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TonioTimeDaily

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  • The full story of my black atheism, agnostic deism, agnostic theism, Christian agnosticism, Agnostic Christianity, and Secular Jesus Follower!
    “Equality before the law, also known as equality under the law, equality in the eyes of the law, legal equality, or legal egalitarianism, is the principle that all people must be equally protected by the law.[1] The principle requires a systematic rule of law that observes due process to provide equal justice, and requires equal protection ensuring that no individual nor group of individuals be privileged over others by the law. Sometimes called the principle of isonomy, it arises from various philosophical questions concerning equality, fairness and justice. Equality before the law is one of the basic principles of some definitions of liberalism.[2][3] It is incompatible with legal slavery. Article 7 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR) states: "All are equal before the law and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law".[1] Thus, everyone must be treated equally under the law regardless of race, gender, color, ethnicity, religion, disability, or other characteristics, without privilege, discrimination or bias. The general guarantee of equality is provided by most of the world's national constitutions,[4] but specific implementations of this guarantee vary. For example, while many constitutions guarantee equality regardless of race,[5] only a few mention the right to equality regardless of nationality.[6]”
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    1 hr 42 min
  • The type of Jesus ✝️ that the Church ⛪️ should be promoting
    “The United Nations (UN) is the only multilateral governmental agency with universally accepted international jurisdiction for universal human rights legislation.[47] All UN organs have advisory roles to the United Nations Security Council and the United Nations Human Rights Council, and there are numerous committees within the UN with responsibilities for safeguarding different human rights treaties. The most senior body of the UN with regard to human rights is the Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights. The United Nations has an international mandate to:
    ... achieve international co-operation in solving international problems of an economic, social, cultural, or humanitarian character, and in promoting and encouraging respect for human rights and for fundamental freedoms for all without distinction as to race, sex, language, or religion.
    — Article 1–3 of the Charter of the United Nations.”
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    1 hr 10 min
  • My recovery ❤️‍🩹 from the affairs, my black atheist affiliation, and my sexual sound-mindedness!
    “1. Anger or revenge
    People sometimes cheat out of anger or a desire to get revenge.
    Maybe you just discovered your partner cheated. You’re stunned and hurt. You might want to make your partner go through the same emotions so they really understand the pain they caused you.
    In other words, “They hurt me, so now I’ll hurt them” is often the driving thought behind retaliatory infidelity.
    Anger-motivated infidelity can happen for reasons other than revenge, though, including:
    frustration in a relationship when your partner doesn’t seem to understand you or your needs
    anger at a partner who isn’t around much
    anger when a partner doesn’t have much to give, physically or emotionally
    anger or frustration after an argument
    Regardless of the underlying cause, anger can act as a powerful motivator to become intimate with someone else.
    2. Falling out of love
    The exhilarating feeling of falling in love with someone generally doesn’t last forever. When you first fall in love with someone, you might experience passion, excitement, and rushes of dopamine from simply getting a text from them.
    But the intensity of these feelings usually fades over time. Sure, stable, lasting love exists. But those first-date butterflies will only take you so far.
    Once the glitter fades, you might realize that the love just isn’t there. Or maybe you realize you’re in love with someone else.
    Keep in mind that falling out of love doesn’t have to mean you don’t love each other.
    This can make it harder to leave a relationship that still provides a sense of family, friendship, stability, and safety. But staying in a relationship without romantic love may lead to a desire to experience love again and motivate infidelity.”
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    1 hr 52 min
  • Respect sex (full body respect and full soul respect)
    “The human body is the structure of a human being. It is composed of many different types of cells that together create tissues and subsequently organ systems. They ensure homeostasis and the viability of the human body. It comprises a head, hair, neck, trunk (which includes the thorax and abdomen), arms and hands, legs and feet.
    The study of the human body involves anatomy, physiology, histology and embryology. The body varies anatomically in known ways. Physiology focuses on the systems and organs of the human body and their functions. Many systems and mechanisms interact in order to maintain homeostasis, with safe levels of substances such as sugar and oxygen in the blood.
    The body is studied by health professionals, physiologists, anatomists, and artists to assist them in their work.”
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    42 min
  • Cheating spouse signs and independent contractor in ethical porn
    “ Is evasive about details
    Keeps a change of clothing in their car
    Suggests you go do activities without them
    Goes to social events without you
    Locks the bathroom or bedroom door
    No longer kisses you during sex
    Has separate email accounts hidden from you
    Looks nervous when their phone rings
    Only remembers negative aspects of your relationship
    Starts dining out at restaurants you have never been to
    Turns phone off or doesn’t answer when they are away from home
    Chatting with the opposite sex on Facebook
    Looking in the personal sections of websites
    Getting phone messages, texts or emails from old girlfriends or boyfriends
    Find hair in your bed or in their car
    Smell perfume/cologne on bed sheets or their clothing.” “Ethical porn has intimacy coordinators, intimacy choreographers, sex-work therapists, sexual trauma specialists, sexeperts, sex coaches, sex therapists, intimacy disorders specialists, and sexologists while mainstream pornography tends to not have these duties.” -Antonio Myers
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    1 hr 11 min
