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  • The perfect summarization of the rest of my views on the ethics of the adult entertainment industry

    “Ethical Porn Sources

    Finally, I’m going to leave you with a few suggestions of trustworthy ethical porn websites for your enjoyment:
    Bellesa.co (free) - Described as “made by women, for anyone of any gender who wants to watch something real”, Bellesa is a great go-to feminist website for pornography, erotica, sex toys, and more.
    Royal Fetish Films ($) - Jet Setting Jasmine and her partner King Noire saw a need for better representation of Black and brown sexuality in the adult entertainment industry, so they created a safe space for not only performers but also viewers to feel more comfortable experimenting and exploring their sexualities while challenging harmful narratives in mainstream pornography.
    MVTube (free) - MVTube, a subsection of ManyVids, offers free content which creators have agreed to be featured. Performers are paid per views and the platform allows them to gain exposure and find potential long-term customers.
    XConfessions ($) - The creator, Erika Lust, is a feminist adult filmmaker. The concept behind XConfessions is to turn viewer submissions into erotic short films, so it makes for genuine and always exciting storylines.
    Make Love Not Porn ($) - Their focus is authentic, real sex - challenging traditional tropes and scripts in pornography, Make Love Not Porn wants to provide “#RealWorldSex in all its glorious, silly, beautiful, messy, reassuring humanness”.
    OnlyFans ($) - Because content is self-produced, OnlyFans is a great source for mature content consumption on the creators’ terms. Performers set their own prices and only go as far as they’re comfortable going.”

    After a shoot

    • I have the right to be paid my agreed-upon fees according to the company’s usual method of payment.
    • I have the right not to have to make repeated demands for payment, nor will I have payments unreasonably withheld from me." (https://apacommittee.org/performer-bill-of-rights/#:~:text=The%20Performer%20Bill%20of%20Rights%20details%20what%20performers,are%20conducive%20to%20mental%2C%20emotional%2C%20and%20physical%20health.)



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      1 hr 4 min
    • The perfect summarization of all of the rest of my views on religion (Christlikeness means human rights & non-human rights.) It is alright to fight for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness!!!!!

      “Human rights are moral principles or norms[1] for certain standards of human behavior and are regularly protected in municipal and international law.[2][citation not found] They are commonly understood as inalienable,[3] fundamental rights "to which a person is inherently entitled simply because she or he is a human being"[4] and which are "inherent in all human beings",[5] regardless of their age, ethnic origin, location, language, religion, ethnicity, or any other status.[3] They are applicable everywhere and at every time in the sense of being universal,[1] and they are egalitarian in the sense of being the same for everyone.[3] They are regarded as requiring empathy and the rule of law[6] and imposing an obligation on persons to respect the human rights of others,[1][3] and it is generally considered that they should not be taken away except as a result of due process based on specific circumstances.[3]”


