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  • My Biblical Skepticism

    “Ableism (/ˈeɪbəlɪzəm/; also known as ablism, disablism (British English), anapirophobia, anapirism, and disability discrimination) is discrimination and social prejudice against people with physical or mental disabilities. Ableism characterizes people as they are defined by their disabilities and it also classifies disabled people as people who are inferior to non-disabled people.[1] On this basis, people are assigned or denied certain perceived abilities, skills, or character orientations.

    Although ableism and disablism are both terms which describe disability discrimination, the emphasis for each of these terms is slightly different. Ableism is discrimination in favor of non-disabled people, while disablism is discrimination against disabled people.[2]
    There are stereotypes which are either associated with disability in general, or they are associated with specific impairments or chronic health conditions (for instance the presumption that all disabled people want to be cured, the presumption that wheelchair users also have an intellectual disability, or the presumption that blind people have some special form of insight).[3] These stereotypes, in turn, serve as a justification for discriminatory practices, and reinforce discriminatory attitudes and behaviors toward people who are disabled.[4] Labeling affects people when it limits their options for action or changes their identity.[5]”

    "Is there a single attitude toward disability in the Bible?

    Although there is no term for disability among the cultures that produced the biblical texts, there were standards of bodily normativity, standards which when combined with the realities of ancient life, meant that a majority of ancient persons had bodies that would be classified as different or deviating from the normative body in some way.

    In the Hebrew Bible we learn that people with particular types of bodies, namely, the “blind” and the “lame,” could not enter the temple (2Sam 5:8). In addition to blindness and mobility impairments precluding entry into the temple, reproductive incapacity or “barrenness” could also preclude a person from entering the sanctuary space (Deut 23:1; Gen 25:21-26; Judg 13:2-25; 2Kgs 4:8-37). In these passages persons with particular kinds of bodies that were viewed as nonnormative were excluded religiously and socially."

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    31 min
  • What does “my having sex in moderation” mean?
    “One metric used by the WHO to determine the severity of global rates of coercive, forced sexual activity was the question "Have you ever been forced to have sexual intercourse against your will?" Asking this question produced higher positive response rates than being asked, whether they had ever been abused or raped.[24]
    The WHO report describes the consequences of sexual abuse:
    Gynecological disorders
    Reproductive disorders
    Sexual disorders
    Infertility
    Pelvic inflammatory disease
    Pregnancy complications
    Miscarriage
    Sexual dysfunction
    Acquiring sexually transmitted infections, including HIV/AIDS
    Mortality from injuries
    Increased risk of suicide
    Depression
    Chronic pain
    Psychosomatic disorders
    Unsafe abortion
    Unwanted pregnancy (see Pregnancy from rape)[24].”
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    1 hr 7 min
  • Avoiding my trauma triggers part 2 (final part)
    I live by this: “Another principle of Buddhism is “The Middle Way” which implies a balanced approach to life and the regulation of one’s impulses and behavior. Buddhism itself is sometimes referred to as “The Middle Way” indicating reconciliation of the extremes of opposing views. In the broadest sense, the Middle Way refers to the actions or attitudes that will create happiness for oneself and others. In many ways it is similar to the humanist perspective that recognizes that reason and rationality should be balanced with empathy and compassion.”
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    1 hr 2 min
  • Sexual sickopathy (a mixture of sexual psychopathy, sexual narcissism, and sexual sociopathy.)
    Sexual sickopaths are real. Here are healthy sex rules and healthy sexual relationship rules to live by: “Healthy characteristics
    Mutual respect. Valuing who the other person is and understanding each other’s boundaries.
    Trust. Feeling confident that both people can rely on the other to be honest and have each other's back.
    Honesty. Being truthful to help build trust and strengthen relationships.
    Compromise. Acknowledging different points of view. Both people are willing to give and take and neither person always gets their way
    Individuality. Neither person compromises who they are, or bases their identity on the other person. Both people continue seeing their friends and doing the things they love. Both are supportive of each other pursuing new things and making new friends.
    Good communication. Speaking honestly and openly. If one person needs to sort out their feelings first, the other person respects that.
    Anger control. Dealing with anger by cooling off instead of lashing out— take deep breaths, count to ten, or take a walk. Once calm, both people talk about it together.
    Fighting fair. Coming up with possible solutions by sticking to the subject and avoiding insults. Both people can take a short break from each other if the discussion gets too heated.
    Problem solving. Working together to identify new solutions by breaking a problem into small parts. Talking through the situation and taking it one step at a time.
    Understanding. Taking time to recognize what the other person might be feeling.
    Self-confidence. Having confidence in yourself can help your relationships with others. It allows you to be calm and comfortable enough to allow others to express their opinions freely.
    Being a role model. Embodying what respect means to inspire each other, friends, and family to behave in a respectful way.
    Ensuring a healthy sexual relationship. If you and your partner decide to engage in any kind of sexual activity, be sure it is something you are both comfortable with. Neither of you should feel pressured or forced to engage in any activity outside your comfort zone— or without consent.”
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    1 hr 7 min
  • Adult performers shouldn’t be internally raped nor externally raped