  • Most mainstream pornography companies are not designed for me at all whatsoever
    “Most mainstream porn encourages sexual narcissism, narcissistic sexual abuse, sexual psychopathy, sexual sociopathy, and sexual sickopathy in their rape culture jokes and when they are not joking about actually abiding by rape culture .” Antonio Myers. Most mainstream porn glorifies rape culture. “Rape culture is a setting, studied by several sociological theories, in which rape is pervasive and normalized due to societal attitudes about gender and sexuality. Behaviors commonly associated with rape culture include victim blaming, slut-shaming, sexual objectification, trivializing rape, denial of widespread rape, refusing to acknowledge the harm caused by sexual violence, or some combination of these. It has been used to describe and explain behavior within social groups, including prison rape and in conflict areas where war rape is used as psychological warfare. Entire societies have been alleged to be rape cultures. It is associated with rape fantasy and rape pornography.”
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    54 min
  • The mommy issues and daddy issues of my childhood
    “Pay close attention to these signs. They will help you learn the general extent to which your inner child has been wounded and the level to which you feel unsafe in this world. The more signs you say “yes” to, the more you need to seriously consider inner child work:
    In the deepest part of me, I feel that there’s something terribly wrong with me.
    I experience anxiety whenever thinking about doing something new.
    I’m a people-pleaser and tend to lack a strong identity.
    I’m a rebel/misfit – I feel more alive when I’m in conflict with other people.
    I tend to hoard things and have trouble letting go.
    I feel guilty standing up for myself.
    I feel inadequate and “not good enough” as a man or woman.
    I’m driven to always be an A+ super-achiever.
    I believe that I’m a terrible sinner and I’m afraid of going to hell.
    I constantly criticize myself for being inadequate/unworthy.
    I’m rigid and perfectionistic.
    I have trouble starting or finishing things.
    I’m ashamed of expressing strong emotions such as sadness or anger.
    I rarely get mad, but when I do, I become rageful.
    I have sex when I don’t want to.
    I’m ashamed of my bodily functions (e.g., pee, poo).
    I spend too much time looking at pornography.
    I distrust everyone, including myself.
    I am an addict or have been addicted to something.
    I avoid conflict at every chance possible.
    I am afraid of people and tend to avoid them.
    I feel more responsible for others than for myself.
    I never felt close to my mother and/or father.
    My deepest fear is being abandoned – I’ll do anything to cling to a relationship.
    I struggle to say “no.”
    If you answered yes to ten or more of these statements, working with your inner child should be at the top of your priority list. If you answered yes to five or more of these statements, you’d do best to seriously consider reconnecting with your inner child.”
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    1 hr 8 min
  • The full story of the sexual affairs and how I survived organized crime as a kid
    I saw all of these things as a kid: “Violent crime is crime that involves an act of violent aggression against another person.[49] Common examples of violent crime include homicide, assault, sexual assault, and robbery.[50][51] Some violent crimes, such as assault, may be committed with the intention of causing harm. Other violent crimes, such as robbery, may use violence to further another goal. Violent crime is distinct from noncriminal types of violence, such as self-defense, use of force, and acts of war. Acts of violence are most often perceived as deviant when they are committed as an overreaction or a disproportionate response to provocation.[49] Inchoate crime is crime that is carried out in anticipation of other illegal actions but does not cause direct harm. Examples of inchoate crimes include attempt and conspiracy. Inchoate crimes are defined by substantial action to facilitate a crime with the intention of the crime's occurrence. This is distinct from simple preparation for or consideration of criminal activity. They are unique in that renunciation of criminal intention is generally enough to absolve the perpetrator of criminal liability, as their actions are no longer facilitating a potential future crime.[65] Political crime is crime that directly challenges or threatens the state. Examples of political crimes include subversion, rebellion, treason, mutiny, espionage, sedition, terrorism, riot, and unlawful assembly. Political crimes are associated with the political agenda of a given state, and they are necessarily applied against political dissidents.[61] Due to their unique relation to the state, political crimes are often encouraged by one nation against another, and it is political alignment rather than the act itself that determines criminality.[62][63] State crime that is carried out by the state to repress law-abiding citizens may also be considered political crime.[64] Public order crime is crime that violates a society's norms about what constitutes socially acceptable behavior. Examples of public order crimes include gambling, drug-related crime, public intoxication, prostitution, loitering, breach of the peace, panhandling, vagrancy, street harassment, excessive noise, and littering.[56] Public order crime is associated with the broken windows theory, which posits that public order crimes increase the likelihood of other types of crime.[57] Some public order crimes are considered victimless crimes in which no specific victim an be identified.[58] Most nations in the Western world have moved toward decriminalization of victimless crimes in the modern era.[59] Common examples of property crime include burglary, theft, and vandalism.[52][53]
    Examples of financial crimes include counterfeiting, smuggling, tax evasion, and bribery. The scope of financial crimes has expanded significantly since the beginning of modern economics in the 17th century.[54] In occupational crime, the complexity and anonymity of computer systems may help criminal employees camouflage their operations. The victims of the most costly scams include banks, brokerage houses, insurance companies, and other large financial institutions.[55]” I saw all of these things as a kid in the church organized crime world: “Adultery, fornication, blasphemy, apostasy, and invoking the name of God are commonly recognized as crimes in theocratic societies or those heavily influenced by religion.[60]”
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    1 hr 4 min
  • Sex impacts the compositions of our human bodies