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      44 min
    • The perfect summarization of the ending of my forced time within organized crime
      “Elite group – led by a Pakhan ("Boss") who is involved in management, organization, and ideology. This is the highest group that controls both the support group and the security group.
      Security group – led by one of Pakhan's spies. His job is to make sure the organization keeps running, keeps the peace between the organizations and other criminal groups, and paying off the right people. This group works with the Elite group and is equal in power with the Support groups. Is in charge of security and in intelligence.
      Support group – led by one of Pakhan's spies. His job is to watch over the working unit, and collect money while supervising their criminal activities. This group works with the Elite group and is equal in power with the Security group. They plan a specific crime for a specialized group or choose who carries out the operation.
      Working Unit – There are four Brigadiers running criminal activity in the working unit, each controlling a Brigade. This is the lowest group working with only the Support group. The group is involved in burglars, thieves, prostitution, extortion, street gangs, and other crimes.” I have seen crooked lawyers, and crooked attorneys endure lengthy prison sentences. Sometimes, my child self sees myself as a human rights Christian. Other times, my child self sees myself as a religious Christian.
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      49 min
    • Collapsed sexual boundaries and rigid sexual boundaries (the perfect summarization of the rest of my views on sex and sexuality)
      Apply all of these boundaries to sex: “HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
      You can say no or yes, and you are ok when others say no to you.
      You have a strong sense of identity. You respect yourself.
      You expect reciprocity in a relationship-you sharing responsibility and power.
      You know when the problem is yours and when it belongs to someone else.
      You share personal information gradually in a mutually shared/trusting relationship.
      You don’t tolerate abuse or disrespect.
      You know your own wants, needs, and feelings. You communicate them clearly in your relationships.
      You are committed to and responsible for exploring and nurturing your full potential.
      You are responsible for your own happiness and fulfillment. You allow others to be responsible for their own happiness and fulfillment.
      You value your opinions and feelings as much as others.
      You know your limits. You allow others to define their limits.
      You are able to ask for help when you need it.
      You don’t compromise your values or integrity to avoid rejection.”
      Compassionate sexual indulgence and compassionate sexual refrainment are both essential parts of heathy eroticism and healthy sensuality. Women do need oral stimulation for ejaculatory pleasure because penetration is not good enough. Don’t sleep with anyone who cruelly clowns your oral performance, anal performance, vaginal performance, penetrative sex performance, foreplay performance, and non-penetrative sex performance.
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      42 min
    • The official, confirmed, finale of my episodes on organized crime, religion, and sex
      “Humanitarian aid is material and logistic assistance to people who need help. It is usually short-term help until the long-term help by the government and other institutions replaces it. Among the people in need are the homeless, refugees, and victims of natural disasters, wars, and famines. Humanitarian relief efforts are provided for humanitarian purposes and include natural disasters and man-made disasters. The primary objective of humanitarian aid is to save lives, alleviate suffering, and maintain human dignity. It may, therefore, be distinguished from development aid, which seeks to address the underlying socioeconomic factors which may have led to a crisis or emergency. There is a debate on linking humanitarian aid and development efforts, which was reinforced by the World Humanitarian Summit in 2016. However, the conflation is viewed critically by practitioners.[1]”
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      51 min
    • Racist stereotypes of BIPOC (black, indigenous, people of color) in numerous mainstream porn films and I am a religious cult survivor-thriver!

      These racist stereotypes below are in so many mainstream porn productions:

      “The first major displays of stereotypes of African Americans were minstrel shows, beginning in the nineteenth century, they used White actors who were dressed in blackface and attire which was supposedly worn by African-Americans in order to lampoon and disparage blacks. Some nineteenth century stereotypes, such as the sambo, are now considered to be derogatory and racist. The "Mandingo" and "Jezebel" stereotypes sexualizes African-Americans as hypersexual. The Mammy archetype depicts a motherly black woman who is dedicated to her role working for a white family, a stereotype which dates back to Southern plantations. African-Americans are often stereotyped to have an unusual appetite for fried chicken, watermelon, and grape drink.

      In the 1980s and following decades, emerging stereotypes of black men depicted them as criminals and social degenerates; drug dealers, crack addicts, hobos, and subway muggers.[1] Jesse Jackson said the media portrays black people as less intelligent.[2] The magical Negro is a stock character who is depicted as having special insight or powers, and has been depicted (and criticized) in American cinema.[3] In recent history, Black men are stereotyped to be deadbeat fathers.[4] African American men are also stereotyped as criminal and dangerous.[5] African American are often stereotyped as hypersexual, athletic, uncivilized, uneducated and violent. Young urban African American men are often labelled as “gangsters” or “players.[6][7]
      Stereotypes of black women include being depicted as welfare queens or as angry black women who are loud, aggressive, demanding, and rude.[8]
      African Americans are stereotyped to be lazy, criminal, be good at sports, have babies out of wedlock, live on welfare and have great rhythm.[9]”


