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  • Power rapists, anger rapists, sadistic rapists, vindictive rapists, & sexual gratification rapists (types of rapists and types of rape!)

    “For these rapists, rape becomes a way to compensate for their underlying feelings of inadequacy and feeds their issues of mastery, control, strength, authority and capability. The intent of the power rapist is to assert their competency. The power rapist relies upon verbal threats, intimidation with a weapon, and uses only the amount of force necessary to subdue the victim.

    The power rapist tends to have fantasies about rape and sexual conquests. They may believe that even though the victim initially resists them, that once they overpower their victim, the victim will eventually enjoy the rape. The rapist needs to believe that the victim enjoyed what was done to them, and they may even ask the victim to meet them for a date later.
    Because this is only a fantasy, the rapist does not feel reassured for long by either their own performance or the victim's response. The rapist feels gratified by the sexual pleasure and power and will usually act again. It becomes addictive. As a narcisist feeds on compliments, the power rapist feeds on power and domination of the victim.
    Hence, their offenses may become repetitive and compulsive. They may commit a series of rapes over a short period of time. This is the most common type of serial rapist of strangers in the United States.[3]” “Anger rapist
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    The aim of this rapist is to humiliate, debase, and hurt their victim; they express their contempt for their victim through physical violence and profane language. For these rapists, sex is a weapon to defile and degrade the victim, rape constitutes the ultimate expression of their anger. This rapist considers rape the ultimate offense they can commit against the victim.
    Anger rape is characterized by physical brutality, much more physical force is used during the assault than would be necessary if the intent were simply to overpower the victim and achieve penetration. This type of offender attacks their victim by grabbing, striking and knocking the victim to the ground, beating them, tearing their clothes, and raping them.
    The experience for the offender is one that is of conscious anger and rage.[2]” “Sadistic rapist
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    For these rapists, there is a sexual association with various concepts, has always shown aggression and the infliction of pain is eroticized. For this rapist, sexual excitement is associated with the causing of suffering upon their victim. The offender finds the intentional maltreatment of their victim intensely gratifying and takes pleasure in the victim's torment, anguish, distress, helplessness, and suffering;[4] the offender finds the victim's struggling an erotic experience.
    Sadistic rape usually involves extensive, prolonged torture and restraint. Sometimes, it can take on ritualistic or other bizarre qualities. The rapist may use some type of instrument or a foreign object to penetrate their victim. Sexual areas of the victim's body become a specific focus of injury or abuse.
    The sadistic rapist's assaults are calculated. They will often wear a disguise or will blindfold their victims.[4] Prostitutes or other individuals whom they perceive to be "promiscuous" are often the sadistic rapist's targets. The victims of a sadistic rapist may not survive the attack. For some offenders, the ultimate satisfaction is gained from murdering the victim.[2]” “Sexual gratification rapist
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    According to Shannon M. Barton-Bellessa, one type of rapist is the sexual gratification rapist. For this rapist, the motivation is to obtain sex. Such an offender may otherwise be lonely and may have difficulty obtaining an outlet for their sexual desires in other ways due to being unsuccessful at courtship.[5]”

    "Vindictive rapists" commit physically harmful assaults and with the intent to degrade and humiliate the victim.
    Some are sexual sadists who enjoy the victim's pain and fear.[1]"

