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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

On this week’s episode, the duo are joined by the incredible Amy, founder of Petal & Portrait, a live wedding illustration company bringing one of the fastest-growing wedding trends to life. Live illustrating is becoming an increasingly popular way to add a unique, personal touch to a wedding day - and Amy dives into exactly why it’s such a special experience for couples and guests alike.

From unexpected wedding-day disasters to unforgettable magical moments, Amy shares the honest truth behind what really happens when live illustrations meet real weddings. Along the way, she offers insider tips, behind-the-scenes stories, and expert advice on how to make your wedding day truly stand out.

This episode is funny from start to finish and packed with valuable insights to help ensure your wedding day is the best it can possibly be. ✨💍

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by professional wedding content creator Lisa, who’s here to tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask: “Can’t my guests just record the wedding on their phones?” 

Lisa shares insider knowledge on why guest phone videos often miss the magic, plus the must-know benefits of having a dedicated content creator on your big day. From capturing the candid moments you’ll treasure forever to avoiding those wedding day “icks,” Lisa spills her top tips and industry secrets.

🎥 Expect hilarious behind-the-scenes stories, shocking real-life experiences, and practical advice every bride and groom should hear before saying “I do.”

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul.

In this week’s episode, the pair are joined by Vicky, owner of bridal boutique Swan Brides, for an honest and insightful conversation about what really goes into saying yes to the dress.

While many brides dream of the perfect dress moment, this episode lifts the curtain on the full reality - from the initial appointment and choosing the one, to alterations, timelines, and those all-too-common last-minute changes. 

Vicky shares expert insight into the do’s and don’ts of wedding dress shopping, helping brides avoid costly mistakes and future regret.

If you’re currently planning your wedding or about to start dress shopping, this is a must-listen episode packed with practical advice and real-world bridal expertise.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul.

In this short, snappy episode, the duo share details of their exciting giveaway. To enter, simply watch last week’s 12 Days of Christmas episode, head to the pinned Instagram giveaway post, and comment with the piece of advice you loved most. Like, follow, and share for a bonus entry.

They also dive into their recent TikTok virality - and the controversy it’s sparked in the comments. Love it or hate it, they want to hear your take, so head over and join the conversation.

As always, you’ll find plenty of honest advice across their socials to help take the stress out of wedding planning and make the journey to “I do” a little easier.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

In this festive CHRISTMAS SPECIAL, the duo brings you their twist on the 12 Days of Christmas - sharing 12 essential wedding tips every couple needs to hear before their big day. This episode is overflowing with expert wedding planning hacks and exclusive advice designed to simplify your journey from “Yes” to “I do.”

From smart budgeting strategies to navigating best man speeches, managing family expectations, and ditching outdated wedding traditions, this episode covers everything couples need for a smoother, stress-free planning experience.

And to say a massive thank you for all your support, Isla and Paul are hosting a Christmas GIVEAWAY! 🎁

To enter, head over to their social pages @totallyabsolutelyengaged for your chance to win some amazing festive prizes.

Tune in, take notes, and get ready to elevate your wedding planning with this holiday-packed episode!

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

This week, the duo are joined by the incredible DJ Chris G, an expert wedding DJ who brings far more than just great music. Chris shares his biggest piece of advice for brides and grooms, along with insider tips on how to keep the dancefloor packed from the first song to the final send-off.

From choosing the perfect first-dance track to transitioning into high-energy party anthems, plus games, crowd interaction, and clever ways to keep guests entertained, Chris breaks down the must-dos for creating an unforgettable wedding celebration.

If you want your wedding to be the one everyone talks about, you won’t want to miss this episode. 🎶💍

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

This week, they’re joined by Sophie from Sophie Brown Makeup, a professional makeup artist with years of experience in the bridal beauty industry.

Sophie shares her signature timeless bridal makeup style and explains why classic looks age far better than short-lived trends when you're looking back at your wedding photos. She also reveals her biggest makeup hacks to ensure your glam stays flawless, fresh, and unmoving from the moment you walk down the aisle to the last dance of the night.

Alongside this, Sophie offers her essential do’s and don’ts for both before and on the big day, giving brides everything they need to feel confident and look their best.

If you want expert advice to achieve perfect wedding-day makeup, this is the episode you won’t want to miss. ✨

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, we’re brushing up on all things bridal beauty with the fabulous Toni, owner of Hair by Toni - a pro wedding hairstylist who knows exactly how to make every bride feel like a million dollars on their big day. ✨

From achieving the perfect curl to handling those fussy bridesmaids with grace, Toni shares expert insights, tried-and-true techniques, and behind-the-scenes stories from years in the wedding industry.

If you’re planning your wedding, searching for the right bridal hair inspiration, or just want to know what it takes to create flawless wedding day hair, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and get ready to let your hair down - beautifully! 

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, they’re joined by Rhian, the creative force behind Bake-a-Licious, to talk all things wedding cakes - from design inspiration to delicious disasters. Rhian takes us behind the scenes of her meticulous cake-making process, revealing the artistry, planning, and precision that goes into creating the perfect centrepiece for a couple’s big day.

She also shares the latest wedding cake trends, what’s currently in fashion, and her top expert tips for avoiding any last-minute cake catastrophes. And of course, she answers the age-old question: do you really need a wedding cake at all?

Whether you’re deep in wedding planning, searching for cake ideas, or just curious if fruitcake is still a thing, this episode will leave you feeling confident, inspired, and maybe even a little hungry.

🎧 Tune in for insider advice, expert insights, and plenty of sweet laughs!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Alison from Lasting Memories Wedding and Event Styling for a fun and inspiring chat all about luxury wedding venue styling. From expert venue dressing tips and design ideas to clever ways to repurpose ceremony décor for your evening reception, Alison shares how to make every wedding space look stunning and cohesive.

You’ll also hear her best advice for couples on the big day, including how to keep children (and guests!) from accidentally disrupting the décor or wedding videos.

Plus, Alison opens up about the shocking story behind her viral Instagram comeback after her original, years-in-the-making account was hacked and deleted. Her resilience and success in rebuilding her brand from scratch is an inspiring listen for wedding pros, business owners, and anyone chasing their dream.

✨ Packed with expert styling insights, wedding inspiration, and motivational moments, this episode is a must-listen for anyone planning a wedding or working in the industry.

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