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      1 hr 23 min
    • Porn’s hard truths
      “Ethical porn may include any genre, style, form, depiction, and tenor of sexual media — as long as said sexual media is created ethically.
      Speaking generally, ethical actions strive to be fair, equitable, and just for all parties involved. As such, behaving in an ethical manner requires acting in accordance with standards that, though pragmatically flexible, actively and implicitly seek to achieve fair, equitable, and just ends. Or, put simply, ethical actions always try.
      Based on the diversity of human experiences throughout history, what constitutes fair, equitable, and just ends is highly subjective. As such, ethical actions vary by era, community, subculture, and more. Within the context of contemporary sexual media today, ethical porn requires consent, disclosure, and compliance with professional adult content production community standards and the Model Bill of Rights outlined by the Adult Performer Advocacy Committee (APAC) and The Free Speech Coalition’s (FSC) Code of Ethics and PASS.
      What is ethical porn?
      At its most essential, adult content that is consensual and transparent, is created in an environment that emphasizes safety and respect, and does not contribute to wider social inequalities via troublesome post-production marketing is ethical. Elements like tenor and intensity, sex acts being depicted, or production value do not preclude content from being ethical. Beyond these key dimensions however are a wealth of subjective issues, standpoints, and concerns that require multidimensional, evolving dialogue. Ethical.Porn is committed to exploring these issues with this groundwork in mind.
      Though the concept of ethical porn does not discount or discredit amateur, personal, and/or developmental content, ethical porn mandates a level professionalism outlined by these entities and aforementioned parameters.
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      For the sake of clarity, these concepts are defined below:
      Genre — a category of artistic composition, as in music or literature or film, characterized by similarities in form, style, or subject matter.
      Film styles are recognizable film techniques used by filmmakers that add flair or character to a project. A film’s style can include all aspects of sound, mise-en-scene, dialogue, cinematography, attitude, and more.
      Form — film, clip, live show, written, etc
      Depiction — sex act
      Tenor — intensity.” “What is Ethical Porn?
      Currently there doesn’t seem to be a consensus on the definition of ethical porn. That’s not surprising considering “ethics” are subjective. Moral codes and ethics can vary among different cultures and even from person to person within the same culture.
      Perhaps an easier way to approach defining what ethical porn means would be to explore some of the elements that are commonly cited as criteria for ethical porn.
      Actors are consensual participants:
      They are at least 18 years old,
      Their judgment is not impaired by drugs or alcohol,
      They are Not forced directly (e.g., physical threats of abuse, sex trafficking) or indirectly (e.g., mental health, substance addiction or financial distress), and
      They use prophylactics (because STI status can’t be guaranteed to be 100% accurate at the time of filming due to challenges with testing windows and results, informed consent about STI risk is compromised unless prophylactics are used).
      Actors are treated with respect:
      They are fairly compensated,
      They perform under reasonable work conditions (e.g., no 10-hour-a-day, 5-day shoots),
      Productions adhere to medical safety standards (e.g., STI testing, bondage best practices), and
      Sexual boundaries are protected (e.g., actors are not pressured to do anal or other acts if they don’t want to).” I have no problems with surgeries and procedures.
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      4 hr 29 min
    • If my life depended on it, I’d rather have the Human Rights God than the Biblical God
      “The Dimensional Perspective
      Here is a hypothetical profile, in terms of the five-factor model of personality, for Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder (speculatively constructed from McCrae, 1994, pg. 306):
      High Neuroticism
      Chronic negative affects, including anxiety, fearfulness, tension, irritability, anger, dejection, hopelessness, guilt, shame; difficulty in inhibiting impulses: for example, to eat, drink, or spend money; irrational beliefs: for example, unrealistic expectations, perfectionistic demands on self, unwarranted pessimism; unfounded somatic concerns; helplessness and dependence on others for emotional support and decision making.
      High Extraversion
      Excessive talking, leading to inappropriate self-disclosure and social friction; inability to spend time alone; attention seeking and overly dramatic expression of emotions; reckless excitement seeking; inappropriate attempts to dominate and control others.
      Low Openness
      Difficulty adapting to social or personal change; low tolerance or understanding of different points of view or lifestyles; emotional blandness and inability to understand and verbalize own feelings; alexythymia; constricted range of interests; insensitivity to art and beauty; excessive conformity to authority.
