to all of the types of ethical polyamory with ethical solo polyamory being my favorite: https://www.healthline.com/health/relationships/solo-polyamory and https://www.choosingtherapy.com/polyamory/. I am childfree by my choice, pet free by my choice, staunchly against marriage for myself by my choice, and living totally alone by my choice. I am a switch or versatile, soft Dom and hard Dom when it comes to BDSM. I would love to porn perform with Make Love Not Porn (MLNP.) It is impossible to experience absolute certainty and absolute truth pertaining to deities and messianic figures.
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      56 min
    26. Body positive sex!
      I no longer have sexual performance anxiety like I did in the past. Once I do adult films and my off-camera sex life, I will maintain my sensitivity to sexual performance anxiety. “Medications and other therapies can help treat erectile dysfunction and other sexual problems that have physical causes. If a medical issue isn't to blame, your doctor might suggest you try one of these approaches:
      Talk to a therapist. Make an appointment with a counselor or therapist who has experience in treating sexual problems. Therapy can help you understand and then reduce or get rid of the issues that are causing your sexual performance anxiety. If you worry about premature ejaculation, for example, you can try some techniques that help you gain more control. Be open with your partner. Talking with your partner about your anxiety can help ease some of your worries. When you try to reach a solution together, you may draw closer as a couple or group pairings and improve your sexual relationship (s).
      Get intimate in other ways. Learn how to be intimate without sexual intercourse. Give your partner a sensual massage or take a warm bath together. Take turns pleasing each other with masturbation so you don't always have to feel pressured to perform sexually.
      Exercise. Not only does working out make you feel better about your body, it also improves your stamina in bed and all of the other sexual settings.
      Distract yourself. Put on some romantic music or a sexy movie while you make love. Think about something that turns you on. Taking your mind off your sexual performance can remove the worries that stop you from getting excited.
      Finally, take it easy on yourself. Don't beat yourself up about your appearance or ability in bed and all of the other sexual settings. Get help for sexual performance anxiety so you all can get back to having a healthy and enjoyable sex life.” I overcame these issues for good: “Poor body image, including concern over your weight,
      Problems in your relationship,
      Worry that your penis won't "measure up",
      Concern about ejaculating too early or taking too long to reach orgasm,
      Anxiety about not being able to have an orgasm or enjoy the sexual experiences,
      These things may lead your body to release stress hormones like epinephrine and norepinephrine, and fear that you won't perform well in bed and all of the sexual settings and satisfy your partner sexually.” I, Antonio, only have sex with positive people adult on-camera and off-camera. In theory, a good partner makes for good sex. Sex columnist, Dan Savage, says partners should be GGG: "good, giving and game... good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything -- within reason." I am proud to be a lover who is noteworthy. I have noteworthy lovers too.
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      42 min
    27. I made full peace with my religious past as a secular community member!
      “Most religions would have us follow a set of paternalistic, ancient texts that are full of conflicting messages and supposedly inspired by a powerful supernatural being and written when knowledge of the laws of nature was virtually non-existent. We are, on our own, capable of providing an appropriate set of guidelines that allows each of us to seek happiness while living harmoniously with each other and with nature. Inherently, most people are basically good. We don't need the fear of the wrath of a supposed supernatural being to motivate us to act on our positive impulses. There are a basic set of guidelines that reasonable people can agree to and follow in living their lives. The following are some of those precepts, developed and matured over many generations by varied cultures across our history:
      Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
      We all have the freedom to choose our actions, but we also bear the responsibility for the consequences of actions that we take.
      Do not discriminate against others based on sex, race, culture, sexual orientation, color, religion or personal beliefs.
      Treat the environment and nature with respect and be active in preventing harm that would jeopardize future generations' ability to enjoy nature's beauty and bounty.
      A person who is able should earn their way through life and not feed selfishly on the efforts of others.
      A person should strive to be virtuous. Virtues are positive traits considered to be inherent in morally good people. While not always easy, an individual should aspire to following a set of virtues such as:
      Generosity - giving something of yourself to others, something that has value and is something others lack. Generosity is the opposite of selfishness. It is a realization that we have something of value to give, so it also reflects our own sense of self-worth.
