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Planning a wedding and feeling overwhelmed? This episode is a must-listen.

In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we sit down with Hollie from Hollie B Events, an award-nominated wedding planner, to uncover what really happens behind the scenes of weddings.

From last minute disasters to the truth about DIY weddings, Hollie shares insider secrets, real stories, and practical advice that could save your entire wedding day.

Whether you're newly engaged or deep into planning, this episode will completely change how you approach your wedding.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why most couples underestimate wedding planning
• The #1 mistake couples make with suppliers
• What actually goes wrong at weddings
• DIY weddings: are they worth it?
• Venue coordinators vs wedding planners
• Hollie’s “hold hands” rule for your big day
• Wedding horror stories & real-life lessons

Key takeaway:
The right planning, people, and preparation can make or break your wedding day.

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In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Marcus and Nathan from Your Singing Waiters, one of the UK’s most experienced wedding entertainment acts with over 20 years in the industry.

Marcus and Nathan reveal how the famous “singing waiters” concept works at weddings and why it has become one of the most memorable entertainment choices for modern couples. From surprise performances during the wedding breakfast to hilarious staged arguments, fake cake drops and even police interruptions, they share how the element of surprise turns an ordinary reception into an unforgettable moment.

The conversation dives into how the act first started, how the team pulls off the illusion by blending in with venue staff, and the acting skills required to make guests truly believe the chaos unfolding in front of them is real. With hundreds of weddings under their belts, they also share incredible behind-the-scenes stories from weddings across the UK and overseas.

For engaged couples planning their wedding, Marcus and Nathan also offer expert advice on choosing wedding entertainment, booking suppliers early, and making sure guests stay entertained throughout the day.

In this episode we cover:

• What singing waiters actually do at weddings
• How the surprise element works during the wedding breakfast
• The acting and planning behind the performance
• Funny and unforgettable wedding stories from real events
• Why entertainment is one of the most important parts of a wedding day
• Advice for brides, grooms and engaged couples planning their wedding

If you are newly engaged, planning your big day, or looking for unique wedding entertainment ideas, this episode is packed with insight, laughter and behind-the-scenes stories from the wedding industry.

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Welcome back to Totally Absolutely Engaged. In this episode, Isla and Paul sit down with the team from The Plough Inn, one of Cheshire’s most popular wedding venues, to talk about everything couples should know when choosing and booking their wedding venue.

For many engaged couples, finding the perfect wedding venue is one of the biggest and most exciting parts of wedding planning. The venue sets the tone for the entire day, from the ceremony and reception to the overall atmosphere and guest experience. In this episode we go behind the scenes with a venue that hosts weddings regularly to hear their expert advice, insights, and real experiences from countless wedding days.

We talk about the things brides and grooms often don’t think about when booking a venue, the practical details that can make a big difference on the day, and how couples can make the most of their venue to create a memorable wedding celebration. The conversation also includes some hilarious and unforgettable wedding stories that have happened at the venue over the years.

If you are newly engaged, currently searching for a wedding venue, or in the middle of planning your big day, this episode is full of helpful tips and insider knowledge to help make the process easier.

In this episode we cover
• What couples should consider when booking a wedding venue
• Behind the scenes insight from a busy Cheshire wedding venue
• Wedding planning advice for engaged couples, brides and grooms
• Common things couples forget when planning their wedding day
• Funny and memorable stories from real weddings

Totally Absolutely Engaged is the podcast for couples planning their wedding, featuring honest conversations, expert advice from wedding industry professionals, and real insights into weddings, marriage, and relationships.

Subscribe for more episodes with venues, suppliers, planners, and experts sharing wedding planning tips to help make your journey to “I do” as smooth and enjoyable as possible.

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In this episode, we explore why more couples are choosing celebrants for their wedding ceremonies and how celebrant-led ceremonies are shaping the future of modern weddings. If you are planning your ceremony and want something personal, meaningful, and completely reflective of your relationship, this episode is for you.

We touch briefly on the difference between a celebrant and a registrar, but focus mainly on what makes celebrant ceremonies so special. From personalised music choices and readings to speeches, storytelling, and meaningful moments woven throughout the ceremony, we discuss how couples can create a ceremony that feels truly their own.

The conversation highlights how celebrants work closely with couples to tell their love story, involve family and friends, and design a ceremony that feels relaxed, authentic, and memorable. Whether you want something romantic, modern, light-hearted, or deeply emotional, celebrant-led ceremonies offer the freedom to shape your wedding in a way that feels right for you.
Perfect for engaged couples, brides and grooms, and anyone in the early stages of wedding planning, this episode offers inspiration and gentle guidance to help you create a ceremony that goes beyond tradition and feels genuinely personal.

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In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Phil, owner and lead photographer of Zap Image, a highly experienced wedding photographer with over 15 years in the wedding industry and one of the original Hub members.

Phil shares his journey from a corporate sales career to becoming a full-time wedding photographer, including the personal story behind the name Zap Image and how photographing his own wedding sparked a career that now spans hundreds of weddings, destination shoots, and iconic venues across the UK and beyond.