      Low Agreeableness
      Cynicism and paranoid thinking; inability to trust even friends or family; quarrelsomeness; too ready to pick fights; exploitive and manipulative; lying; rude and inconsiderate manner alienates friends, limits social support; lack of respect for social conventions can lead to troubles with the law; inflated and grandiose sense of self; arrogance.
      High Conscientiousness
      Overachievement: workaholic absorption in job or cause to the exclusion of family, social, and personal interests; compulsiveness, including excessive cleanliness, tidiness, and attention to detail; rigid self-discipline and an inability to set tasks aside and relax; lack of spontaneity; overscrupulousness in moral behavior.”
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      1 hr 8 min
    • I reject the personality disorders imagery of God
      “Cluster A: These personality disorders are characterized by eccentric behavior and include the following: paranoid, schizoid, and schizotypal. “Cluster A personality disorders are the least common,” Hollon says.
      Cluster B: These personality disorders are characterized by behavior that appears dramatic, erratic, or emotional. Cluster B includes antisocial, borderline, histrionic, and narcissistic personality disorders. “Someone who has one of these really stands out,” Hollon explains. "A person with a cluster B personality disorder can appear unstable and behave aggressively to others."
      Cluster C: Those with a cluster C personality disorder can appear anxious or fearful. This cluster includes avoidant, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive personality disorders. ² These personality disorders are the most common,” Hollon says. “Up to 15% of people may have one of the cluster C disorders.” However, people suffering from cluster C disorders are less overtly disruptive in their relationships, and may go undiagnosed because of this.”
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      51 min
    • I sexually slowed my life down, I no longer live sexually too fast!
      In my childhood, The Mexican drug cartels lived by the same rules as The Mexican Mafia: “Rules
      The rules of conduct are:
      A member may not be an informant.
      A member may not be a coward.
      A member may not raise a hand against another member without approval from the higher-ups and leaders.
      A member must not show disrespect for any member's family, including sex with another member's wife, or girlfriend.
      A member must not steal from another member.
      A member may not be a homosexual, sex offender, child killer, child molester, or rapist.
      A member must not politic against another member or cause dissension within the organization.
      Membership is for life; the only way out is death.
      Retaliation must be carried out if anyone crosses La eMe a.k.a The Mexican Mafia, with no exceptions.
      Vendetta must be carried out, even if it takes months, years, or decades.
      If a member of La eMe gets harmed or killed by someone else such as police, or another criminal gang, retaliation must be immediate and must be swift, brutal, and deadly.
      It's mandatory to assault/kills all dropouts and traitors.
      La eMe comes first. Even before your own family, religion, and God.
      A member must not interfere with another member's business activities.
      A member must never harm children.
      A member must always treat another member's family with respect and kindness.
      A member must protect another member from harm.
      A member must treat another member like a brother.[24].” I never was recruited by the Mexican Mafia thankfully even though I met them briefly a few times. We behaved nicely to each other each time we were in each other’s presence. They were one of the groups of people who helped push me out of organized crime because of their harm-no-children clause. They successfully worked with DMV (D.C., Maryland, Virginia) criminals to get me pushed out of the Italian Mafia and the Mexican drug cartels, and all the organized crime syndicates that I was forced to be in. The Mexican Mafia would do criminalistic business with the drug cartels sometimes. At first, they assumed the drug cartels were my extended family members. They asked me why I was around the drug cartels due to their suspicions after hearing the drug cartels’ criminalistic coded languages over their cellular phones. They were mad 😠 😡 at the drug cartels after I told them the entire truth about why I was with the drug cartels. My final encounter with The Mexican Mafia happened a week before I was pushed out of organized crime. After I was out of organized crime, The streets told me that drug cartels and the Mexican Mafia engaged in murderous violence against each other numerous times because the drug cartels had me “work” for them. The streets said that the Mexican Mafia were “the winners”.
      Girls and women were not used to a male like me sincerely making amends with them and sincerely apologizing to them. They expressed enthusiastic appreciation for my doing those things. I did those things often because of the widespread misogyny, widespread female misogynists, the widespread internalized misogyny, and internalized queerphobia.
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      1 hr 33 min

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    Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.