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  • My secular/non-religious life part 2 (final part)
    “The word "emotion" dates back to 1579, when it was adapted from the French word émouvoir, which means "to stir up". The term emotion was introduced into academic discussion as a catch-all term to passions, sentiments and affections.[14] The word "emotion" was coined in the early 1800s by Thomas Brown and it is around the 1830s that the modern concept of emotion first emerged for the English language.[15] "No one felt emotions before about 1830. Instead they felt other things – 'passions', 'accidents of the soul', 'moral sentiments' – and explained them very differently from how we understand emotions today."[15]
    Some cross-cultural studies indicate that the categorization of "emotion" and classification of basic emotions such as "anger" and "sadness" are not universal and that the boundaries and domains of these concepts are categorized differently by all cultures.[16] However, others argue that there are some universal bases of emotions (see Section 6.1).[17] In psychiatry and psychology, an inability to express or perceive emotion is sometimes referred to as alexithymia.[18].”
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    38 min
  • My secular/non-religious life part 1
    “Emotions are mental states brought on by neurophysiological changes, variously associated with thoughts, feelings, behavioral responses, and a degree of pleasure or displeasure.[1][2][3][4] There is currently no scientific consensus on a definition.[5][6] Emotions are often intertwined with mood, temperament, personality, disposition, or creativity.[7]” As a law-abiding, decriminalization type of person, It's okay to do in moderation: "
    Examples of vices include sex-related services (prostitution, strip clubs, sex shops, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nightlife , https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_work, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_industry, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red-light_district, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Index_of_drinking_establishment–related_articles#Types_of_drinking_establishment, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drinking_establishment, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Group_sex, etc.), gambling (casinos, betting shops, etc.), or drug use (alcohol, marijuana, etc. consumption.”)
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    35 min
  • The sexual slavery world was ran by clergy persons (“members of the cloth”.)
    “In Christianity, the specific names and roles of the clergy vary by denomination and there is a wide range of formal and informal clergy positions, including deacons, elders, priests, bishops, preachers, pastors, presbyters, ministers, and the pope.
    In Islam, a religious leader is often known formally or informally as an imam, caliph, qadi, sheikh, mufti, mullah, muezzin, or ayatollah.
    In the Jewish tradition, a religious leader is often a rabbi (teacher) or hazzan (cantor).” “Clergy are formal leaders within established religions. Their roles and functions vary in different religious traditions, but usually involve presiding over specific rituals and teaching their religion's doctrines and practices. Some of the terms used for individual clergy are clergyman, clergywoman, clergyperson, churchman, ecclesiastic, and cleric, while clerk in holy orders has a long history but is rarely used.” Domestic partnerships and civil unions are not bad, but bad for the clergy persons that I was discussing. “A domestic partnership is a relationship, usually between couples, who live together and share a common domestic life, but are not married (to each other or to anyone else). People in domestic partnerships receive legal benefits that guarantee right of survivorship, hospital visitation, and other rights.” “A civil union (also known as a civil partnership) is a legally recognized arrangement similar to marriage, created primarily as a means to provide recognition in law for same-sex couples. Civil unions grant some or all of the rights of marriage (with child adoption being a common exception, and the title itself).” However, I do think that civil unions should provide all of the rights to of marriage. Secular music is good, but bad for the clergy-persons I was discussing. “Gender and sexual diversity (GSD), or simply sexual diversity, refers to all the diversities of sex characteristics, sexual orientations and gender identities, without the need to specify each of the identities, behaviors, or characteristics that form this plurality.” Gender and sexual diversity is beautiful.
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    1 hr 22 min
  • I overcame organized crime, the reckless sex, and Churchianity with excellent help of wise counsel!
    “A different standard may be in order. I’ve heard it called The Platinum Rule (since it is worth more than gold). The Platinum Rule says we should do unto others the way they want us to do unto them. In other words, you have to treat people the way they want to be treated, not the way you want to be treated.”
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    2 hr 37 min
  • Narrative of the life of Antonio Myers: A Child Slave
    “Pimp-controlled trafficking:
    In pimp-controlled trafficking, the victim is controlled by a single trafficker, sometimes called a pimp. The victim can be controlled by the trafficker physically, psychologically, and/or emotionally. To obtain control over their victims, traffickers will use force and, drugs, as well as emotional tactics. In certain circumstances, they will even resort to various forms of violence, such as gang rape and mental and physical abuse. Traffickers sometimes use offers of marriage or modeling careers to obtain victims.[26] Other times they use threats, intimidation, brainwashing and kidnapping.
    Child grooming is commonly used. The trafficker will first gain the trust of the victim, through emotional manipulation.[27] The trafficker may express love and admiration, offer them a job or an education, or buying them a ticket to a new location.[28] The main types of work offered are in the catering and hotel industry, in bars and clubs, modeling contracts, or au pair work. Once the victim becomes comfortable, they may consensually request sexual acts from the victim. The victim, under the guise that they are in a relationship, may oblige. The requests may progress, and the trafficker may reference previous sexual acts in order to normalize the behavior, as well as participating in blackmail, especially when the encounter occurs over the internet. Victims may become trapped due to fears of social ramifications. [27] Although uncommon, there have been reports of victims being kidnapped.[29] Social media has been used to groom and advertise victims.[30]
    After the victim has joined the offender, various techniques are used to restrict the victim's access to communication with home, such as imposing physical punishment unless the victim complies with the trafficker's demands and making threats of harm and even death to the victim and their family.[28] Victims may experience Stockholm syndrome, as captors often manipulate victims into believing they are in a romantic relationship with their captor. [31]
    In India, those who traffic young girls into prostitution are often women who have been trafficked themselves. As adults they use personal relationships and trust in their villages of origin to recruit additional girls.[32] Also, some migrating prostitutes can become victims of human trafficking because the women know they will be working as prostitutes; however, they are given an inaccurate description by their "boss" of the circumstances. Therefore, they consequently get exploited due to their misconception of what conditions to expect of their sex work in the new destination country.[33][34]”
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    2 hr 20 min
  • I support the wholesome version of the pro-hoe movement that I am apart of
    “​In 2015 the first national survey of adult survivors of clergy perpetrated sexual abuse was conducted (March-May 2015). 280 survivors participated in the study. We are so grateful to the courageous survivors who agreed to participate. This project was directed by David Pooler, Ph.D., LCSW. Below you will find a summary of some of the salient findings.
    65% of survivors were married
    88% of perpetrators were married
    Only 4% of perpetrators were prosecuted
    Only 8% Agree or Strongly Agree that their church supported them after the abuse occurred
    8% Agree or Strongly Agree that the perpetrator apologized to them
    50% Agree or Strongly Agree that their experience with the church after the abuse negatively affected their relationship with God
    80% Agree or Strongly Agree that their experience with the church after the abuse negatively affected their spiritual life
    7% Agree or Strongly Agree that their church had a policy in place to help support them
    9% Agree or Strongly Agree the church was helpful when they reported the abuse
    15% Agree or Strongly Agree that their church/denomination thoroughly investigated the report.” By the way, us wholesome hoes are queer-positive, body-positive, and trans-positive.
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    1 hr 52 min
  • My body types preferences