      Courage - to do the right thing. Courage represents self-sacrifice, taking a risk for some other's benefit and not selfishness.
      Justice - ensuring that everyone gets their fair and proper share. Being just is also standing up for people's rights.
      Compassion - a feeling of concern for the suffering of others. The feeling of compassion drives a desire to act to help those in need, to ease their suffering.
      Gratitude - being grateful for the positive in our lives, the things we have and the benefits we receive. Gratitude is probably the virtue most closely linked to our overall well-being and happiness. By showing gratitude, we are likely to increase our happiness and enthusiasm for life.
      Humility - an acknowledgement of our own limits. It is an understanding that our place in the world, while important, is limitied.
      Tolerance - our capacity to respect other people's opinions, practices and beliefs.
      Love - the affection we feel for one another, providing a personal level of care and kindness.Love is vitally important to our well-being. It underpins our positive relationships with others and is therefore a prerequisite for happiness.
      Honesty - being truthful, sincere and trustworthy. It is the foundation upon which positive inter-personal relationships are built and maintained.
      Self-Discipline - the ability to control one's temper, properly channel passion and think before responding to impulses. It is also about self-control, resisting temptation to deviate from our core set of values.
      Curiosity - it is curiosity that drives our ability to learn, providing an antidote for ignorance and countering the dangers posed by blind faith.
      Skepticism - going hand-in-hand with curiosity, it is our filter, the check in helping us evaluate which information is actually worthy of consideration and belief.”
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      1 hr 14 min
    28. My healing ❤️‍🩹 adventures!
      “Intimacy is a word that has been thrown around a lot lately, and it means different things to different people. It’s not only sex or nudity. It’s a wide range of expressions, from something as subtle as conversation or eye contact to hugging, kissing and explicit sexual acts. It’s the physical or emotional closeness between people or just with yourself.
      Intimacy can be a beautiful form of self-expression, and it can be part of your storytelling vocabulary. These days, almost every movie, series, and many other media types include intimate scenes. However, it comes with some challenges. For example, the director might not know how to choreograph staged sex or how to discuss actors’ boundaries. Some actors might be scared to say “no” to the director, leading them to consent to the things they don’t want to do.
      To resolve these and many other challenges, mainstream cinema created the role of Intimacy Coordinator. In short, an IC is a specialised person who is competent in working with intimacy on screen.
      While this role has been maturing in the arena of mainstream cinema and theatre, pornography has been excluded. At the end of the day, porn presents very intimate scenes. I don’t know if it gets any more intimate than real sex. The role of IC was created to ensure the professional treatment of people who are involved in the production of intimate scenes. In porn, we work with people, and like any other human being, they deserve respect, professionalism and a safe work environment. I said it many times and will say it again. Sweeping pornography under the rug,
      and making it illegal won’t resolve any issue, it will make things worse, and it will put people who work in the industry in danger. So instead of turning our heads away, we should lean into it and seek ways to create a work environment that is ethical.” I am willing to adult film work with positive persons such as non-binary adults, genderless adults, LGBTQIA+ adults, straight/heterosexual adults, curious and questioning adults, adult hermaphrodites, androgynous adults, cisgender adults, adults of all personalities and temperaments, adults of all islands and all continents, genderqueer adults, the entire gender and sexual diversity of adults (all sexual orientations, all gender identities, and all sex characteristics), all ages of adults, all adult skin colors and skin tones, all adult sizes, all adult shapes, all adult cultural, linguistic, and social-economic backgrounds, entire human diversity of adults (a.k.a all adult walks of life.) I am strictly and only all-around attracted to adults. I am hearts over parts (I focus on who you are over your outward appearances even though I have preferences for curves and built frames.) Keep yourself well-groomed whether clean-shaven or hairy so we can work well together in adult films and outside of the adult film world. As long as you are a do no harm, non-dogmatic person, we can work well together in adult films and outside of the adult film world. The religious definition of “Lord” is about eternal capital punishment for people who reject dogmatism.
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      1 hr 17 min

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    Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.