Torrid Souls

Here's a wayback-playback for you! Recorded about 18 months prior to this, this dose of Torrid Souls is the perfect follow-up to our last episode where we talked about your sexual wiring and how to feed that to have even better sex! In this episode, we recap the spontaneous and completely satisfying playtime we had at a private birthday party in a Victorian Mansion in Toronto. In typical Torrid Souls style, we recap the successes, the morning after. Join us in bed as we recount our encounter with a single guy we nicknamed Mr. Hips. We met Mr. Hips at the party that night, and several hours of fun and many orgasms later, we were the last people to leave the party (somewhere around 4 am)! What we didn't know then was that we were describing our satisfaction with this play-session through what we now know as our sexual wiring. You'll get to to hear why the whole experience was such a total turn-on for Tori, as an Energetic, and how Soul, as a Sensual & a Sexual, enjoyed one mind-blowing orgasm after another. If you haven't yet listened to EP21- VIN2020: Tell Me What You Want. What You Really, Really Want, go find out what we're talking about. Knowing your own sexual wiring and how to feed how others are wired is what makes sex for you, and them, even better. Our Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, features a book called "White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism" We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode. The workshop we did in Episode 21 was at Valentine's in Niagara 2020. 2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021 TorridSouls.com/vin Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya! Like Podcasters? Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida. This event, that was supposed to happen already, has been postponed due to COVID. It has been rescheduled for Oct 9-12, 2020. TorridSouls.com/PCAP Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation? Consider using our links. It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services links at TorridSouls.com/recommend

Our listeners already know that we are pretty clear about finding (and getting) what we want in the lifestyle so join us for this episode, recorded in front of a live audience at Valentine's in Niagara. Have even better sex. Get what you really, really want. Yes!.. Yes!.. Yes! Come and get it - the answer is in this episode. Getting what you want is based on your wiring, and in this episode you'll not only discover what your pattern is (with a quick and easy quiz), you'll also learn how to feed that pattern (and your partner's too). Wait! there's more. Good news... once you know what you want, you can get it! Check us out this VIN2020 episode and learn how to get what you really, really want. Come get yourself some muy sexy results. Resources from this episode: Take the online Erotic Blueprint Quiz: TorridSouls.com/blueprint Meet our Cannabis Sensuality Coach, Carli-Jo and sign up for her free mini-course about how to thrive in isolation with your partner: TorridSouls.com/coach Our new segment is called Torrid Souls' Sexy Smart Bookshelf, and this episode features a book called "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking" We've partnered with Audible to allow you to download it as an audiobook for free: TorridSouls.com/book Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode. This episode is a recording we did at Valentine's in Niagara 2020. 2021 is now open for registration, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 5-7, 2021 TorridSouls.com/vin Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya! Like Podcasters? Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza in Miami, Florida. This event, that was supposed to happen already, has been postponed due to COVID. It has been rescheduled for Oct 9-12, 2020. TorridSouls.com/PCAP Thinking of going to Desire or Temptation? Consider using our links. It doesn't cost you any more and helps to support the podcast. TorridSouls.com/desire TorridSouls.com/temptation Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services TorridSouls.com/recommend

It's our 1st anniversary episode. The 1st anniversary of our podcast, and our 1st wedding anniversary too! In this episode we're at Temptation Cancun Resort: the one-of-a-kind playground for grown-ups - one of our favourite places to play. We're booked into the resort for 10 nights, and we spend 3, of the last 4 nights, with the same guy! It's a first for us. Let's call it a spontaneous repeat-worthy experience. Yes, he was that good! So it's the morning after session #3. We're fuck-drunk and still in bed! A perfect time to record... right?... Yes! So we did. This is a feel-good-filled-with-an-insanely-sexy-amount-of-fun episode. Listen in as we tell you all about our spicy and adventurous Temptation Experience! Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode. Valentine's will be here before you know it, so why not join us for a little Canadian indoor tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 7-9, 2019 TorridSouls.com/vin Just let them know if your registration notes that we sent ya! Like Podcasters? Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza. There are a whole bunch of us getting together with our fabulous listeners in Miami May 15-18, 2020 to take over a hotel and as Sapphic Swingers like to say "to Fuck Shit Up" TorridSouls.com/PCAP Register for Naughty in N'awlins July 8-12, 2020 and come party with us! TorridSouls.com/nin Swim the day (who are we kidding -- float and drink) and dance the night away with us at Temptation Cancun Oct 9-19, 2019 TorridSouls.com/temptation Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon or through following any of our Recommended Products and Services TorridSouls.com/recommend