This episode is packed with expert wedding photography advice for engaged couples, brides, and grooms. Phil explains his candid, documentary-led approach to wedding photography, why natural moments matter more than stiff poses, and how he captures real emotion by knowing when to step in and when to step back. He also shares practical insights on group photos, timelines, photo dashes, evening shots, and why guest interaction is key to relaxed wedding photos.

Isla and Paul dig into the questions couples really want answered, including how long wedding photographers stay on the day, how photos are backed up safely, turnaround times for previews and full galleries, and what couples often regret not having photographed. Phil also gives honest advice on choosing the right wedding photographer, understanding pricing, avoiding common planning mistakes, and how much creative control couples should give their photographer.

The conversation also covers behind-the-scenes realities of the wedding industry, from working with videographers and content creators to navigating tight timelines, lighting challenges, and unexpected moments. Phil shares his biggest tips for keeping wedding photography stress-free, authentic, and enjoyable, reminding couples that their photos are about memories, not perfection.

Whether you are newly engaged, deep into wedding planning, or simply love learning how weddings really work, this episode offers invaluable advice, real stories, and expert insight from someone who has truly seen it all.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

On this week’s episode, the duo are joined by the incredible Emma, co-founder of The Precious Pets, a professional wedding dog chaperone service she runs alongside her partner Ade. Together, they’ve appeared on Dragons’ Den and This Morning, sharing their expertise on including dogs in weddings.
In this fascinating and truly unique episode, Emma breaks down the entire process of preparing your dog to be part of your wedding day. From understanding your dog’s personality and temperament, to outfit fittings, assigned roles, rehearsal checks, and that all-important walk down the aisle - nothing is left uncovered.

Packed full of expert insight, heartwarming stories, and the weird and wonderful ways your dog can be involved in your big day, this episode is a must-listen for couples planning a dog-friendly wedding.

If you’re obsessed with your pets and couldn’t imagine saying “I do” without your furry family members, this is one episode you won’t want to miss. 🐶💍

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged! This week, Isla and Paul sit down with Laura, owner of Miss Deal Casino Tables, to explore one of the fastest-growing trends in wedding entertainment.

From cruise ships and corporate events to unforgettable wedding receptions, Laura reveals the insider secrets behind hosting casino tables at weddings. She breaks down everything couples need to know, from casino setup and easy to follow rule explanations to the exciting prizes guests can win on the night.

If you’ve never considered casino tables for your wedding before, this episode might just change your mind. Laura explains why they’re the perfect ice breaker, a brilliant way to warm up the evening, and a fun alternative to traditional reception entertainment.

Suitable for all ages and increasingly popular with modern couples, casino tables are fast becoming a must have feature for weddings looking to offer something a little different.

Tune in to discover whether casino entertainment could be the winning hand for your big day! ♠️💍

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul.

In this week’s episode, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Joe Reeves, a wedding saxophone player whose career has taken him from school performances to playing for brands and names like Manchester United, Porsche, and Gymshark.

Joe shares honest insight into the biggest mistakes couples make when booking live wedding entertainment, and breaks down the reality of having a sax player at your wedding - beyond the Instagram hype. He opens up about his own journey, from starting out as a more reserved performer to becoming an artist who fully engages with the crowd and brings the party to life.

The conversation also covers budgeting for live entertainment, what couples should expect from the booking process, and the pros and cons of hiring a wedding sax player. Joe explains why couples should be cautious when searching for a bargain - and what can go wrong when price becomes the priority.

If you’re considering live music for your wedding, this episode is packed with real advice, industry insight, and behind-the-scenes truth you won’t want to miss.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul! 

On today's bonus episode, the pair are joined by Esme, one of the organisers of the hub wedding showcase. If you are recently engaged, or in the depths of wedding planning, you NEED to listen to this episode as it contains exclusive information about the upcoming wedding show on the 22nd February 2026.

• Live podcast experience
• Free goodies and discounts
• Advice from expert suppliers
• Food and drinks
• No venue pressure

We will see you there! 

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, the wedding planning podcast hosted by Isla and Paul, where real couples get honest advice from real wedding experts.

In this episode, Isla and Paul are joined by Jenny, owner of Swanley Meadows Tipi Weddings & Events, a stunning outdoor wedding venue in Cheshire offering ceremonies under the open sky followed by tipi wedding receptions. Jenny shares expert, behind-the-scenes insight into what couples really need to know before booking a wedding venue.

Together, they dive into:
How to choose the right wedding venue for your style, budget and guest list
Money-saving tips couples often overlook when booking venues
The real pros and cons of outdoor and tipi weddings in the UK
What couples should prioritise - and what they can skip
Common mistakes couples make when choosing a venue (and how to avoid them)

Whether you’re deciding between an outdoor wedding venue, a tipi wedding, or a more traditional setting, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you plan with confidence and avoid costly regrets.

If you’re engaged and currently searching for the perfect wedding venue, this episode is a must-listen.

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