    “Porn sex should never be damaging, injurious, detrimental, dangerous, deleterious, unfavorable, negative, disadvantageous, unhealthy, unwholesome, hurtful, baleful, wounding,

    destructive, environmentally unfriendly, noxious, hazardous, poisonous, toxic, deadly, lethal, bad, evil, malign, malignant, malevolent, corrupting, subversive, pernicious, baneful, maleficent, and malefic.” -Antonio Myers


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    59 min
  • Avoiding my trauma triggers part 1
    “This person completely accepts me as I am
    I can openly share my deepest thoughts and feelings with this person
    This person cares deeply for me
    This person would willingly help me in any way
    My thoughts and feelings are understood and affirmed by this person
    These results are putting in correlation with specific values which characterize an individual such as psychological and physical well-being, social support, and health.
    The results provided by the scale prove a positive relationship between an increase of EIS and an increase for the individual of social support, self-efficiency, life satisfaction and other positive effects. It also shows the negative relation between a decrease of EIS and an increase of stress, pain, and fatigue for the individual. An intimate relationship gives a sentiment of purpose and belonging which increases the physiological and psychological well-being.” I dealt with similar things: “The "disorganized crime" and choice theses
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    One of the most important trends to emerge in criminological thinking about OC in recent years is the suggestion that it is not, in a formal sense, "organized" at all. Evidence includes lack of centralized control, absence of formal lines of communication, fragmented organizational structure. It is distinctively disorganized. For example, Seattle's crime network in the 1970s and 80s consisted of groups of businessmen, politicians and of law enforcement officers. They all had links to a national network via Meyer Lansky, who was powerful, but there was no evidence that Lansky or anyone else exercised centralized control over them.[181]
    While some crime involved well-known criminal hierarchies in the city, criminal activity was not subject to central management by these hierarchies nor by other controlling groups, nor were activities limited to a finite number of objectives. The networks of criminals involved with the crimes did not exhibit organizational cohesion. Too much emphasis had been placed on the Mafia as controlling OC. The Mafia were certainly powerful but they "were part of a heterogeneous underworld, a network characterized by complex webs of relationships." OC groups were violent and aimed at making money but because of the lack of structure and fragmentation of objectives, they were "disorganized".[182][183]
    Further studies showed neither bureaucracy nor kinship groups are the primary structure of organized crime; rather, the primary structures were found to lie in partnerships or a series of joint business ventures.[184][185] Despite these conclusions, all researchers observed a degree of managerial activities among the groups they studied. All observed networks and a degree of persistence, and there may be utility in focusing on the identification of organizing roles of people and events rather than the group's structure.[186][187] There may be three main approaches to understand the organizations in terms of their roles as social systems:[188]
    organizations as rational systems: Highly formalized structures in terms of bureaucracy's and hierarchy, with formal systems of rules regarding authority and highly specific goals;
    organizations as natural systems: Participants may regard the organization as an end in itself, not merely a means to some other end. Promoting group values to maintain solidarity is high on the agenda. They do not rely on profit maximization. Their perversity and violence in respect of relationships is often remarkable, but they are characterized by their focus on the connections between their members, their associates and their victims; and,
    organizations open systems: High levels of interdependence between themselves and the environment in which they operate. There is no one way in which they are organized or how they operate. They are adaptable and change to meet the demands of their changing environments and circumstances.
    Organized crime groups may be a combination of all three.”
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    2 hr 37 min
  • Part 2 of Born Free and Equal: Sexual Orientation and Sex Characteristics in International Human Rights Law (The Second Edition) by The United Nations Human Rights Office of High Commissioner!
    “LGBT erasure (also known as queer erasure) refers to the tendency to remove lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual and queer groups or people (i.e. the LGBT community) intentionally or unintentionally from record, or to dismiss or downplay their significance.[1][2][3] This erasure can be found in a number of written and oral texts, including popular and scholarly texts.”
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    43 min
  • I am so glad that my two-month vacation break from organized crime, sex, and religion episodes starts tonight! I strongly need this highly anticipated break from months of real tiredness!🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️🧘
    “The ancient game of telephone is exactly why Jesus has been misquoted, and misportrayed by the Bible writers and by the church.” -Antonio Myers. “I believe that if Jesus lived today, he would be a secular humanist and would reject Christianity, just as he "rejected" Judaism and inspired Christianity.” -The Daily Dish. All body types and all personality types are well-represented in ethical porn.
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    2 hr 19 min
  • The difference between Conservative Christianity Jesus and the Human Rights Jesus