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    1 hr 52 min
  • Entering adult entertainment is about my providing a sexual healing outlet for sexual outcasts! Healthy eroticism and healthy sensuality are two of the many legitimate human needs of sexual outcasts!
    My future independent contractor ideas that I am borrowing: “How could pornography be made more ethical? Perhaps there could be an Ethical Pornography Association (the EPA?), made up of voluntary participants in the industry, that sets there own standards for membership and certification. The standards could be formed through a direct democratic process that includes the performers of the participating production companies. They could monitor how pornography participants are selected, treated, and compensated. In return for voluntarily following regulations, pornographers could be rewarded with improved business opportunities and social acceptance. The activities the organization engages in could include suggesting voluntary regulations and producing an academic journal.
    Suggested EPA Activities:
    1. Calculating the total cost to an individual psychologically, physically, socially and professionally when they participate in pornography.
    2. Ensuring that participants are being fairly compensated and prepared for life after pornography (I’ll add during during pornography) e.g. guaranteed minimum wage, health-care benefits and tuition reimbursement).
    3. Establishing rules for how pornography is distributed so that individuals, and those they are custodians of, are not exposed to it against their wills.
    4. Establishing a waiting period during which a performer has the right to recall any footage they appear in, with only reasonable pre-stated penalties. Perhaps a 2–4 week waiting period during which payment and/or a deposit are withheld. Pornographers could adjust by filming scenes in ways that make them publishable even if some of the participants decline to have their footage published.
    5. A work guarantee where every performer is guaranteed that they will be paid a living wage if they accept job offers for a given duration (e.g. 28k/1 year).
    6. They could conduct studies of the long term impact of pornography on sex related crime and the physical and psychological wellbeing of participants and consumers.
    7. Participants who are members of the association could be subjected to periodic inspections to make sure they are in compliance.
    8. Psychologist, sociologist, sexologist and representatives from religious communities could publish a journal about the therapeutic role of ethical pornography and its potential perils (Dr. Drew?).” Link: https://jasoncstone.medium.com/ethical-pornography-f5fbc875a01c. I would regularly discuss creative solutions to the XXX boards of directors and executive leadership of XXX entities. I would foster a healthy professional relationship between law enforcement and XXX entities. I would foster healthy professional relationships between sexologists, sex coaches, sex therapists, sex experts, sexual trauma specialists, sexual assault preventers, sexual trauma survivors, sexual surrogates, intimacy coordinators, and intimacy choreographers in reference to XXX entities. I also get to help outcasts become and remain well-sexually balanced, well-sexually rounded, well-sexually adjusted, and well-sexually unified individuals. My XXX work will benefit those with these issues: “Patients frequently present with these specific problems:[3][4]
    Communication problems
    Dating anxiety
    Lack of confidence
    Lack of experience
    Low sexual desire
    Physical disability
    Sexual inhibitions
    Trouble with intimacy
    Erectile dysfunction
    Genital pain
    History of sexual assault or sexual abuse
    Inability to ejaculate with a partner
    Premature ejaculation
    Sexual aversion disorder
    Vaginismus
    There are people who have experienced a change in sexual lifestyle due to an acquired disability (accident, paralysis, disease, trauma), and a surrogate can help them explore and develop sexual potential.[5] The causes of sexual concerns are numerous and the methods a surrogate might use to help improve a client's sexual life are varied.” Sexual positive affirmations (non verbally and verbally) are never tiresome for me & I need them each time for sex.
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    1 hr 17 min
  • Empathy-centered sex makes sex art!
    “Sexual dysfunction is difficulty experienced by an individual or partners during any stage of normal sexual activity, including physical pleasure, desire, preference, arousal, or orgasm. The World Health Organization defines sexual dysfunction as a "person's inability to participate in a sexual relationship as they would wish".[1] This definition is broad and is subject to many interpretations.[2] A diagnosis of sexual dysfunction under the DSM-5 requires a person to feel extreme distress and interpersonal strain for a minimum of six months (except for substance- or medication-induced sexual dysfunction). Sexual dysfunction can have a profound impact on an individual's perceived quality of sexual life.[3] The term sexual disorder may not only refer to physical sexual dysfunction, but to paraphilias as well; this is sometimes termed disorder of sexual preference.”
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    1 hr 13 min
  • I’m a sexual empath!
    “Adult content creator is almost the same as content creator but your content is curated to the adult audience.
    You can sell your videos, photos etc. for a good money.
    Some of the OnlyFans stars earn more than a million dollars a month just from posting erotic content on their onlyfans. If you think that it is easy to create adult content then it is the time to rethink. The matter is different from the usual and therefore, difficult to handle at times. The adult services are not like all other services. Your secrecy and privacy is the biggest matter out there. You need to take care of the traffic in the adult website.
    Here, the provided adult services are –
    Making videos
    Creating logos
    Finding newer ideas
    Preparing all the documents required to create a adult website
    Registering new domains
    Designing the websites and maintaining them accordingly
    Providing custom shots (videos and images as well as VR contents)
    Setting lights, post production effects and edits as well
    Scripting, directing and applying sound effects on legal contents.”
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    1 hr 43 min
  • I overcame the lies of sex with the truths of sex