    “Mesomorph: Those with this body type gain weight more easily than ectomorphs and generally find it easier to lose weight than endomorphs. They have a muscular and athletic build with a medium-sized frame.

    Endomorph: This describes a rounded build with a larger waist size, bigger bones, and a large frame. People with this body type generally gain weight easily, and without exercise, the weight tends to be fatter than muscle.”


    “Hourglass body shape attributes:

    Your hips and shoulders are almost the exact width.
    You have rounded and tilted shoulders.
    You have a reasonably-defined waistline.
    Your buttocks are relatively rounded.
    Your lower hips are vaster than your high hips.
    Your thighs are full but slimmer than the lower hips.
    Hourglass body shapes attain weight through the hips and beyond the waist."


    "Pear body shape attributes:

    Your hips are broader than your shoulders.
    You have rounded slanted shoulders.
    You have a well-defined abdomen.
    Your buttocks and thighs are well-rounded and full.
    Pear body shapes accumulate weight on their thighs.”


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    1 hr 13 min
  • LGBTQIA+=ME
    “Allosexual
    A word and category describing those who experience sexual attraction. Use of this term helps normalize the experience of people on the asexual spectrum and provides a more specific label to describe those who aren’t part of the asexual community.
    Allosexism
    This refers to norms, stereotypes, and practices in society that operate under the assumption that all human beings experience, or should experience, sexual attraction.
    Allosexism grants privilege to those who experience attraction and leads to prejudice against and erasure of asexual people.
    Androsexual
    A term used to communicate sexual or romantic attraction to men, males, or masculinity. This term intentionally includes attraction to those who identify as men, male, or masculine, regardless of biology, anatomy, or sex assigned at birth.
    Asexual
    Someone who identifies as a member of the asexual community experiences little or no sexual attraction to others of any gender. Asexuality is a broad spectrum. People who identify as asexual may also identify with one or more other terms that can more specifically capture their relationship to sexual attraction.
    Also referred to as “aces,” some people who are asexual do experience romantic attraction to people of one or multiple genders. Some asexual people may also engage in sexual activity.
    Aromantic
    A romantic orientation that describes people who experience little or no romantic attraction, regardless of sex or gender.” “Gynesexual
    A term used to communicate sexual or romantic attraction to women, females, or femininity.
    This term intentionally includes attraction to those who identify as women, female, or feminine regardless of biology, anatomy, or the sex assigned at birth.”
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    1 hr 13 min
  • All of the wise reasons why I want to enter the adult industry a.k.a. adult entertainment

    “As a performer, I will be prepared, professional, and educated in the following ways:

    I will show up on time for my shoot.
    I will be prepared for my shoot, which includes, but is not limited to, being clean, knowing my lines, and having the necessary wardrobe or anything else that you personally require in order to complete a successful day at work.
    I will be educated and compliant with the sexual health protocols of the studio I am working for.
    I will check to be sure that I, and my scene partners, have the same understanding of STD protocols and performer health on set.
    I will not be under the influence of illicit drugs or alcohol.
    I will ask my scene partner their boundaries prior to performing and respect those boundaries throughout the work day.
    I will discuss my limits with my scene partner and director prior to performing and acknowledge and respect my limits while performing.
    I will be aware of how my choices outside of work affect my fellow performers. This includes but is not limited to how I protect myself during personal sexual relations and how I take care of my body, health, and hygiene.
    I will be respectful to all people in regard to race, gender, and sexual orientation on set.
    I will have a good-natured and welcoming attitude, particularly when new or inexperienced performers are on set.
    I will work toward a community of educated and unified performers.”

    "As a performer, I am entitled to the following rights:

    Prior to a shoot (At least a day prior)

    • I have the right to know the content of the shoot, the people I will be performing with, the expected shoot length, and the proposed pay. I am not required to perform acts not agreed upon prior to my arrival at work. Pressured negotiations and unexpected changes are not acceptable. (In the event of same-day talent cancellations, notify all other talent and ensure new talent are comfortable working together).
    • I have the right to decline, in a professional manner, to perform any professional requested sexual act I don’t feel comfortable with!
    • I have the right to specify my preferred method of protection against STDs, knowing that studios may not comply and that accepting a scene is ultimately my decision.
    • I have the right to be heard when I have concerns or questions about any part of a scene or work day.
    • I have the right not to be pressured to perform sexual acts off camera at any time before, during, or after the shoot.
    • During a shoot

      • I have the right to be treated with respect as a hired professional at all times on set.
      • I have the right to studio-provided water on set. I also have the right to studio-provided snacks if the shoot is expected to last up to 6 hours. If the shoot is expected to last more than 6 hours, a reasonable quality studio-provided meal is recommended.
      • I have the right to request that my scene partner follow the same STI safety protocols that I am comfortable with.
      • I have the right to work only with performers that follow the safety protocols that I choose to follow for myself.
      • I have the right to set-provided lubricant, enemas, douches, baby wipes, and condoms (if applicable).
      • I have the right to decline or agree to any sexual act proposed to me, before or during a scene, even if I previously decided to decline or agree to said sexual act. I am aware that if the choice was previously expressed before the shoot day, then the producer/director has the right to cancel the scene if it does not coincide with their expectations.
      • I have the right to call off a scene if health problems arise that would put my fellow scene partner or others on set at risk.
      • I have the right to access of the on-set blood-borne pathogen plan or someone who is knowledgeable about the on-set blood-borne pathogen plan.
      • I have the right to vocalize any concerns about my health and safety on set and have all reasonable remedies carried out.
      • I have the right to stop the scene and check in with the director if I feel uncomfortable or distressed."

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        1 hr 19 min
      • (Saturday, April 1st, 2023) full episode ; Surviving Pre-Covid 19 Church!
        “The doctrine of human rights has been highly influential within international law and global and regional institutions.[3] Actions by states and non-governmental organizations form a basis of public policy worldwide. The idea of human rights suggests that "if the public discourse of peacetime global society can be said to have a common moral language, it is that of human rights".[7]. The strong claims made by the doctrine of human rights continue to provoke considerable skepticism and debates about the content, nature, and justifications of human rights to this day. The precise meaning of the term right is controversial and is the subject of continued philosophical debate;[8]while there is consensus that human rights encompass a wide variety of rights[5] such as the right to a fair trial, protection against enslavement, prohibition of genocide, free speech[9] or a right to education, there is disagreement about which of these particular rights should be included within the general framework of human rights;[1] some thinkers suggest that human rights should be a minimum requirement to avoid the worst-case abuses, while others see it as a higher standard.[1][10]”
        To me, revelations are about nuggets of wisdom. I am unchurched, non-churched, and de-churched, however, whenever inner beauty is…is my metaphorical church (non-religiously speaking.) There will be believers and theists who will dedicate their rest of their lives to specializing in loving me and there will be nonbelievers and unbelievers who will dedicate the rest of their lives to specializing in loving me. Atheists are a major reason why I never attempted suicide as a child and as an adult. I refuse to ascribe to any theology any ideology, any operations, and any situations that cling to discriminatory traditions, discriminatory policies, discriminatory roles, discriminatory stereotypes, discriminatory caricatures, discriminatory misrepresentations, discriminatory misdirections, discriminatory misdepictions, discriminatory misportrayals, discriminatory ideas, discriminatory practices, and discriminatory laws. I notice that there are Trump-supporting hosts in religious television networks which is awful and the church’s silence on this is one of the reasons why I left the church buildings. I’m thankful that I get to be a parental figure and marital figure to billions of people around the world. I don’t mind overnight stays with people I trust quite strongly.
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        2 hr 33 min

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      Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.