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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, we’re turning up the volume with special guest Harry from HM Sounds, a professional wedding DJ who knows exactly how to keep the dancefloor packed and the vibes immaculate. 

Harry drops the beat and the knowledge as he unpacks what couples should (and definitely shouldn’t) do when it comes to their wedding music, DJ setup, and reception playlist. From wedding failures to crowd-pleasing anthems, this episode is full of insider tips, laughs, and real talk that every soon-to-be-wed couple needs before saying “I do.”

Whether you’re planning your dream wedding or just love a good behind-the-booth story, hit play and let’s spin through the world of wedding DJing, one track at a time. 

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In this episode of The Added Extra Unpacked, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Laura from Vision Wave, an award-winning wedding videographer, to unpack the wild, funny, and sometimes shocking world of wedding videography.

They dive deep into wedding day dos and don’ts, the most common mistakes guests make that ruin wedding videos, and essential wedding planning tips every couple should know before saying “I do.” Laura also reveals her biggest piece of advice for couples, her top wedding icks, and how to make sure your wedding video looks cinematic and stress-free.

If you’re planning a wedding, working in the wedding industry, or just love behind-the-scenes stories from wedding pros, this episode is packed with expert insights, funny wedding stories, and real advice from a professional videographer.

🎧 Tune in for hilarious moments, practical wedding planning tips, and a look at what really happens behind the camera on your big day!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by professional wedding content creator Lisa, who’s here to tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask: “Can’t my guests just record the wedding on their phones?” 

Lisa shares insider knowledge on why guest phone videos often miss the magic, plus the must-know benefits of having a dedicated content creator on your big day. From capturing the candid moments you’ll treasure forever to avoiding those wedding day “icks,” Lisa spills her top tips and industry secrets.

🎥 Expect hilarious behind-the-scenes stories, shocking real-life experiences, and practical advice every bride and groom should hear before saying “I do.”

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by Liam from the stunning wedding venue Lion & Swan. Liam reveals an exclusive new package designed especially for grooms, plus insider venue secrets every couple needs to know before the big day.

From handling drunk guests and navigating family feuds to switching up your venue layout for maximum impact, Liam shares invaluable tips and behind-the-scenes advice straight from the wedding industry. You’ll also hear about the biggest “icks” wedding pros encounter-and how to avoid them!

👰🤵 Whether you’re a bride, groom, or part of the wedding party, this episode is packed with must-know insights to help you plan a smooth, unforgettable celebration.

✨ Don’t miss it-subscribe for more expert wedding tips, venue advice, and hilarious real-life stories on Unpacked with Isla & Paul!

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Welcome to a brand-new series of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! 

In this week’s episode, they sit down with expert wedding coordinator Joella to dive deep into the world of wedding planning. Joella shares insider secrets about her role in guiding couples through the wedding process, the most common mistakes to avoid, and the must-know tips that can help your big day run smoothly and stress-free.

From hilarious (and slightly harrowing) real-life client dilemmas to practical advice every bride and groom needs before walking down the aisle, this episode is packed with valuable insights you won’t want to miss.

👰🤵 Perfect for brides, grooms, and anyone planning a wedding!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla! 🎙️

In this fun and honest chat, we dive into all things wedding — from unexpected icks (yes, sunglasses at the altar made the list) to essential tips you’ll actually use on your big day. Whether you're planning your dream wedding or just love the drama of bridal blunders, this episode is for you.

💍 Hear our personal wedding do's and don'ts
🍾 Laugh along with stories of drunken brides and awkward moments
💬 Share your own wedding icks in the comments!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked!
This week, we’re joined on the sofa by a very special guest—Jen from the award-nominated Peony Rose Florist. Jen shares her expert wedding planning tips, common floral mistakes couples make, and insider advice every bride and groom should hear.

Whether you're newly engaged or deep in wedding prep, this is one episode you do not want to miss!

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Welcome back to Unpacked with your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla.

In this week’s episode, we explore our most popular wedding entertainment options that keep guests of all ages entertained. From the crowd-favorite wedding arcade machine to outdoor garden games and indoor soft play areas for kids, we’re sharing the best ways to elevate your big day.

Whether you're planning a rustic outdoor wedding, a modern celebration, or a family-friendly reception, these fun and interactive entertainment choices will keep your guests smiling from "I do" to the last dance.

✨ Watch now to get inspired and discover how to make your wedding truly unforgettable.

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County Brides Awards Recap | Celebrating Our Special Touches Win & Elenarda’s Unforgettable Night

Join Elenarda, Paul, and Isla as they relive the glitz and glamour of the County Brides Awards Ceremony, where they proudly took home the Special Touches Award! 🎉

In this episode, the team reflects on the incredible support from their brides and grooms whose votes made the win possible – thank you from the bottom of our hearts! 💍

Expect plenty of laughs as they share behind-the-scenes moments from the night, including Elenarda’s tipsy adventuresand her unexpected escort off the premises. 😂

Plus, a big shoutout to all the other County Brides winners – congratulations on your amazing achievements!

🎧 Tune in now for wedding industry insights, award night antics, and a few stories that are too good to miss.

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Are some wedding traditions just... outdated? In this episode, Elenarda, Paul and Isla dive into the customs that couples (and our audience) think should finally be left in the past. From bouquet tosses to garter rituals, we’re breaking down what no longer fits modern weddings — and why. Plus, as one of the industry’s leading event companies, we share our expert advice on what to do instead. Whether you're planning your big day or just love all things wedding-related, you won’t want to miss these fresh, modern tips.

🎙️ Topics we cover:

• Outdated wedding traditions that need to go
• Our take as a professional events company
• Expert tips to modernise your celebration
• Real opinions from our audience
• How to balance tradition with personal style

✨ Want a wedding that actually feels like you? Start here.

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