    “Jesus wasn't about religion, in fact he reserved his anger for organised religion and challenged, ignored or subverted religious practices. He didn't teach the non-religious about religion, or expect them to become 'religious'. If anyone has to become religious to follow Jesus they've missed the point, so talk of the relationship between church and state is missing the point too. It really is debateable whether Jesus wanted a Church. In fact, Jesus was a humanist. We should be humanists too. If we can allow that Jesus was not religious and urged us not to get stuck in religion, then we should be open to the secular, everything that is not explicitly religious, and be comfortable with it.”

    "WHY PASTORS LEAVE THE MINISTRY

    by Fuller Institute, George Barna and Pastoral Care Inc.

    * 1,500 clergy leaving pastoral ministry each month. - The Barna Research Group
    * 61% of congregations have forced a pastor to leave. - Christianity Today
    * 83% of clergy spouses want their spouse to leave pastoral ministry. - Hartford Institute for Religious Research
    * 90% of clergy in all denominations will not stay in ministry long enough to reach the age of retirement. - U.S. Bureau of Labor and Statistics
    * 50% of pastors indicated  that they would leave the ministry if they had another way of making a living. - Hartford Institute for Religious Research
    * 90% of the pastors report working between 55 to 75 hours per week.
    * 80% believe pastoral ministry has negatively affected their families. Many pastor's children do not attend church now because of what the church has done to their parents.
    * 33% state that being in the ministry is an outright hazard to their family.
    * 75% report significant stress-related crisis at least once in their ministry.
    * 90% feel they are inadequately trained to cope with the ministry demands.
    * 50% feel unable to meet the demands of the job.
    * 70% say they have a lower self-image now than when they first started.
    * 70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.
    * 40% report serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month.
    * 33% confess having involved in inappropriate sexual behavior with someone in the church .
    * 50% have considered leaving the ministry in the last month.
    * 50% of the ministers starting out will not last 5 years.
    * 1 out of every 10 ministers will actually retire as a minister in some form.
    * 94% of clergy families feel the pressures of the pastor's ministry.
    * 66% of church members expect a minister and family to live at a higher moral standard than themselves.
    * Moral values of a Christian is no different than those who consider themselves as non-Christians.
    * The average American will tell 23 lies a day.
    * The profession of "Pastor" is near the bottom of a survey of the most-respected professions, just above "car salesman".
    * Over 4,000 churches closed in America last year.
    * Over 1,700 pastors left the ministry every month last year.
    * Over 1,300 pastors were terminated by the local church each month , many without  cause.
    * Over 3,500 people a day left the church last year.
    * Many denominations report an "empty pulpit crisis". They cannot find ministers willing to fill positions.