In this episode we're in San Diego, California. We make plans to meet up with a hot, single guy. Great profile. Fabulous reviews on Kasidie - the online adult community for sexually adventurous people. We text back and forth for days. Excitement builds. We set the day, the time, the place. "Let's meet for drinks." We keep in touch, even on that day. Now we're getting ready. The phone dings. It's him! (It's also 30 minutes before we agreed to meet.) "Sorry, I made other plans."................ WTF!!! Did we just get dumped? Who does this? Why? No one enjoys rejection and Tori is hit hard by this. This time it's Soul to the emotional rescue. Find out how we still rise from the ashes of rejection by working through the raw emotions it brings up. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls Leave us a review, and we will read it on an upcoming episode. Valentine's will be here before you know it, so join us for a Canadian (indoor) tropical weekend at Valentine's in Niagara Feb 7-9, 2019 TorridSouls.com/vin Let them know in your registration notes that we sent ya! Do ya like Podcasters? Then you'll LOVE Podcast-a-Palooza. A whole bunch of us podcasters are getting together with our funky listeners in Miami,May 15-18, 2020. We gonna take over a hotel (as Sapphic Swingers like to say) "To Fuck Shit Up" TorridSouls.com/PCAP Register for Naughty in N'awlins July 8-12, 2020 and come party with us! TorridSouls.com/nin Swim all day (who are we kidding ...float and drink) and dance the night away with us at Temptation Cancun Oct 9-19, 2019 TorridSouls.com/temptation Join us and 6000 other open-minded sexies on the biggest swingers cruise ever, on The Bliss Cruise, Nov 14-21 2021 TorridSouls.com/bliss Support our podcast through our Patreon page TorridSouls.com/patreon or try any of our Recommended Products and Services at TorridSouls.com/recommend

Toronto, with its 5 lifestyle clubs in the area, is the sex club capital of North America. In this episode we chose The O Zone as the place to be. The perfect place to go to dance the night away or be sexy (or both). On this night we explore a few "firsts". It was our debut of taking a date to a club - checking in as a trio - and tune in for a few other more intimate, sexy firsts. We take you for a tour through our favourite Toronto area nightclub-style lifestyle club, and share our adventures with our repeat-worthy playfriend, Batman! Buckle up, as we share more sexy details than you have normally found in our episodes. Our discussion that stems from this experience is all about asking for what you want ... 'cause, you just might get it! To learn more about each club in Toronto, check out the blog post by our very good friends at The Monogamish Marriage Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode. Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us! TorridSouls.com/nin

Your discovery of the lifestyle likely happened at the intersection of someone in the relationship being curious enough, and brave enough to bring up the topic of exploring sexuality in a new way. They now feel comfortable enough to share their desires. The tricky part is that as individuals, we will also have a list of desires that are as unique as we are. And, if the adage, "opposites attract", is true in your relationships, how easily does this further complicate things? You love your partner, so how do you navigate their interests when what they want may not be of interest to you? How do you support your partner with something that is on the top of their list when it isn't even on your list? In this episode Tori & Soul are having another CarTalk. This time it's about promiscuity and drinking and fantasies, and having your partner support it all. Here goes another emotional discussion, when one person is, clearly, more highly charged, and the other is more rational. We wanted to share this discussion so that others could hear a demonstration of how partners can support one another, in their lifestyle journey, as they open up and uncovering what truly pleases them. Listen and discover how to embrace the understanding that, "what one person does, really has nothing to do the the other person" - which is the opposite of what many people are taught to believe about relationships. Supporting your partner (while having established agreements about behaviours in place) is more likely to bring you closer to each other, rather than weakening your connection - the opposite to what people often fear.

Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us! TorridSouls.com/nin

Here it is!... the everything you didn't know you wanted to know about being bisexual in the lifestyle. Find out what it's really like from the perspective of a bi guy, a bi gal and as a bi couple. Join us for our first-ever interview as we meet up with the intelligent and eloquent Jamal, from The Everything Sexy Show and The 2nd Cuming Show. Jamal is a rarity - an openly bisexual man in the lifestyle. He talks with us about what's so amazing about being a bi guy, as well as his challenges. We talk DP, DVP, consent, and what else to do when you can't get it up. Also, find out just what a bi gal would possibly have as a fantasy.

Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us! TorridSouls.com/nin

The skill of finding play partners, what do you look for? Is it physical attraction? Is it mental? Emotional? Do need to get to know others? Do you play and never repeat? Do you prefer established partners. In the lifestyle, just like in life, there are a variety of vibes and tribes. It may seem silly, and obvious, to say this... and it is an obvious truth. You may think everyone is in it for the same thing. We are... aaand we're not. You will meet some people that you jive with, and just as often, you will encounter those who don't. People will approach you strictly interested in the physical activity of sex - for them it may be all about getting as much as possible. Some people will think this is awesome, while others could be offended by the quick assessment and decision to play or not to play. You will also meet people who take time getting to know you, before getting to the point of having sex. Being approached by someone who does not match your vibe can be quite discouraging. In this episode we will chat about the importance of knowing that, even here, in the lifestyle, you will need to find those you resonate with. Listen in and discover how you can be less discouraged and offended, and much more successful when finding others to play with. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls Register for Naughty in N'awlins 2020 and come party with us! TorridSouls.com/nin

Some consider "cougar" a derogatory term. It's ageist. It's sexist and there's just something slightly tacky about it that many women don't want that label attached to them. Typically, a cougar is defined as an older woman who is primarily attracted to, and may have a sexual relationship with, significantly younger men. In general, the woman is 35 years or older, the man is more than eight years her junior. Cougars were most often described as "desperate", "aggressive" and/or "predators". Well all this uneasiness is shifting. Some younger men get a sexual high from a hottie who is independent, experienced, sexually confident, knows herself and what she likes. Some women are interested in the excitement, energy and enthusiasm of a younger guy who is playful and adventurous and can go all night long. In this episode we challenge ourselves (and the social norms about age and sexuality) as we embrace the new empowered flavour of this term. And since we do play with younger men, we decided to try something new - attending an organized event that specifically pays tribute to the beauty and sex appeal of women, and the younger men who enjoy this dynamic. Join us as we join in the Cougars & Cubs Event, a special edition of Oasis Agualounge's under 35 Sass After Class themed Monday nights. WARNING: Avoid operating machinery while listening to this episode. There is a potential safety hazard due to excessive laughter. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls

Valentines In Niagara aka VIN, is the largest lifestyle event of it's kind in Canada. TABOTA Events has been offering this to couples for over 10 years. Hundreds of couples, all with the same mindset of wanting to explore the naughty side of their sexuality. Picture this: a complete hotel takeover in the romance capital of Canada. A weekend of socializing, seminars, workshops, themed dances and pool parties. Oh my! In this episode we record a live podcast and this is a unique opportunity to hear what happens when podcasters, Penn & Paige, of Swinger Diaries; bloggers, Her & Him (Kate & Mike) from Monogamish Marriage, and a few lucky listeners come up to our hotel room - Room 369 to answer the question, "What surprised you when you entered the lifestyle?" We talk about podcasting, the talents of squirting, surprise compersion, the most common fantasy of hetero men. Find out why she said, "Yeah. Go baby. Give it to her hard!" and why you'll never think about Niagara Falls the same way ever again. Never! But first, we give you an update on the latest of what happened when we were denied entrance (as a couple) to Desire Resorts, Riviera Maya. Click play and come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. [email protected] 1-647-547-5512 Twitter, Instagram & Reddit @TorridSouls We have tons of Lifestyle travel planned, and YOU can join us! Come party with Torrid Souls! Use this link to see our travel schedule and to join us: TorridSouls.com/travel Leave us a review, and we will read it in an upcoming episode.