    My on-camera and off-camera values:


    “Healthy Sex requires that these five basic conditions be met:

    Consent, Equality, Respect, Trust, and Safety
    Let's look at each of these conditions more closely:
    CONSENT means you can freely and comfortably choose whether or not to engage in sexual activity. You are able to stop the activity at any time during the sexual contact.
    EQUALITY means your sense of personal power is on an equal level with your partner. Neither of you dominates the other.
    RESPECT means you have positive regard for yourself and for your partner. You feel respected by your partner.
    TRUST means you trust your partner on both a physical and emotional level. You have mutual acceptance of vulnerability and an ability to respond to it with sensitivity.
    SAFETY means you feel secure and safe within the sexual setting. You are comfortable with and assertive about where, when and how the sexual activity takes place. You feel safe from the possibility of harm, such as unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted infection, and physical injury.
    It takes spending time together and engaging in lots of honest, open communication to make sure that the CERTS conditions are operating in your relationship. That's why it is important to build a strong friendship with a partner first, before becoming lovers.
    Meeting the CERTS conditions does not ensure that you'll experience terrific sex, but it can help you feel more secure knowing you've minimized the possibility of something bad resulting from the sexual experience.”


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    1 hr 36 min
  • My public service life
    “In modern developed countries, the term "public services" (or "services of general interest") often includes:[4]
    Courts
    Education
    Electricity
    Emergency services
    Environmental protection
    Health care
    Mail
    Military
    Public buildings
    Public libraries
    Public parks
    Public policy
    Public utilities
    Public transportation
    Social services
    State schools
    Telecommunications
    Transportation infrastructure
    Urban planning
    Waste management
    Water supply network.”
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    30 min
  • I am resting in peace while I am thriving as an alive person!
    "In the United States, the Organized Crime Control Act (1970) defines organized crime as "[t]he unlawful activities of [...] a highly organized, disciplined association [...]".[13] Criminal activity as a structured process is referred to as racketeering. In the UK, police estimate that organized crime involves up to 38,000 people operating in 6,000 various groups.[14] Historically, the largest organized crime force in the United States has been La Cosa Nostra (Italian-American Mafia), but other transnational criminal organizations have also risen in prominence in recent decades.[15] A 2012 article in a U.S. Department of Justice journal stated that: "Since the end of the Cold War, organized crime groups from Russia, China, Italy, Nigeria, and Japan have increased their international presence and worldwide networks or have become involved in more transnational criminal activities. Most of the world's major international organized crime groups are present in the United States."[15] The US Drug Enforcement Administration's 2017 National Drug Threat Assessment classified Mexican transnational criminal organizations (TCOs) as the "greatest criminal drug threat to the United States," citing their dominance "over large regions in Mexico used for the cultivation, production, importation, and transportation of illicit drugs" and identifying the Sinaloa, Jalisco New Generation, Juárez, Gulf, Los Zetas, and Beltrán-Leyva cartels as the six Mexican TCO with the greatest influence in drug trafficking to the United States.[16] The United Nations Sustainable Development Goal 16 has a target to combat all forms of organised crime as part of the 2030 Agenda.[17]." I enjoyed teaching men how to be chivalrous gentleman in the organized crime and thankfully they listened to me and their relationships with women prospered for it and the women thanked me repeatedly for it. My sex drive is too high for me to be with just one person. The Bible is not completely a divine product and not completely the divine word because of the animal abuse and human rights abuses that is condoned in it. There are aspects of religious texts that give me sensory overload also known as overstimulation also known as trauma triggers.
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    1 hr 13 min
  • LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide
    “Who this is for
    Only 5 (ish) percent of LGBTQIA+ students saw any LGBTQIA+ representation in health class.
    This guide is for the 95 percent of students whose many sexual health questions went unanswered in school.
    It’s also for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever wondered:
    “What conversations should I have with a partner before sex?”