    #1 reason pastors leave the ministry - Church people are not willing to go the same direction and goal of the pastor. Pastor's believe God wants them to go in one direction but the people are not willing to follow or change.

    Statistics provided by:  The Fuller Institute, George Barna, and Pastoral Care Inc."

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    1 hr 20 min
  • Organized crime is unnatural to me.
    “The Misogynistic She-Devil
    The She-Devil sees herself as superior to other women, and at least on a level with, if not above, the top alpha males she encounters. In her view, other women are manipulative, dishonest, irrational, incompetent or unintelligent, but somehow she is exempted. She might possess some stereotypical feminine virtues like beauty and slenderness. But she perceives herself as instantiating the stereotypical masculine virtues of intelligence, the strength of character and rationality, and her behavior is more manly than that of her male coworkers, classmates or friends. Don't be surprised if she can outdrink all of them.
    She is in constant competition with other women and would rather kick a woman off the career ladder or out of school than help her progress. But she masterfully escapes detection and punishment for her bad behavior. As you wait for the elevator with your box of memorabilia and your withering office plant, your rival is one step further up the career ladder, her triumphant laughter hanging in the air.
    She is host to dark personality traits. Her firm belief that she is superior to other women points most strongly to narcissism. But narcissistic traits are also routinely present in borderline personalities and psychopaths. In the general population, dark traits tend to be subclinical, which means that they are not associated with the level of dysfunction seen in clinical cases. But mixing high functionality with sinister character traits is more likely to give you a Molotov cocktail than a Cosmopolitan.” These other incidents occurred in my childhood: “A drug house (also known as a drug den, crack house, shooting gallery, or trap house)[1] is a residence used in the illegal drug trade. Drug houses shelter drug users and provide a place for drug dealers to supply them. Drug houses can also be used as laboratories to synthesize (cook) drugs, or cache ingredients and product. Drug houses have been a subject widely presented in hip hop and trap music, with the latter genre being named after an American slang term for a drug houses.[2][3] The strongest industry in some urban areas is the illegal drug trade. Abandoned buildings ravaged by arson or neglect are utilized by drug dealers since they are free, obscure, secluded and there is no paper trail in the form of rent receipts. The sale of illegal drugs often draws violent crime to afflicted neighborhoods, sometimes exacerbating the exodus of residents. In some cases, enraged citizens have burned crack houses to the ground, in hopes that by destroying the sites for drug operations they would also drive the illegal industries from their neighborhoods.[4] Many major American urban areas contain crack houses.[5][6][7].” “Sin City is a nickname that may be applied to an urban area (a city or part of) that caters to various vices. These vices may be legal (depending on area) or illegal activities which are tolerated.
    Examples of vices include sex-related services (prostitution, strip clubs, sex shops, etc.), gambling (casinos, betting shops, etc.), or drug use (alcohol, marijuana, etc. consumption), and even excessive organized crime and gang activity. If the city is known for prostitution, it is often called a red-light district, as in Amsterdam, Netherlands.”There was bloodshed, folks lying in pools of blood. I went to 1997 Vibe Magazine party type of parties in the organized crime world where people were gunned down as bad element are leaving out. The organized crime parties sometimes ended prematurely because of reality TV show type of drama occurring at the parties. The women criminals would grab me, shove me in the luxury cars, and drive me out of there swiftly. We were the first to leave and the first to leave quickly usually whenever the drama broke out.
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    1 hr 4 min

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Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.