    “There are 11 distinct organ systems in human beings,[3] which form the basis of human anatomy and physiology. The 11 organ systems include the respiratory system, digestive and excretory system, circulatory system, urinary system, integumentary system, skeletal system, muscular system, endocrine system, lymphatic system, nervous system, and reproductive systems. There are other systems in the body that are not organ systems. For example, the Immune system protects the organism from infection, but it is not an organ system as it is not composed of organs. Some organs are in more than one system. For example, the nose is in both the respiratory system and also is a sensory organ in the nervous system. The testes and ovary are both part of the reproductive systems and endocrine systems.”

    As a child I witnessed this in organized crime: "The appearance of computer-mediated communication introduces a new type of communication and consequently a new type of "affair". There are various kinds of computer-mediated communication that differ in some significant aspects: one-to-one or group communication formats, interrelating with anonymous or identified people and communicating in synchronous or asynchronous formats.[6] Online affairs combine features of close and remote relationships.

    Ben Ze'ef argues that an online affair is a unique kind of affair—termed "detached attachment", or just "detachment"—that includes opposing features whose presence in a face-to-face affair would be paradoxical. Like direct, face-to-face affairs, online affairs can be spontaneous and casual and show intensive personal involvement. However, online affairs can also be more of a planned discourse than spontaneous talk; like written letters, online messages can be stored and thus have a permanent presence, which is absent from face-to-face affairs.[7]

    People participating in online affairs may be strangers to each other in the sense that they have never actually met each other. However, they are also close to each other since they share intimate information. In online affairs, people try to enjoy the benefits of both close and remote affairs, while avoiding their flaws. People enjoy the highly valued products of close affairs while paying the low cost of remote affairs. As one woman wrote: 'He constantly told me that he cannot provide me with what I would want and I would always respond with: "I'm not asking anything from you, but simply enjoy your company"'.[8]


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    48 min
  • Sexual revenge within organized crime
    I witnessed all of these things in my childhood: “An affair is a sexual relationship, romantic friendship, or passionate attachment in which at least one of its participants has a formal or informal commitment to a third person who may neither agree to such relationship nor even be aware of it. A romantic affair, also called an affair of the heart, may refer to a sexual liaison or more emotional relationship between two people who may have sex without expecting a more formal romantic relationship, an affair is by its nature romantic.[1]
    The term affair may also describe part of an agreement within an open marriage or open relationship, such as swinging, dating, or polyamory, in which some forms of sex with one's non-primary partner(s) are permitted and other forms are not. Participants in open relationships, including unmarried couples and polyamorous families, may consider sanctioned affairs the norm, but when a non-sanctioned affair occurs, it is described as infidelity and maybe experienced as adultery, or a betrayal both of trust and integrity, even though to most people it would not be considered illicit.
    When romantic affairs lack both overt and covert sexual behavior, yet exhibit intense or enduring emotional intimacy, it may also be referred to as an emotional affair, platonic love, or a romantic friendship. Extramarital affairs are relationships outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs.[2]
    An affair can continue in one form or another for years, even as one of the partners in that affair passes through marriage, divorce, and remarriage. This could be considered the primary relationship, with the marriage secondary to it. Several people claim the reason for an extramarital affair is their unsuccessful marriage where both spouses fail to please each other. This may be serial polygamy or other forms of nonmonogamy.[3]
    The ability to pursue serial and clandestine extramarital affairs while safeguarding other secrets and conflict of interest inherent in the practice, requires skill in deception and duplicitous negotiation. Even to hide one affair requires a degree of skill or malicious gaslighting. All these behaviors are more usually called lying.[4]
    Deception can be defined as the "covert manipulation of perception to alter thoughts, feelings, or beliefs". The presence of deception may indicate the degree to which the deceiver has breached fundamental conditions of fidelity, reciprocal vulnerability, and transparency. Sometimes these are explicit or assumed pre-conditions of a committed intimate relationship.
    Individuals having affairs with married men or women can be prosecuted for adultery in some jurisdictions and can be sued by the jilted spouses in others, or named as 'co-respondents' in divorce proceedings. As of 2009, eight U.S. states permitted such alienation of affections lawsuits.[5] Affairs with the consent of their significant others may not be considered infidelity or adultery.”
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    35 min

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Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.