    “Is there a risk of pregnancy or STI transmission during [insert sex act here]?”
    “What can I do to make sex even better?”
    “How do I become comfortable with my own body?”
    Or anything else related to sexual health, sexual pleasure, and sexual play.
    If you haven’t already, get to know your body
    “The idea that someone is going to come along and introduce you to out-of-this-world sensations makes good fantasy,” says Andy Duran, queer sex specialist and education director for Good Vibrations. Case in point: the movies “Call Me By Your Name,” “Moonlight,” and “Below Her Mouth.”
    But IRL, nobody can magically deduce what brings you pleasure. “Our partners are best able to pleasure us when we can tell them how to pleasure us,” Duran says.
    That’s why he recommends getting acquainted with your body via body mapping and masturbation.
    Body mapping is the process of becoming familiar with your own body. It’s all about exploring what different parts of your body look, smell, taste, and feel like.
    “This is especially important to queer and trans folks because it allows them to learn the ways they like to be touched that they find most affirming and pleasurable,” Duran says.
    While similar, masturbation is typically more sexual. “It’s a way to learn what brings you pleasure, what helps you orgasm, and what doesn’t do it either,” he says.
    A nonexhaustive list of things your solo sesh might include:
    stimulating your genitals or bum
    dancing erotically
    watching erotic films
    self-massage.” https://www.healthline.com/health/lgbtqia-safe-sex-guide#masturbation
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    1 hr 20 min
  • My single solo polyamory
    “Solo polyamory: Flipping these words around, polyamory is, broadly speaking, one approach to engaging in (or being open to having) ethically nonexclusive relationships involving sex, romance, or deep emotional intimacy. What distinguishes solo poly people is that we generally do not have intimate relationships which involve (or are heading toward) primary-style merging of life infrastructure or identity along the lines of the traditional social relationship escalator. For instance, we generally don’t share a home or finances with any intimate partners. Similarly, solo poly people generally don’t identify very strongly as part of a couple (or triad etc.); we prefer to operate and present ourselves as individuals.
    People can be solo poly by choice or circumstance. That is, some people prefer solo polyamory and are unwilling to strongly merge their identity or life infrastructure with their partners. Others simply happen to be effectively solo: they may desire (or be open to) primary-style relationships in the future, but they just don’t happen to have one at the moment.
    Solo polyamory can be an expression of personal values. People who prefer solo polyamory generally embrace autonomy as a paramount value: their own, and that of others. (This is very much the case for me, but not for all solo poly people.)” link: https://solopoly.net/2014/12/05/what-is-solo-polyamory-my-take/
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    1 hr 24 min
  • My sexual restoration victory and the plight of women in organized crime
    “The Lexico definition of emotion is "A strong feeling deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others."[22] Emotions are responses to significant internal and external events.[23]
    Emotions can be occurrences (e.g., panic) or dispositions (e.g., hostility), and short-lived (e.g., anger) or long-lived (e.g., grief).[24] Psychotherapist Michael C. Graham describes all emotions as existing on a continuum of intensity.[25] Thus fear might range from mild concern to terror or shame might range from simple embarrassment to toxic shame.[26] Emotions have been described as consisting of a coordinated set of responses, which may include verbal, physiological, behavioral, and neural mechanisms.[27]
    Emotions have been categorized, with some relationships existing between emotions and some direct opposites existing. Graham differentiates emotions as functional or dysfunctional and argues all functional emotions have benefits.[28]
    In some uses of the word, emotions are intense feelings that are directed at someone or something.[29] On the other hand, emotion can be used to refer to states that are mild (as in annoyed or content) and to states that are not directed at anything (as in anxiety and depression). One line of research looks at the meaning of the word emotion in everyday language and finds that this usage is rather different from that in academic discourse.[30]
    In practical terms, Joseph LeDoux has defined emotions as the result of a cognitive and conscious process which occurs in response to a body system response to a trigger.[31]”
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    56 min

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Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.