Lots of mono folks think that polyamory is all about sex. But it’s quite possible for polyamorous folks to end up in a sexless relationship. Why does physical intimacy disappear from a relationship? And how can you get back the passion and desire you had when you first got together.

There are six beliefs we constantly see sabotage polyamorous relationships. If you have any of these beliefs you need to get rid of them right now. In this episode, we’re going to break those beliefs down.

It’s been a long time since we’ve done a group update! So our nesting partner Amanda is joining us to discuss what happened in 2021. Topics include our kids, catching COVID, working together, and more.

We all know that pain is an opportunity to grow. And when your relationships are full of hard feelings and stressful conversations you have two options. You can wallow in the pain. Or you can use those difficulties as a launching pad to build loving, secure relationships.

Everyone has an opinion about how you should be running your polyamorous relationships.

But with so many opinions out there, it’s hard to sort the signal from the noise. It’s impossible for all those answers to be right. But the wrong answer can devastate your relationships. So how do you assess the “believability” of all those opinions and avoid bad poly advice?

If you’re in a polyamorous relationship, it’s easy to blame a lot of problems on your metamour. But here’s the truth: If your metamour is in control of your relationship then either you or your partner is doing something wrong. The power in your relationship doesn’t lie with another person. It lies with you and your partner. And when your relationship is solid no one can tear you apart.

Every year we work with dozens of non-monogamous clients and talk with hundreds more.

At the end of the year, we discuss: What’s working RIGHT NOW to build thriving polyamorous relationships? Wouldn’t it be great if you could reap the benefits of all that experience? 😎 Well, now you can. Here are the 8 polyamory tips you need to know for 2022.

What’s your attachment style? Chances are, you know the answer. But what if we told you it didn’t matter? Attachment theory is nice to know. But here’s the truth: It won’t fix your relationships. So let’s talk about attachment theory. The good. The bad. And what you REALLY need to be doing to get back the love and security in your polyamorous relationships.

Time management is one of the biggest challenges in polyamory. So today we want to bust 5 common myths about time management in polyamory. Overcoming these myths will put you one step closer to the thriving relationships you and your partner(s) deserve.

When you’re polyamorous, you want each of your relationships to have the freedom to grow. But it might feel like there’s something between you. Some ONE between you. Because breaking up with someone doesn’t mean that they’re gone from your life. And if you’re letting your past relationships affect your current ones, then you’re still dating your ex. So, how do you stop letting your past relationships affect your new ones?